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By *amboo OP Couple
over a year ago
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A little while ago there was a thread about how often swingers swung. The replies varied between twice a year to twice a week !
So, how often do swingers have sex with their regular partners ?
For our part, we do a 3sum about once a month and have sex with each other (make love ) twice a week. |
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"Not enough 
shift work and children make it more difficult,but we do make the most of when we can  "
same here.. allthough in our case its shift work and older parents and not the kids.. sometimes its 4-6 times a week and others once a week if we are lucky.. but the advantages of shift work are we will never fall into the rut of "its wednesday, so we have to have sex." |
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over a year ago
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Yeah quite a few times.
We have played with couples and it does surprise me how many couples dont actually want to touch their own partner during the foursome. They just expect a straight swap. I dont play that way.
When im swinging I want sex that I cant get every day. I have good sex with the other half, I dont feel im lacking in absolutely anything. But he doesnt have two cocks, I cant suck and have him inside me at the same time, so I need someone else to fulfil that need.
In a foursome, I like us all interlinked. Ideal situation would be my guy on his back, me on his cock, woman on his face, me sucking her guy - that to be is the bees knees. But being honest theres not many who seem to want to touch their own partners, they just want to experience someone elses.
If I feel im being hogged by the hubby of the couple and its been a one on one for a while and im fed up of this, I will move and grab my guy. I sometimes feel that the woman thinks im getting jealous. But it isnt jealousy at all, its wanting to do something that I cant get every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry forgot to add.
So we dont only have sex together when we are alone, but we also have sex with each other when we play too.
Im often surprised that couples dont want to have sex with their own partner in a play situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we've only had one proper meet but we'd like to meet a couple oon a regular basis of about once a month and we try and play with each other two/tree times a week. About same as the poster x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry forgot to add.
So we dont only have sex together when we are alone, but we also have sex with each other when we play too.
Im often surprised that couples dont want to have sex with their own partner in a play situation. "
I love playing all 3 of us and would never just concentrate on the other guy to the detriment of Rob - it's supposed to be a fantasy, something away from reality, that everyone really enjoys. In my opinion. I would NEVER not want Rob to have fun with me or vice versatile just because another guy was involved with us  |
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