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Chatting then blocked

By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

The other night a couple contacted me started chatting with the male of the couple, chatted for around an hour exchanged a few pics, everything going well spoke about arranging a meet ( instigated by the male of the cpl) last message from them/him was let's speak again soon ....next day I go to respond to a message from them and find they have blocked me ...what's that all about?

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe the guy does the pre-vetting then checks with the Mrs later if you're her type and if not block?

Or the guy just wanted pics of you for his own reasons and enjoyed the chat?

Who knows why people act the way the do, they had their reasons for blocking I'm sure. People are strange!

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Maybe the guy does the pre-vetting then checks with the Mrs later if you're her type and if not block?

Or the guy just wanted pics of you for his own reasons and enjoyed the chat?

Who knows why people act the way the do, they had their reasons for blocking I'm sure. People are strange!

Yeah maybe your right but I'd have thought a message saying thanks but no thanks would have been better ...manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who knows what people are thinking on this site?

My last 7 meets have all cancelled or just failed to turn up?

I'm currently sitting here waiting for a meet to arrive she is 45 minutes late?

What's so difficult about arranging a meet and turning up on time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some really weird people on here maybe he was posing as a couple

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had that too ....cancelled or no shows ...too many like that now here unfortunatly

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi

There are some really weird people on here maybe he was posing as a couple"

Could be never thought of that

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

If its ever just the guy in the couple we won't chat beyond pleasantries. Some might be making initial enquiries and if that's how they do things its fine but we have found its usually the guy getting his jollies, deleting all the messages and blocking so his wife has mo idea.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who knows what people are thinking on this site?

My last 7 meets have all cancelled or just failed to turn up?

I'm currently sitting here waiting for a meet to arrive she is 45 minutes late?

What's so difficult about arranging a meet and turning up on time?"

It's not difficult and just shows as many ladies and cpls are time wasters.

Just have to pick yourself up and go to those who are worth it x

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"If its ever just the guy in the couple we won't chat beyond pleasantries. Some might be making initial enquiries and if that's how they do things its fine but we have found its usually the guy getting his jollies, deleting all the messages and blocking so his wife has mo idea."

Think your right ...I'll learn to less trusting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had the same thing yesterday. Chatting to a couple, they sent a friend request, I accepted and sent a couple of face pics, next thing I'm blocked. I'm guessing they found me hideous, or were expecting pictures of me getting it on with ladies in my friends only pics. Who knows?

I'm big enough to take a "thanks, but you're not for us". Don't like all this unexplained blocking. It's rude, in my opinion.

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Had the same thing yesterday. Chatting to a couple, they sent a friend request, I accepted and sent a couple of face pics, next thing I'm blocked. I'm guessing they found me hideous, or were expecting pictures of me getting it on with ladies in my friends only pics. Who knows?

I'm big enough to take a "thanks, but you're not for us". Don't like all this unexplained blocking. It's rude, in my opinion.

Totally agree with you manners don't cost anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've hit the block button instead of the save recently. Got a terse message from another account.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I've hit the block button instead of the save recently. Got a terse message from another account. "

I hit delete by mistake on a message, got a very to the point message. Safe to say any chance we had of meeting went out the window.

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By *leur de lisWoman over a year ago

Buxton

"The other night a couple contacted me started chatting with the male of the couple, chatted for around an hour exchanged a few pics, everything going well spoke about arranging a meet ( instigated by the male of the cpl) last message from them/him was let's speak again soon ....next day I go to respond to a message from them and find they have blocked me ...what's that all about?

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway "

I would say she looked and didn't like what she saw. Just move on its stupid fretting on who block you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway "
it was the guy chatting he showed your profile to woman if indeed she existed and she didnt like it .......sad but could be true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like he was either pre-vetting, or, and I'm sure this happens a lot, she had no idea he was making plans and lost it with him, and your block was the collateral.

I recently chatted to a male half of a couple about a party we were both invited too, turned out his wife had no idea they'd been invited and lost the plot when she found out he'd been arranging things without her knowledge.

