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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
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Because most people think that:
- bi women = sexy
- bi men = STDs |
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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
No-one likes to watch 2 men.
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Not true at all... I like to watch two people having sex regardless of gender and I think many more people would agree with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male part here, we are both bi here. I am riddled with every disease there is, some of them twice (joking by the way). As has been said though, the thought is that bi men are twice as likely to catch a disease as a bi woman due to putting their winky in another man's stinky. Whether its a fact or purely what people think won't change people's opinion, and owing to that there are many couples that simply stay clear of bi guys or fully bi couples, which is their prerogative.
I am fortunate that i am both ugly and fat so i am not what anyone is looking for and will never catch anything lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
No-one likes to watch 2 men.
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I have no interest in watching women together.
Men.... hell yes 
My wife's straight. She loves watching guys getting it on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have more biguys look at us and wink message ect than straight guys also couples with both bi ,and clearly says first line of our profile no bi guys lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
No-one likes to watch 2 men.
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Not true at all... I like to watch two people having sex regardless of gender and I think many more people would agree with me."
I know.. was being sarcy.... x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been bi since I was 16. Nothing to do with any male influence. In fact I thought I was gay at first.
But I think for most bi women it's a thing they discover they enjoy later on in adult hood
I think watching two guys is horny as hell but I think I may be in a minority xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's because couples want to spice up their sex lives and ff sex is less invasive for them. Plus, it's probably more likely a man has a fantasy of two women together, than the woman having a fantasy of two men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's because couples want to spice up their sex lives and ff sex is less invasive for them. Plus, it's probably more likely a man has a fantasy of two women together, than the woman having a fantasy of two men. "
Bang on i reckon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x
Because most people think that:
- bi women = sexy
- bi men = STDs"
+ bi man pounces on straight husband and makes him gay. |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
we made the same observation. Lots of interesting answers! x |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
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What rubbish ! I'm bisexual because I'm sexually attracted to women (and men too of course). I don't have a BF or husband who I need to "pretend" for
"No-one likes to watch 2 men.
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Rubbish again. I LOVE watching men kiss, suck and fuck (not necessarily in that order) and regard sex with 2 bisexual men an enormous treat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
No |
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"As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx"
Ok I need to ask forgive my ignorance. Do you just like to dress as a woman? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx
Ok I need to ask forgive my ignorance. Do you just like to dress as a woman?"
In short, yes |
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"As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx
Ok I need to ask forgive my ignorance. Do you just like to dress as a woman?
In short, yes "
Great avatar then! You facially look more feminine than some women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx
Ok I need to ask forgive my ignorance. Do you just like to dress as a woman?
In short, yes
Great avatar then! You facially look more feminine than some women! "
Thank you, i do try very hard xxx
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"As a bi guy i find there are women who like to watch 2 guys. As a tgirl i find there are fewer women want to watch me with another guy as when im in guy mode. Or are there women out there who like watching tgirls? Xxx
Ok I need to ask forgive my ignorance. Do you just like to dress as a woman?
In short, yes
Great avatar then! You facially look more feminine than some women!
Thank you, i do try very hard xxx
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You have really nice eyes I'm jealous |
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I think the reason there are so many less bi guys listed on fab is due to lots of guys wouldn't want the wife to know they have or had sexual thoughts about men and the similar reason for single guys too. It's become quite cool for a woman to be bi sexual, however two guys together is still frowned upon. I truly believe that almost every guy has at least thought about sex with another guy at sometime but due it being so stereotypically wrong men are less likely to admit it, this is why guys advertising being bisexual is such a rarity. Just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems funny that I get a lot of messages off guys who have straight on the profile, show no interest in tv's, only want to meet F, MF, but message me to meet, think more guys should be more honest with themselves and others, regarding bi and gay men being dosed up with every std going, what you see in our profiles is what you get, we're not the possible straight that is by but doesn't want to put it on his profile just in case it puts others off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
The simple answer is that a lot of hopeful husbands create the profiles...  |
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I think men are less honest about their likes sexually for fear of being labeled and embarrassed or upsetting their partner. Some women can be disparaging of bi guys and quite ruthless in their opinions. I'd agree that some see the risk as higher but you like what you like..
