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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs"
Because those men don't read profiles. I've learnt to ignore the pictures and just delete the message, but it does make you wonder, as I assume they wouldn't introduce themselves the same way in a pub. I know this isn't a pub, it's a swingers site, but it's also a very social place.
Still, it's a great way of ing out the men you wouldn't want to meet anyway, use it as an extra filter. 
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Becauae they want to? It's worked for them before? They really like it and think you will too? They think all women want to see it eventually and want to get it out the way?
There are a myriad of reasons and undoubtedly some I haven't thought of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs"
If they send us one it means they haven't read our profile, delete button is ready to hand! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ultimate though, men who do this must be assuming that what the woman/couple in question is not adverse to receiving such a picture. Surely they wouldn't do it if they knew that some women/couples would not welcome it at that stage? Or are some men thinking 'I don't care whether you want this picture, I'll send it to you whether you like it or not'?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Becauae they want to? It's worked for them before? They really like it and think you will too? They think all women want to see it eventually and want to get it out the way?
There are a myriad of reasons and undoubtedly some I haven't thought of."
The cock made them do it! I'm wondering how many cock pics have been sent using said cock to tap send. |
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To be honest. When I first joined this site I would send dick pics if requested on the persons profile or if they didn't explicitly say they don't want them sent. My reasoning was that, women get so much messages for single men that you have to get their attention some how (my messages weren't just one liners either - I read profiles) so I would send dick, body and face pictures with my messages.
I don't anymore (unless requested), mainly because I have a lot of public photos so people can see for themselves and I'm not here to beg anyone to meet me. Plus it was very discouraging when those messages would go unreplied or be deleted.
Maybe this sheds some light on why guys might do this. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I think when newbies sign up and have their first look around the site, they will see male profiles in overwhelming numbers have cock profile pics, and therefore assume this is the norm and that people want to see it.
Personally I don't mind it as long as they also attach a face pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shows a distinct lack of imagination in my view, plus a disregard for what others want (especially if stated explicitly in your profile that you don't like or want them). Never a good start! |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
I am curious as to how men who do it work on a daily basis...
Walk into work, see a pretty lady..walk over, hi im gary..boomf whaps cock on the table?
Wouldnt do it in real life so why do it here? Yes i have 1 cock shot but its hidden and only gets sent when asked for...and no sky remote or can of lynx were harmed in the taking of it |
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What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men."
Part of who you are - exactly! And believe it or but there are women who are interested in the whole man. Otherwise why not just use a vibrator or dildo? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men."
Women tend to have a more holistic approach though. And seriously do women normally attach a picture of a pussy with their introductory message?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs"
Because they dont know how to open out a conversation!  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs"
isn't it just a case of monkey see monkey do by that i mean this.
how many profile pictures do you see of both sexes that are not well lets just say that are not of a sexual nature exposing flesh in one way or another...?
right so the program seems to be on sites like this show the flesh its all good everyone's doing it which leads to a unconscious thought process that its all about the goods its the goods that do the attracting hence everyone and there mother on these sites being obsessed with pictures looking and fabing .
which in turn leads to guys unconsciously sending cock pictures because nearly every thing the see hints at the whole swinging world being based around shallow superficial criteria on how well your goods and you look in pictures .
like i said its a by product of everyone and there mother using pictures to express there interest in sex well a erect penis at the end of the day shows perfectly well ones interest in sex does it not .
like i said its conditioning pure conditioning of people seeing what's going on and just joining the program already established by the fact everyone is showing sexual pictures of varying degrees ,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men."
it's more the complete disregard of profiles i think; many people, me included specifically say they don't want to receive them,so it's just annoying...though a handy way of telling instantly that the sender can't be arsed to actually look at a profile...so i can't really be arsed to acknowledge the message either.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't on single and don't on this one ?
I actually believe that woman when they look at us men don't actually think " I bet he has a big c--k !"
Would rather they felt comfy with my personality and could have a laugh ? Then obviously some naughty fun ?
Must be my old fashioned attitude that I'm not just going to jump straight into things with a lady that I don't really fancy but will just use her for sex ? |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I don't mention cock pictures (or any pictures) in my profile but I don't care if I get them in my inbox or not. I can delete them if they bother me. Sometimes I like them. Sometimes I don't. Depends on the person it's attached to (and the cock if I'm being shallow).
I'm sure it applies to anyone, man or woman, if you're sending pictures in a message you pick the ones you think are the most enticing. Some people just don't always get that right.
Ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sometimes it will be successful as an approach.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mention cock pictures (or any pictures) in my profile but I don't care if I get them in my inbox or not. I can delete them if they bother me. Sometimes I like them. Sometimes I don't. Depends on the person it's attached to (and the cock if I'm being shallow).
