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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone can explain why is not nice to have a profile with a bi or bi curious male , when everyone likes bi girls , this site is a sex site, why pepole is so irrational |
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there are number of people who are concerned that Bi-males are more likely to have STIs and thus want the risk cut out. I would say this is unfair just to assume on that alone especially as Describing Bi does not define if they have or how they have had sex with other men. I know some actively are turned off by the idea of men having sex with men, which if they do get uncomfortable with the idea sure I can see them not wanting to be with them, though I feel sorry they are made uncomfortable by such things as it's quite natural. Scientifically the idea Bi or Gay men have more STIs doesn't stand up if people are safe in general and heck there are plenty of straight people who have unprotected sex with many people but hide these fact and then have sex with people who'd object.
In the end don't be hung up about it. There are plenty of people who don't care about it. And if you make a song and dance about it more often than not all Bi and Gay men are accused of being dicks and desperate to shag everything that moves and won't take no for an answer. |
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By *X guyMan
over a year ago
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"there are number of people who are concerned that Bi-males are more likely to have STIs and thus want the risk cut out. I would say this is unfair just to assume on that alone especially as Describing Bi does not define if they have or how they have had sex with other men. I know some actively are turned off by the idea of men having sex with men, which if they do get uncomfortable with the idea sure I can see them not wanting to be with them, though I feel sorry they are made uncomfortable by such things as it's quite natural. Scientifically the idea Bi or Gay men have more STIs doesn't stand up if people are safe in general and heck there are plenty of straight people who have unprotected sex with many people but hide these fact and then have sex with people who'd object.
In the end don't be hung up about it. There are plenty of people who don't care about it. And if you make a song and dance about it more often than not all Bi and Gay men are accused of being dicks and desperate to shag everything that moves and won't take no for an answer."
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"Someone can explain why is not nice to have a profile with a bi or bi curious male , when everyone likes bi girls , this site is a sex site, why pepole is so irrational "
I dont like bi girls .... im straight .... I dont want to meet bi guys either ....because they also meet men .....
Omg ..... this makes me straight ....
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Prefer profiles to say what they are, as a straight couple we just prefer straight play and wouldn't want to be propositioned by the same sex as we have found happens all too often when things get steamy.
We don't care what people do or who they do it with, we only care about what we like in our own bed. So whether they're bi or not doesn't matter as long as they know the score. If a couple stipulates there must be bi-play then yes it would put us off, but thats all. |
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Don't worry about it, just put straight on your profile like most bi guys do and then no one is the wiser. So all those people that say "not meeting bi" end up shagging Bi anyway so it's funny really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry about it, just put straight on your profile like most bi guys do and then no one is the wiser. So all those people that say "not meeting bi" end up shagging Bi anyway so it's funny really."
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
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"Everyone is entitled to a personal preference are they not "
This exactly.
Our profile says we are both straight. Our choice that we do not wish to meet bi or bi- curious. In no way is this intended to offend or imply anything. Just our choice.
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"Everyone is entitled to a personal preference are they not "
Perference is such a bullshit term. If you don't want to play with bi guys because they are higher risk of STD's then that should be perfectly acceptable to say so. It's a fact after all, we shouldn't pander to peoples feelings who get upset by other people stating facts. |
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"Because there are hypocritical idiots and bigots in this world... "
A sweeping generalisation perhaps?
Or do you seriously believe everyone who isn't interested in inviting bi guys to share their sex life is hypocritical bigot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry about it, just put straight on your profile like most bi guys do and then no one is the wiser. So all those people that say "not meeting bi" end up shagging Bi anyway so it's funny really."
Most of the guys that message us have straight on their profile,so all those people stipulating straight guys only might not be meeting who they think they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there are number of people who are concerned that Bi-males are more likely to have STIs and thus want the risk cut out. I would say this is unfair just to assume on that alone especially as Describing Bi does not define if they have or how they have had sex with other men. I know some actively are turned off by the idea of men having sex with men, which if they do get uncomfortable with the idea sure I can see them not wanting to be with them, though I feel sorry they are made uncomfortable by such things as it's quite natural. Scientifically the idea Bi or Gay men have more STIs doesn't stand up if people are safe in general and heck there are plenty of straight people who have unprotected sex with many people but hide these fact and then have sex with people who'd object.