I would guess there are more bi women as women seem to like the company and softness / safety of another woman.
Personally I prefer not to label my sexual tastes as Its the people I find attractive not the gender.
Lucky I met a girl who is very cool and we both like all genders.. Although it doesn't mean we fancy all people.
I only started my bi journey last year and am happy to say I'm bi... But it's also society that can't accept it. If a girl from the office says she's bi... It's kinda cool and OK. It's an attractive feature.. If a man says he's bi we assume he's gay and wants every man. Macho men can't handle it...thats my Sunday reflection after attending a straight night at VA where it's much less fun than bi night..in our view. Bi people tend to be more chilled and less conscious of what others think. They just enjoy themselves and the combinations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men are less honest about their likes sexually for fear of being labeled and embarrassed or upsetting their partner. Some women can be disparaging of bi guys and quite ruthless in their opinions. I'd agree that some see the risk as higher but you like what you like..
I would guess there are more bi women as women seem to like the company and softness / safety of another woman.
Personally I prefer not to label my sexual tastes as Its the people I find attractive not the gender.
Lucky I met a girl who is very cool and we both like all genders.. Although it doesn't mean we fancy all people.
I only started my bi journey last year and am happy to say I'm bi... But it's also society that can't accept it. If a girl from the office says she's bi... It's kinda cool and OK. It's an attractive feature.. If a man says he's bi we assume he's gay and wants every man. Macho men can't handle it...thats my Sunday reflection after attending a straight night at VA where it's much less fun than bi night..in our view. Bi people tend to be more chilled and less conscious of what others think. They just enjoy themselves and the combinations. "
Well said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men are less honest about their likes sexually for fear of being labeled and embarrassed or upsetting their partner. Some women can be disparaging of bi guys and quite ruthless in their opinions. I'd agree that some see the risk as higher but you like what you like..
I would guess there are more bi women as women seem to like the company and softness / safety of another woman.
Personally I prefer not to label my sexual tastes as Its the people I find attractive not the gender.
Lucky I met a girl who is very cool and we both like all genders.. Although it doesn't mean we fancy all people.
I only started my bi journey last year and am happy to say I'm bi... But it's also society that can't accept it. If a girl from the office says she's bi... It's kinda cool and OK. It's an attractive feature.. If a man says he's bi we assume he's gay and wants every man. Macho men can't handle it...thats my Sunday reflection after attending a straight night at VA where it's much less fun than bi night..in our view. Bi people tend to be more chilled and less conscious of what others think. They just enjoy themselves and the combinations.
Well said "
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x
Because most people think that:
- bi women = sexy
- bi men = STDs"
Nicely summed up |
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"I think men are less honest about their likes sexually for fear of being labeled and embarrassed or upsetting their partner. Some women can be disparaging of bi guys and quite ruthless in their opinions. I'd agree that some see the risk as higher but you like what you like..
I would guess there are more bi women as women seem to like the company and softness / safety of another woman.
Personally I prefer not to label my sexual tastes as Its the people I find attractive not the gender.
Lucky I met a girl who is very cool and we both like all genders.. Although it doesn't mean we fancy all people.
I only started my bi journey last year and am happy to say I'm bi... But it's also society that can't accept it. If a girl from the office says she's bi... It's kinda cool and OK. It's an attractive feature.. If a man says he's bi we assume he's gay and wants every man. Macho men can't handle it...thats my Sunday reflection after attending a straight night at VA where it's much less fun than bi night..in our view. Bi people tend to be more chilled and less conscious of what others think. They just enjoy themselves and the combinations. "
Agreed, VA bi night is so far our favourite event. We always have a great time. I just wish it was more often and more local to us.....deep sigh!! |
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We are a mature Bi couple and we have had a very mixed experience of Bi-sex. We regularly attend the Monday night Bi-Night at Chameleons and although we have had a number of sessions with Bi-guys we have never been approached by a Bi-lady singly or as part of a couple This is over a period of 7 or 8 years so we feel we can say we have tried.
