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Why is it so hard to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible!

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By *penminded respectableMan  over a year ago

Nottingham

Your profile isn't the best not much on there and some are put off with up for anything lol

Maybe a few flattering pics as well.

But I may be wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

It isn't all about looks.

Are you doing anything different on other sites that accounts for your success there?

I would say write a little more on your profile, remove your second picture, try and get to a club or a social and chat on the forum a bit.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

cock pics in public profile a complete turnoff, write more about you and your interests, make your profile stand out remember there is 70% men on here so competition is tough

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By *uziebabyWoman  over a year ago

Worcester


"Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible! "

Its not if you have what people are interested in. Try shaking your profile up putting more about you better pictures as right now its not exactly a scintillating profile.

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible! "

I can 100% guarantee that it's not because of how you look. Especially when we can't see what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go to local social events and or swingers clubs. Get yourself out there meet some people. Get some feedback even if its just social feedback. That way people you contact will know your not a weirdo. Also write a little more a out yourself. Take the dick picture off. If they want to see your dick your cam pvt message it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A year is 52 isn't it?

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

As you've been on here before, you will know how it works. The most successful guys, are those who have written a well thought out profile, with some good pics. Maybe that's a place to start and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP what is the reason you are keen to use Fab, when other sites are working well for you? Why not just stick to what works? In all

honesty though, as you are only looking for single women, you have with all due respect come to a site where there are relatively few single women. So perhaps it's the site not you? After all different sites cater for different needs. The other thing to consider is, what is your profile like on the sites where you get success? Is it the same or is it different from your Fab profile?

Mrs

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Your pics give no indication of what you look like and you havent given much info about yourself

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Go to local social events and or swingers clubs. Get yourself out there meet some people. Get some feedback even if its just social feedback. That way people you contact will know your not a weirdo. Also write a little more a out yourself. Take the dick picture off. If they want to see your dick your cam pvt message it. "

In a nutshell shell this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Go to local social events and or swingers clubs. Get yourself out there meet some people. Get some feedback even if its just social feedback. That way people you contact will know your not a weirdo. Also write a little more a out yourself. Take the dick picture off. If they want to see your dick your cam pvt message it.

In a nutshell shell this "

Not a nutshell shell

Oh goodness...you knew what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP what is the reason you are keen to use Fab, when other sites are working well for you? Why not just stick to what works? In all

honesty though, as you are only looking for single women, you have with all due respect come to a site where there are relatively few single women. So perhaps it's the site not you? After all different sites cater for different needs. The other thing to consider is, what is your profile like on the sites where you get success? Is it the same or is it different from your Fab profile?

Mrs"

A few single women. Really?

There's hundreds.

Also some women like cock pics just not sent in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP what is the reason you are keen to use Fab, when other sites are working well for you? Why not just stick to what works? In all

honesty though, as you are only looking for single women, you have with all due respect come to a site where there are relatively few single women. So perhaps it's the site not you? After all different sites cater for different needs. The other thing to consider is, what is your profile like on the sites where you get success? Is it the same or is it different from your Fab profile?

Mrs

A few single women. Really?

There's hundreds.

Also some women like cock pics just not sent in a message.

"

Some say on this site there are about 50 men for every single woman. If that's true, compared to the men, there aren't that many, and many men will never gets meet based on those ratios.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

first thing we look at is pics and yours im affraid we wouldnt look any further

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"...

A few single women. Really?...

"

The key word was "relatively".

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for all your replies much appreciated! time to shake things up a little. Good luck to you all ??

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By *andomfodCouple  over a year ago

walsall

Yeah your profile doesn't do much for you.

Think of it like this, if you message a lady, what about your profile would make her message you back?

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By *vetteBondTV/TS  over a year ago

English Riviera


"...some are put off with up for anything lol...

"

Not entirely up for anything, maybe if he embraced the gay he'd fair better!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible! "

Tom Cruise would struggle to meet on here m8, I've been on and off here 4 years and it used to be easier, too much publicity in the national press has flooded the site with men just perving, time wasting, pic collecting and ruining the site? But what can you do x

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

See my status. All questions asked are answered in there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to say in all honesty, I never understand these posts... Fab is what it is. You just find a way to make it work for you!

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By *otlegs80Couple  over a year ago

lancashire


"Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible! "

Need to know more about you on your profile, hate cock pics, pics of your body are far better and you have no verifications. You need to go to some clubs and meet people that can veryfy you. Also offer face pics via private message and always send a face pic when you message someone x hope that helps..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you've been here a year, surely you would have read at least 365 "why is it so hard to get a meet?" threads and adjusted your game accordingly?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What are the other sites you're doing well on? Are they swingers sites, general adult hook up sites, or dating sites?

If they are swingers sites, then work out what's working there and apply the same here. If they are hook up/dating sites, your dealing with a very different audience !!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Been on here about a year without meeting 1 woman I'm know there's better looking guys but I'm probably one of the most genuine honest hard working guys on here, I don't have a problem on other sites but here is mission impossible! "

You definitely need to write more,what you can offer,what you're looking for. Better pictures wouldn't go a miss

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Thanks for all your replies much appreciated! time to shake things up a little. Good luck to you all ??"

What is this...luck...you speak of?

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