In the end don't be hung up about it. There are plenty of people who don't care about it. And if you make a song and dance about it more often than not all Bi and Gay men are accused of being dicks and desperate to shag everything that moves and won't take no for an answer."
I pulled up stats on this a few months ago and the difference was negligible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry about it, just put straight on your profile like most bi guys do and then no one is the wiser. So all those people that say "not meeting bi" end up shagging Bi anyway so it's funny really.
Most of the guys that message us have straight on their profile,so all those people stipulating straight guys only might not be meeting who they think they are."
Yes, we have a lot of "straight" guys arriving at our parties. Majority state the stupid bias against bi men as their reasoning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because there are hypocritical idiots and bigots in this world...
A sweeping generalisation perhaps?
Or do you seriously believe everyone who isn't interested in inviting bi guys to share their sex life is hypocritical bigot?"
Agreed, perhaps harsh, but should it really matter what someone does on another meet before they meet you, as long as they are clean, safe and regularly tested?
So many genuine straight guys assume that all bi guys just want to fuck them, which is very arrogant.
In our personal meets, Mr. Rogue makes it VERY clear that he isn't interested in attempting "conversion jobs" with any of our meets that include a straight males.
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By (user no longer on site)
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More labels!
I was discussing this with my ex as we walked round Aldi today.
We all have a text space on our profiles so use it as you need to.
If you offend then those people are probably not ones you would get along with anyway.
If you're a guy & like a bit of cock now & then, then say so. Same as if you're a woman & fancy a bit of pussy sometimes.
Profiles are there to be written & read, if people fail to do either then that's their undoing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More labels!
I was discussing this with my ex as we walked round Aldi today.
We all have a text space on our profiles so use it as you need to.
If you offend then those people are probably not ones you would get along with anyway.
If you're a guy & like a bit of cock now & then, then say so. Same as if you're a woman & fancy a bit of pussy sometimes.
Profiles are there to be written & read, if people fail to do either then that's their undoing!"
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"More labels!
I was discussing this with my ex as we walked round Aldi today.
We all have a text space on our profiles so use it as you need to.
If you offend then those people are probably not ones you would get along with anyway.
If you're a guy & like a bit of cock now & then, then say so. Same as if you're a woman & fancy a bit of pussy sometimes.
Profiles are there to be written & read, if people fail to do either then that's their undoing!"
Agreed. And the thing is many people read profiles in different ways, by this I mean one person looks at someone profile with lots of Verifications and automatically assumes they are having sex with everyone they meet in their life. where as someone else might actually decide to read the verifications and find that many are from the same people over months or years and if anything it means it can confirm what their profile actually says about them is true |
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"there are number of people who are concerned that Bi-males are more likely to have STIs and thus want the risk cut out. I would say this is unfair just to assume on that alone especially as Describing Bi does not define if they have or how they have had sex with other men. I know some actively are turned off by the idea of men having sex with men, which if they do get uncomfortable with the idea sure I can see them not wanting to be with them, though I feel sorry they are made uncomfortable by such things as it's quite natural. Scientifically the idea Bi or Gay men have more STIs doesn't stand up if people are safe in general and heck there are plenty of straight people who have unprotected sex with many people but hide these fact and then have sex with people who'd object.
In the end don't be hung up about it. There are plenty of people who don't care about it. And if you make a song and dance about it more often than not all Bi and Gay men are accused of being dicks and desperate to shag everything that moves and won't take no for an answer.
I pulled up stats on this a few months ago and the difference was negligible. "
It seems crazy that we essentially live in a time where Homophobia from the 80's cos of Aids informs people opinions when it only takes a little bit of thinking to realise claims that only male gay sex is spreading STIs around more than anything else. |
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