We are not "beautiful people" but neither have we been beaten with the ugly stick.
We find that although many couples claim that the lady is Bi when push comes to shove this is not the case. A peck on the cheek does qualify as being Bi.
Our theory is that as most profiles appear to have been written by men they are working out their own fantasies by attributing Bi to their partners.
We are still hoping to find that rarity a confident mature honest Bi lady who is willing to play Bi. Alone with us or as part of a foursome/moresome.
G&A |
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?"
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it"
Spot on |
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?"
I'd say its largely what other men think.. Most women are pretty open minded in my experience and those that are not . They don't know what they are missing.. |
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it"
and that's great that you thought that way. It's a great shame that someone feel's they can't be open even on a site like this. They must miss out on good time's if they're too scared for whatever reason.
I knew someone once that made me feel bad about the fact I met men who liked men. He made me question for all of 5 minutes what I was doing,I think I was more annoyed with myself for even questioning the fact. Seeing two or more men together turn's me on immensely so I couldn't give a stuff what anyone else thing's,like it or lump it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BECAUSE...
57% of statisticians believe you are correct, while the other 82% agree with you...
Or 97% of women just want their pussy played with and don't care who is doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it
and that's great that you thought that way. It's a great shame that someone feel's they can't be open even on a site like this. They must miss out on good time's if they're too scared for whatever reason.
I knew someone once that made me feel bad about the fact I met men who liked men. He made me question for all of 5 minutes what I was doing,I think I was more annoyed with myself for even questioning the fact. Seeing two or more men together turn's me on immensely so I couldn't give a stuff what anyone else thing's,like it or lump it!"
Couldn't care less what other people think of me and my preferences. It's their issue not mine. Live and let live |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
Might be because the majority of bi guys haven't told their partner about it! |
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"BECAUSE...
57% of statisticians believe you are correct, while the other 82% agree with you...
Or 97% of women just want their pussy played with and don't care who is doing it "
I'm in the 3% then,I want a man to play with it |
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"BECAUSE...
57% of statisticians believe you are correct, while the other 82% agree with you...
Or 97% of women just want their pussy played with and don't care who is doing it
I'm in the 3% then,I want a man to play with it "
*waves hand frantically to volunteer |
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"BECAUSE...
57% of statisticians believe you are correct, while the other 82% agree with you...
Or 97% of women just want their pussy played with and don't care who is doing it
I'm in the 3% then,I want a man to play with it
*waves hand frantically to volunteer "
Smoker's are banned! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
No-one likes to watch 2 men.
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Correction.. alot of women like to watch two men. You only have to read the forums to realise this. |
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"BECAUSE...
57% of statisticians believe you are correct, while the other 82% agree with you...
Or 97% of women just want their pussy played with and don't care who is doing it
I'm in the 3% then,I want a man to play with it
*waves hand frantically to volunteer
Smoker's are banned! "
Damn that bloody addiction grr! |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
Woman are just more honest lol |
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it
and that's great that you thought that way. It's a great shame that someone feel's they can't be open even on a site like this. They must miss out on good time's if they're too scared for whatever reason.
I knew someone once that made me feel bad about the fact I met men who liked men. He made me question for all of 5 minutes what I was doing,I think I was more annoyed with myself for even questioning the fact. Seeing two or more men together turn's me on immensely so I couldn't give a stuff what anyone else thing's,like it or lump it!"
The funny thing is although I never tried to keep figures. I honestly don't thing coming out as bi curious had a negative impact on opportunities to meet people. For any door that may have closed another opened. At the time I got to have more fun with couples into bi and cuckold pleasure, which was more fun for me anyway. Plus among single women they saw it as a sign of an imaginative open mind.
