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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say that's true.
From what we've experienced since getting into the scene, most people we meet are bi in some way.
Even if their profile says straight. |
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Hence the number of "fab straight" guys on here!
I don't think it's true I'm unconvinced that there really are as many bisexual women on here in couples profiles as claim to be
Think there are a few that do it just to please their partner, but maybe I'm just being cynical? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I agree..... amazing the amount of messages I get from "straight" guys
my hubby straight as a rake, not interested in men what so ever, "
Mine too - he finds it a total and utter turn off. Not to say we wont play with bi guys as long as it is clear they respect our boundaries and play straight. On the other hand I am turned on by women and more than happy to play bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say that the natural state of affairs is that anyone is capable of having sex with anyone i.e. we're all naturally bisexual.
For evidence you only need look at the pre-Abrahamic cultures of the world. In the pre-Christian Romans, Greeks etc all where what we would call today Bisexual.
So the terms Homosexual / Heterosexual and Bisexual are nothing more than recent social constructs enforced by social conditioning.
"Preference" is a momentary thing and changes over time. |
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"I'd say that the natural state of affairs is that anyone is capable of having sex with anyone i.e. we're all naturally bisexual.
For evidence you only need look at the pre-Abrahamic cultures of the world. In the pre-Christian Romans, Greeks etc all where what we would call today Bisexual.
So the terms Homosexual / Heterosexual and Bisexual are nothing more than recent social constructs enforced by social conditioning.
"Preference" is a momentary thing and changes over time. "
No,I am not capable of having sex with a woman. |
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"I'd say that the natural state of affairs is that anyone is capable of having sex with anyone i.e. we're all naturally bisexual.
For evidence you only need look at the pre-Abrahamic cultures of the world. In the pre-Christian Romans, Greeks etc all where what we would call today Bisexual.
So the terms Homosexual / Heterosexual and Bisexual are nothing more than recent social constructs enforced by social conditioning.
"Preference" is a momentary thing and changes over time.
No,I am not capable of having sex with a woman."
What!? Not even a bit of finger blasting?  |
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"I'd say that the natural state of affairs is that anyone is capable of having sex with anyone i.e. we're all naturally bisexual.
For evidence you only need look at the pre-Abrahamic cultures of the world. In the pre-Christian Romans, Greeks etc all where what we would call today Bisexual.
So the terms Homosexual / Heterosexual and Bisexual are nothing more than recent social constructs enforced by social conditioning.
"Preference" is a momentary thing and changes over time.
No,I am not capable of having sex with a woman.
What!? Not even a bit of finger blasting? "
Gross!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hence the number of "fab straight" guys on here!
I don't think it's true I'm unconvinced that there really are as many bisexual women on here in couples profiles as claim to be
Think there are a few that do it just to please their partner, but maybe I'm just being cynical?"
I tend to agree. But I am pretty cynical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who would say there is a little bi curiosity in all of us, male or female, or is that not true ?"
nope...and we're both bi. We've met people who are completely, utterly and totally heterosexual and are happy to respect that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say that the natural state of affairs is that anyone is capable of having sex with anyone i.e. we're all naturally bisexual.
For evidence you only need look at the pre-Abrahamic cultures of the world. In the pre-Christian Romans, Greeks etc all where what we would call today Bisexual.
So the terms Homosexual / Heterosexual and Bisexual are nothing more than recent social constructs enforced by social conditioning.
"Preference" is a momentary thing and changes over time. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way are we evem the slightest bit bi, curious or otherwise. I am 100% straight and whilst I may like to watch my wife be with another guy I am not attracted to them in any way whatsoever and will automatically delete and decline and profile that is not 100% straight. I don't want any guy looking at me sideways. Just my preference. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"who would say there is a little bi curiosity in all of us, male or female, or is that not true ?
nope...and we're both bi. We've met people who are completely, utterly and totally heterosexual and are happy to respect that. "
Yep same there are no manditories in Swinging. Its free choice or nothing really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who would say there is a little bi curiosity in all of us, male or female, or is that not true ?"
its a choice and some make it some dont ,some do it because its cool ,some in the moment and some just because its sex and its available
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Lol why is it so difficult to understand for so many Bi Guys that because you are doesn't mean that everyone else is.
Mrs Phoenix is Bi and loves everything about it.
I'm not. I am more than confident enough to explore if I thought there was pleasure there for me but playing Bi does not appeal in the slightest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree..... amazing the amount of messages I get from "straight" guys
my hubby straight as a rake, not interested in men what so ever, "
Lost count of the number of couples where the lady thinks this where I know different.
Not saying your husband isn't straight,btw.
I've even seen ranty profiles that say if you've even looked at a tgirl or a bi guy they'll block you...... then mr messages me .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
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why is there? why can't people assert their heterosexuality without it being questioned? the move towards respect, equality and non discrimination works all ways...those of us who are not would not want our sexuality questioned...why wouldn't we respect the straight amongst us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
why is there? why can't people assert their heterosexuality without it being questioned? the move towards respect, equality and non discrimination works all ways...those of us who are not would not want our sexuality questioned...why wouldn't we respect the straight amongst us?"
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"I'd say that's true.
From what we've experienced since getting into the scene, most people we meet are bi in some way.
Even if their profile says straight."
People say this a lot, and I'm sure plenty of men on here do hide being bi. But getting lots of messages from 'straight' guys can't be extrapolated into 'most' men being bi to some degree. It just means you are getting messages from those who have done that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I believe monosexuality, bisexuality, pan sexuality, gender inclusive and gender neutral sexual orientations are all valid identifications for individuals. |
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"Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
why is there? why can't people assert their heterosexuality without it being questioned? the move towards respect, equality and non discrimination works all ways...those of us who are not would not want our sexuality questioned...why wouldn't we respect the straight amongst us?"
It's pretty frustrating when someone finds it really hard to understand that certain people are actually completely and utterly straight. I don't know what they don't get,it naffs me off when they think they know me better than myself. I would rather be celibate for the rest of my life than go down on a woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
why is there? why can't people assert their heterosexuality without it being questioned? the move towards respect, equality and non discrimination works all ways...those of us who are not would not want our sexuality questioned...why wouldn't we respect the straight amongst us?
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no actual answer to the question then...figures... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of the "Sir, the straight man doth protest too much" going on here.
Not that I'm saying all the guys who have been quick to state they are not in the slightest bit bi, actually are. You know, just saying!
why is there? why can't people assert their heterosexuality without it being questioned? the move towards respect, equality and non discrimination works all ways...those of us who are not would not want our sexuality questioned...why wouldn't we respect the straight amongst us?
no actual answer to the question then...figures..."
Oh FFS!! It was a tongue in cheek comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"who would say there is a little bi curiosity in all of us, male or female, or is that not true ?"
Not true at all, 100% straight here, never desire anything with another guy.
The thought of me touching another guy or him me (even by accident) is a total turn off and no, it's nothing to do with me not being comfortable with my sexuality as I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone is Bi....
On a range of 0 to 100 percent..
Be happy.
Not everyone is bi. I'm not.
Read the second line ??"
Yes i did read the second line. Im 0. That means im not bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's probably been said but I think so OP, more so in women because I think we are generally more open minded  "
I'm not sure if wanting to have sex with the same sex is anything to do with being open minded or not.
If you don't fancy fun with the same sex it don't make you any less open minded, just means you don't fancy it. |
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"who would say there is a little bi curiosity in all of us, male or female, or is that not true ?"
Not all some are some are not some change from one to another some even have no interest in sex at all. |
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