I'd just write them off and move on mate.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway it was the guy chatting he showed your profile to woman if indeed she existed and she didnt like it .......sad but could be true "

Always better to block than say "wife doesn't fancy you".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had our first block the other day. Similar circumstances to the OP's, got chatting to a couple for a few hours seemed like we had things in common and were planning to arrange a meet. The following morning when we tried to message them, up popped the three reasons why we couldn't. Bit miffed at first to be honest, probably because it's never happened before and you take it to heart, but like others have said on here. Could be a number of reasons, forget it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always better to block than say "wife doesn't fancy you"."
well no not better just avoids the awkwardness of ' why'

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway

I would say she looked and didn't like what she saw. Just move on its stupid fretting on who block you. "

I don't mind that I'm not everyone's cup of tea, it's the lack of manners a simple response of no thanks would have sufficed ...being blocked isn't a problem

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"We had our first block the other day. Similar circumstances to the OP's, got chatting to a couple for a few hours seemed like we had things in common and were planning to arrange a meet. The following morning when we tried to message them, up popped the three reasons why we couldn't. Bit miffed at first to be honest, probably because it's never happened before and you take it to heart, but like others have said on here. Could be a number of reasons, forget it and move on. "

I have ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone just fabbed all my photos then blocked me. Some strange people on here hahahah

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Always better to block than say "wife doesn't fancy you".well no not better just avoids the awkwardness of ' why' "

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Someone saw our face pictures and deleted their account. To be fair we do have faces for radio

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By *edzyWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Someone saw our face pictures and deleted their account. To be fair we do have faces for radio

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

People have their reasons tho when speaking to couples I tend try and chat to both the male and female before hand.

Tho is always a bit suspect when the female of the couple is always busy etc.. Sets the alarm bells ringing that could be a guy is blatantly after pics.

But as mentioned before the male half may have later shown the pics to the wife and she didn't fancy yourself.

Who knows how people work on here....

Wouldnt stress or worry too much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone saw our face pictures and deleted their account. To be fair we do have faces for radio

I'd wear that badge with pride.

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By *teve197_ukMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Sick of a lot of people on here , mainly straight guys posing as the woman,had a lot of meets on fabguys with bi men and their female partners but to be honest a lot of people on here are really up themselves .

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Hi

There are some really weird people on here maybe he was posing as a couple"

This..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Sick of a lot of people on here , mainly straight guys posing as the woman,had a lot of meets on fabguys with bi men and their female partners but to be honest a lot of people on here are really up themselves ."

Not all of us are!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People continue to amaze me on fab

Met this guy a few weeks ago and had a pleasant social with him. We parted on good terms and I said we could keep in touch as friends. Later that day I was going to verify him as genuine but he had blocked me. Couldn't care to be honest as I didn't fancy him but strange anyway

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's something I don't understand,I never misread the signals... Just find it odd and it does put you off, well me anyway "

I would just block back and move on OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always better to block than say "wife doesn't fancy you"."

Exactly, I don't like telling people they're unattractive to me, when they've just sent a face pic, so I just block.

I don't know why it's easier for people to hear that they're not to someone's taste? A block, is a no thank you, just move on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm big enough to take a "thanks, but you're not for us". Don't like all this unexplained blocking. It's rude, in my opinion. 100% agree with this, I can take a no from others ! And always send a quick note back to acknowledge the fact that I appreciate the reply even if it's a no !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't also like to tell anyone they are unappealing to me

It's not nice but then stringing someone along isn't either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've recently come to the conclusion that there's probably only about 10% of fab members ( male, female,couples etc.) that are genuine. I appreciate that we are both grotesquely fat and ugly, but don't understand why people bother chatting after we have sent full face/body pics then a few days later just ignore us. Got used to it now, and expect it as normal. We go to clubs instead for meets - at least the people there are serious about swinging.

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By *isFab OP Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"People continue to amaze me on fab

That's just crazy, I just find it ignorant

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