As for people saying they won't meet women that have been with bi guys. If they thought it through logically they would soon realise how embarrassingly flawed their reasoning is lol |
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The funny thing is although I never tried to keep figures. I honestly don't thing coming out as bi curious had a negative impact on opportunities to meet people. For any door that may have closed another opened. At the time I got to have more fun with couples into bi and cuckold pleasure, which was more fun for me anyway. Plus among single women they saw it as a sign of an imaginative open mind.
As for people saying they won't meet women that have been with bi guys. If they thought it through logically they would soon realise how embarrassingly flawed their reasoning is lol"
I told him at the time the chances of him already having met a woman who's been with a bi guy are pretty high even if the woman herself doesn't know herself,as so many keep that side of themselves secret.
Hopefully some guy's may feel like being a bit more open reading your post. |
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Maybe men are just scared, I watched my wife playing with another guys cock and thought I want to try as it looked good, and it was, but I only play and suck nice looking ones, but I'm still a little scared to try and taste cum.
Have also found that men in groups are anti bi but get the same guys alone and they are happy for me to suck them, so think they are more scared about what others will say |
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"Maybe men are just scared, I watched my wife playing with another guys cock and thought I want to try as it looked good, and it was, but I only play and suck nice looking ones, but I'm still a little scared to try and taste cum.
Have also found that men in groups are anti bi but get the same guys alone and they are happy for me to suck them, so think they are more scared about what others will say"
We play with a bi couple and the guy has a huge cock. I (husband) was trying to deep throat it, more as an experiment than a sexual thing. He said he was about to cum but i didn't believe him because it was a lousy blow job with only about half his dick going in my mouth. When he did cum it hit the back of my mouth and made me gag. I wouldn't say it tasted nice but it doesn't half make you feel like a dirty bitch which was quite a turn on. I'd do it again. |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
Definitely its just that woman are more honest and men also like to see female on female ,men should be more honest about there sexuality ,I know this from the amount of attention I get from so called straight guys ,be honest guys lol xx |
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Personally I don't buy into the gay or straight rationale. My belief is that there is no pink and blue, just infinite shades of purple.
As has been mentioned, bi women are seen as sexy where as bi men are seen as being a breeding ground for STI's
There is also still a social stigma about a man being gay or bi that seems to have missed over women, so I suspect it's a case of more women admit to it than men, and even a number would pretend to be bi to appear sexy.
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
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Woman are just more honest lol "
I wouldn't necessarily agree with that, there's a lot of women on the scene who exaggerate their bisexuality. Which is understandable but depressing, as there's so much pressure. |
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"I think the reason there are so many less bi guys listed on fab is due to lots of guys wouldn't want the wife to know they have or had sexual thoughts about men and the similar reason for single guys too. It's become quite cool for a woman to be bi sexual, however two guys together is still frowned upon. I truly believe that almost every guy has at least thought about sex with another guy at sometime but due it being so stereotypically wrong men are less likely to admit it, this is why guys advertising being bisexual is such a rarity. Just my opinion. "
Absolutely spot on.
I get hit on by straight guys all the time who are curious but want to keep it secret.
It's time we dropped labels and just enjoy sex with whoever takes our fancy. |
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We are both bi so we do exist lol. I think a lot of men are ashamed to say they are bi but women are more brave or accepted.
In our experience we have found that as many men as women are properly bi.
What really pisses us iff is when a guy list himself as straight on here and then pretends to be bi to get a meet. Its pretty obvious when we get naked if he's telling the truth or not lol.
You cant pretend this stuff.
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I suppose I am bisexual in that I will get flirty and more with another woman. And although it will be great to have another bisexual woman as a friend, I know that I would not want a relationship with another woman
And, no, I am not doing this for my hubby. He would much rather that we meet a straight woman so that we can both lavish him with attention
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It's absolutely down to the stigma that still hangs over being a bi male. We have a good few female friends who of chat to about a range of personal things. All of them are either openly bi or have had the 'experimenting in uni' experience which they enjoyed. It's almost expected for a woman to be bi (most likely thanks to porn) and in our experience, women are happy to discuss it fairly openly with their friends.