I'm sure it applies to anyone, man or woman, if you're sending pictures in a message you pick the ones you think are the most enticing. Some people just don't always get that right.
Ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sometimes it will be successful as an approach.
V xx"
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We truly don't understand why it's such an issue !
We like to see what's on offer , and as long as there is a clear face pic too , it's all good .
If the guy is looking for fun , it's reasonable that he will show what he has . One wouldn't want to be dissapointed when it comes to the fun surely ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs
isn't it just a case of monkey see monkey do by that i mean this.
how many profile pictures do you see of both sexes that are not well lets just say that are not of a sexual nature exposing flesh in one way or another...?
right so the program seems to be on sites like this show the flesh its all good everyone's doing it which leads to a unconscious thought process that its all about the goods its the goods that do the attracting hence everyone and there mother on these sites being obsessed with pictures looking and fabing .
which in turn leads to guys unconsciously sending cock pictures because nearly every thing the see hints at the whole swinging world being based around shallow superficial criteria on how well your goods and you look in pictures .
like i said its a by product of everyone and there mother using pictures to express there interest in sex well a erect penis at the end of the day shows perfectly well ones interest in sex does it not .
like i said its conditioning pure conditioning of people seeing what's going on and just joining the program already established by the fact everyone is showing sexual pictures of varying degrees ,
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I agree. I think the whole site gives that impression so they're just joining in. |
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs
isn't it just a case of monkey see monkey do by that i mean this.
how many profile pictures do you see of both sexes that are not well lets just say that are not of a sexual nature exposing flesh in one way or another...?
right so the program seems to be on sites like this show the flesh its all good everyone's doing it which leads to a unconscious thought process that its all about the goods its the goods that do the attracting hence everyone and there mother on these sites being obsessed with pictures looking and fabing .
which in turn leads to guys unconsciously sending cock pictures because nearly every thing the see hints at the whole swinging world being based around shallow superficial criteria on how well your goods and you look in pictures .
like i said its a by product of everyone and there mother using pictures to express there interest in sex well a erect penis at the end of the day shows perfectly well ones interest in sex does it not .
like i said its conditioning pure conditioning of people seeing what's going on and just joining the program already established by the fact everyone is showing sexual pictures of varying degrees ,
I agree. I think the whole site gives that impression so they're just joining in. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We truly don't understand why it's such an issue !
We like to see what's on offer , and as long as there is a clear face pic too , it's all good .
If the guy is looking for fun , it's reasonable that he will show what he has . One wouldn't want to be dissapointed when it comes to the fun surely ?
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Fair point, but I can't imagine being disappointed in what someone's cock looks like. I might be disappointed in their sexual performance, but no picture with help me identify who's good in bed. But I'm not objecting to how a man designs his profile.
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"What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men."
We have a typical male comment here! It is a sex site but the first thing some women do NOT want to see is a cock. If men continue to send a cock pic on intro then they will soon realise it's not going to get them anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the guy hasn't read the profile or maybe he just thinks I'll cover all bases with the first message. I.e. Face,cock,body photos.
That's exactly what we ask for in our profile and we are disappointed if we have to go back asking for cock pics when we've stated in our profile that we want them. |
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"What I don't understand is the (over?) reaction to cock pics..
This is fab swingers an adult site where sex is involved..it is not watch with mother(ask yr parents)
Men never complain about female genitalia being sent with a message.
It is a Cock ffs, part of who we are as men.
We have a typical male comment here! It is a sex site but the first thing some women do NOT want to see is a cock. If men continue to send a cock pic on intro then they will soon realise it's not going to get them anywhere. "
They have probably done it ever since the site begun and no matter how much you protest, I doubt if it will change..
Not respecting wishes on profiles that request no cock pics, that's a different thing altogether..
Love being described as a typical male..well that's a first for me..thank you |
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"Just trying to increase my understanding as it's been suggested that I might be being a bit ignorant in my negative view of this practice. Why do men send a picture of their cock as part of their introductory message to profiles that don't request them?
Mrs"
We are never sure if women know what a cock looks like, it pays to be in the safe side. Imagine how disappointed you would be if you were expecting something completely different when we dropped our pants... like a puppy or a bonsai tree or something.
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Simple answer really
Men: Visual being, testosterone, think about sex 24/7 and are attracted to looks.
I've never sent dick pic to anyone but occasional can I more than one dick pics on my profile.
Women: Need words type or spoken (poem etc) some sort of stimulation, expression, emotion and are attracted to identity.
See the problem. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
wherever |
I'd say most do it for the same reason some like flashing. They get a thrill that they showed someone there cock wether they wanted to are not. I even had this confirmed cause I asked a guy once why he sent me his arsehole pic. It turned him in that someone saw. Whatever rocks your world eh |
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