For guys, on the other hand, being even a little bit curious and discussing it even obliquely is playing with fire. I do genuinely think that there are as many (if not more) bi curious guys out there than women, it's just we're conditioned to keep it hidden from everyone - including ourselves.
There have been a couple of threads recently where a lot of guys have admitted that they sometimes have a fantasy about playing with a cock. Not the guy connected to it, just the sausage itself. They don't fancy guys and couldn't imagine being intimate with one in the same way as women. I (Rob) can identify with this as I have the same feelings every now and then. I just don't have feelings towards guys so I don't consider myself bi (as contradictory as that sounds).
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"Makes you wonder what the stats are for Bi hubby / Straight wife couples "
This is us lol I'm straight hubby is bi and we have yet to find another couple who are the same! Hence why we always play with single men would like to find another couple like us though |
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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago
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"I have been bi since I was 16. Nothing to do with any male influence. In fact I thought I was gay at first.
But I think for most bi women it's a thing they discover they enjoy later on in adult hood
I think watching two guys is horny as hell but I think I may be in a minority xx "
I agree with you, watching two men is hot as hell. I am also bi and have been for as long as I can remember. I remember being around 8yrs old and rubbing girl parts together with a friend in my bed when I had a sleepover. No male influence here either. ?? |
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There's a general societal perception amongst the hetero normative male community that a man who wants sex with men is unmanly whereas women having sex with women is HOT!!!!!! Hence women will be fairly comfortable with having sex with women in a swinging context. Less so men.
As it happens I think most people in the swinging community are hetero flexible in that Situationaly they are attracted to same sex play. Properly bi people. -, ie equally attracted to both genders are rare - as are people utterly repulsed by same sex activity. It's just harder for men to be open about it. |
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Just done a quick survey.
Of the first twenty couples that came up on a search they broke down as follows
14 m straight f bi
3 both bi
2 M bi F straight
1 both straight
So 17 bi women to 5 bi men. Make of that what you will.
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"Just done a quick survey.
Of the first twenty couples that came up on a search they broke down as follows
14 m straight f bi
3 both bi
2 M bi F straight
1 both straight
So 17 bi women to 5 bi men. Make of that what you will.
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I take it that's in your local area? I imagine it would be different where we are. |
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"Just done a quick survey.
Of the first twenty couples that came up on a search they broke down as follows
14 m straight f bi
3 both bi
2 M bi F straight
1 both straight
So 17 bi women to 5 bi men. Make of that what you will.
I take it that's in your local area? I imagine it would be different where we are. "
Yes. Just done a survey of fifty. That got
F bi M straight 30
Both straight 11
Both bi 8
Male bi female straight 1
So 76% bi female to 18% bi male. Would be interested to know a non London figure |
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I genuinely think it's simply because women have naturally much more attractive features, even to other women. Most women I've ever been with have confessed to having a crush on a girl friend.
By comparison, most guys don't find other guys attractive, but some, myself included, do have an interest in what's in their pants for some reason. |
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I think there is a huge difference in acceptability between being a bi lady and a bi man. Almost as if being a bi man means you aren't as masculine or whatever. There's nothing wrong with either, but until the stigma goes, men will stay closeted far more often.
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x"
Haven't read the entire thread, but I will say that a lot of the men on here are fab "straight." This is from genuine experience of the number of couples we meet where the gent suddenly decides he wants to "experiment" and then proceeds to give a blowjob like a high class hooker! |
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"I think there is a huge difference in acceptability between being a bi lady and a bi man. Almost as if being a bi man means you aren't as masculine or whatever. There's nothing wrong with either, but until the stigma goes, men will stay closeted far more often.
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I need to find my dress (Not really)
Well I consider myself masculine at 6ft 2 and 17stone I am your poor mans Ross Kemp
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"Just done a quick survey.
Of the first twenty couples that came up on a search they broke down as follows
14 m straight f bi
3 both bi
2 M bi F straight
1 both straight
So 17 bi women to 5 bi men. Make of that what you will.
I take it that's in your local area? I imagine it would be different where we are. "
Done a within twenty miles of Newcastle survey for you ??
Put of fifty
F bi M straight 32
Both straight 13
Both bi 4
M bi F straight 1
So 72% bi females 10% bi males your way. |
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"Just done a quick survey.
Of the first twenty couples that came up on a search they broke down as follows
14 m straight f bi
3 both bi
2 M bi F straight
1 both straight
So 17 bi women to 5 bi men. Make of that what you will.
I take it that's in your local area? I imagine it would be different where we are.
Done a within twenty miles of Newcastle survey for you ??
Put of fifty
F bi M straight 32
Both straight 13
Both bi 4
M bi F straight 1
So 72% bi females 10% bi males your way. "
Thanks for taking the time to do that, I couldn't have been bothered |
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"Makes you wonder what the stats are for Bi hubby / Straight wife couples
This is us lol I'm straight hubby is bi and we have yet to find another couple who are the same! Hence why we always play with single men would like to find another couple like us though "
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Just a note to say. A we are contacted By a lot of straight men who are bi and couples who say the male is straight but when they chat the come our bi, Also been to so called straight party and there has been mmf bi play everywhere with female directing bi play. and b not all bi guys want to shag someone ass or have theirs shagged. And if theres not much of it why are so many clubs puting on bi nights, and c if no bi couples why are bi private partys always busy
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"Women pretend to be bi because their man wants to watch 2 women.
What rubbish ! I'm bisexual because I'm sexually attracted to women (and men too of course). I don't have a BF or husband who I need to "pretend" for
No-one likes to watch 2 men.
Rubbish again. I LOVE watching men kiss, suck and fuck (not necessarily in that order) and regard sex with 2 bisexual men an enormous treat.
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"Maybe men are just scared, I watched my wife playing with another guys cock and thought I want to try as it looked good, and it was, but I only play and suck nice looking ones, but I'm still a little scared to try and taste cum.
Have also found that men in groups are anti bi but get the same guys alone and they are happy for me to suck them, so think they are more scared about what others will say"
I think you are so right. A real shame. If every male with a bi streak was more honest about it swinging would be some much more fun all around. You have also reminded me of the first time I sucked a cock.During my single days I would meet couples into cuckolding fun but during that period I also got to know a bi couple quite well too. On one occasion I was fucking the wife while she sucked her husbands cock. Its a rather large, rather nice looking specimen. I felt an overwhelming urge to suck it. Knowing he was bi made it that much easier to take the leap. Man was it horny |
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x
Haven't read the entire thread, but I will say that a lot of the men on here are fab "straight." This is from genuine experience of the number of couples we meet where the gent suddenly decides he wants to "experiment" and then proceeds to give a blowjob like a high class hooker!"
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The funny thing is although I never tried to keep figures. I honestly don't thing coming out as bi curious had a negative impact on opportunities to meet people. For any door that may have closed another opened. At the time I got to have more fun with couples into bi and cuckold pleasure, which was more fun for me anyway. Plus among single women they saw it as a sign of an imaginative open mind.
As for people saying they won't meet women that have been with bi guys. If they thought it through logically they would soon realise how embarrassingly flawed their reasoning is lol
I told him at the time the chances of him already having met a woman who's been with a bi guy are pretty high even if the woman herself doesn't know herself,as so many keep that side of themselves secret.
Hopefully some guy's may feel like being a bit more open reading your post."
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"We have just discussed this between us... it's completely unsupported and just an observation (before we get attacked by the statisticians)...
Why is it that the majority of couples have a bi-curious/bisexual female, yet by comparison there are significantly fewer equally inclined men.. It feels like 80% of couples we see contain a bi-curious/bisexual female...
Are we just coincidentally seeing similar couples or does anyone have similar observations?
x
Haven't read the entire thread, but I will say that a lot of the men on here are fab "straight." This is from genuine experience of the number of couples we meet where the gent suddenly decides he wants to "experiment" and then proceeds to give a blowjob like a high class hooker!"
LOL! yep i think i have met that guy. Several times! Thier wives are hot to. |
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"I have been bi since I was 16. Nothing to do with any male influence. In fact I thought I was gay at first.
But I think for most bi women it's a thing they discover they enjoy later on in adult hood
I think watching two guys is horny as hell but I think I may be in a minority xx "
Absoloutly agree xx I too have always been bi.Lost my bi virginity at 14. My straight virginity at 15. There is nothing hornier than watching 2 men together ; ) I often watch gay porn. Love it in the flash tho when my fella is with another guy yummy ; )
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Whats this rubbish about Bi men must = Efeminate? Ya there are Girly Guys and Neandritols out there.
But also avarage acting guys and Butch guys its a whole mix.
Iam 6"3' bouncer trained Biker ex-Rugby Player top only and Bi.
So get over it folks! |
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"Whats this rubbish about Bi men must = Efeminate? Ya there are Girly Guys and Neandritols out there.
But also avarage acting guys and Butch guys its a whole mix.
Iam 6"3' bouncer trained Biker ex-Rugby Player top only and Bi.
So get over it folks! "
I'm not the slightest bit effeminate either. |
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over a year ago
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"Whats this rubbish about Bi men must = Efeminate? Ya there are Girly Guys and Neandritols out there.
But also avarage acting guys and Butch guys its a whole mix.
Iam 6"3' bouncer trained Biker ex-Rugby Player top only and Bi.
So get over it folks!
I'm not the slightest bit effeminate either. "
But you do have a cute bum. Lol |
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Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out |
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out "
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant |
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"Do secretly bi men worry more about what other men think or women,where does the problem lie that they don't feel they can be open?
Can be several things. For me personally back when I was single once I realised I had a bi side that I wanted to explore and see where it led. I had a good hard think about whether to be open about it, because based on previous conversations with swingers I felt sure that there would be a backlash. Being single at the time I was also worried that it would be even harder to meet women and couples. In a world where single guys are a dime a dozen it was hard enough already.
A few swinging friends warned me of the disadvantages of outing myself but after a couple of months of wavering I concluded "isn't the whole point of this site meant to be an opportunity to give ones true sexual desires freedom and expression?"
So I thought to myself fu** it, this is me, take it or leave it
Spot on "
That's exactly how it was for me, however I also had 30 years in denial of being bi too |
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant "
Excellent. There were a few comments afterwards that made me worry a little |
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant
Excellent. There were a few comments
afterwards that made me worry a little
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant
Excellent. There were a few comments
afterwards that made me worry a little
i wasn't offended either "
Nor was I.
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant
Excellent. There were a few comments afterwards that made me worry a little "
Anyway what's wrong with being effeminate? I'm bi but I don't feel the need to list my macho credentials |
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant "
Yes it was the idea not your post I was challanging. Sorry for any cofussion. |
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Whenever i read this particular topic i'm always suprised by the amount of "not accepted in society" "hiding being bi" "secretly fantasise about it" (which are all valid reasons) and the general lack of maybe they are just straight answers? Now i of course can only offer my personal views as a straight male.
We as a rule don't meet bi males or bi male couples for a very simple reason.
We are not the meet they actually want, the same way we wouldn't meet a couple with a straight female as it's not the meet we want.
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"Did I offend someone here with my "less masculine" comment? If so I apologise and it certainly wasn't meant that way. I was just trying to explain why I thought less men would be brave enough to come out
I wasn't offended, I think I understand what you meant
Yes it was the idea not your post I was challanging. Sorry for any cofussion."
No, that's fine. I was just worried I'd offended anyone I'm not saying I agree with the idea of bi man being less masculine, just figured there's still that silly stigma about. Stereotypes eh? |
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