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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's part of the filtering process...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a hazard of having your filters open, sadly it'll always happen and no manner of threads on the forums will stop it.

If it really bothers though, pop your filters up and do your own searching!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I state it. I still get there, so I hear you.

I don't want to amend my filters as I have met some stars on here had I not if my filters were different.

The delete button is red hot then just try to not let it bother you and look forward to a lovely message with a face pic x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

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By *Devil77Man  over a year ago

West Midlands

I've never sent a cock pic yet!

I prefer to make the woman in work for it and ask if for it, then I know she actually wants one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't know why peeps get their arse in their hands over cock pics. It's a pic of a cock. So what it's not gonna jump out of the screen n bite you.

PTU xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

Not all cocks look the same.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

Maybe they don't speak French?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It doesn't bother me. They clearly like their cock and want to meet someone that likes cock pics. Not me.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me

Maybe they don't speak French? "

Haha that tickled me

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

What's a cock pic?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't bother me. They clearly like their cock and want to meet someone that likes cock pics. Not me. "

I don't think a lot of these men particularly want to meet someone who likes cock pics. I think most are misguided about how to attract women. I personally don't like men who are clueless.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

Block all men and do your own searches

Unless you secretly like all those messages

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By *lexis99Woman  over a year ago

From Southwark

Generally they don't bother me. Not wanting them but not a major issue if they send them.

What I do not like are guys who just send message like "like hung guys". To me shows no or poor personality

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford

all the bloomin time

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me

Maybe they don't speak French?

Haha that tickled me "

I aim to please.

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By *issnwtyWoman  over a year ago

manchester

I like a good cock pic

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs"

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

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By *cunnylassCouple  over a year ago

Exeter


"I like a good cock pic"

So do we!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?"

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Not a fan of being sent unsolicited cock pics especially in a first message.

Have them on their profile, friends only if they are shy, fine.

But don't send me 30, yes 30 pics as 1 guy did, of your cock from different angles unless I ask if you wouldn't mind sending me 1.

Ok the cock in question had many different poses, there was sleepy cock, standing to attention cock, angry cock, throttled (why?) cock and spitting cock, but I wasn't that impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

Unwanted, yes. But really annoying? No. We don't random people on fab get under our skin like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have tried reverse psychology on my profile and it works a treat!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have tried reverse psychology on my profile and it works a treat! "

Plus they can't get passed my cock block as it's on full power mode most days. Sometimes the block goes down for a few hours due to maintenance.

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

i don't have a single cock picture on here not even in my friends only pictures ,

I've been told off in a light hearted way for my flat out refusal to have the old boy on show .

my reasoning is very simple my cock doesn't define me nothing about my body defines me .

is a woman defined by her tits by her fanny no nor is a man defined by his bits and bobs as you can tell I'm far from a shallow man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Simply block all single guys from messaging you and find suitable people yourself, voila no more cock pics received....

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"i don't have a single cock picture on here not even in my friends only pictures ,

I've been told off in a light hearted way for my flat out refusal to have the old boy on show .

my reasoning is very simple my cock doesn't define me nothing about my body defines me .

is a woman defined by her tits by her fanny no nor is a man defined by his bits and bobs as you can tell I'm far from a shallow man "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We done our filters to stop men contacting us as the female half and main user of are profile I don't wanna see cock pics at all. Size matters nowt to me I don't care how vwe a guy is. If I was a single female on here I wouldrnt pick a guy on basis he has a big one. It's personality I prefer and a face pic is enough When you've seen a cock you've seen them em all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i don't have a single cock picture on here not even in my friends only pictures ,

I've been told off in a light hearted way for my flat out refusal to have the old boy on show .

my reasoning is very simple my cock doesn't define me nothing about my body defines me .

is a woman defined by her tits by her fanny no nor is a man defined by his bits and bobs as you can tell I'm far from a shallow man "

Cocktail sausage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Simply block all single guys from messaging you and find suitable people yourself, voila no more cock pics received...."

We tried to block men from contacting us because I got so fed up with the crass messages. However we found that men ceased to show on 'who's looked at me' including ones who were on our friends list. Not knowing when our male friends look at our profile doesn't work for us, so we allow men to message us now. Heavy filters has reduced our messages though. Having said that, if we were to do the searching ourselves we would have to sift through a lot of cocks before we found a handsome prince, so not sure blocking single guys is the solution. These days we tend to meet new people in clubs. That's really the best way to avoid shite messages and naf pictures - at least in a club nobody goes and slaps their cock on the table and says 'hi'.

Mrs

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

Yes I have a few cock pics on profile but I have a heck of a lot of other photos,

For me I know women and couples prefer seeing a face and body than just a cock

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

"

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?"

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

Never sent a cock pic in my life because I haven't taken any. Men still are not getting it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like a good cock pic"

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not offended if I get sent a cock pic but it does make me I'm interested in more than just his cock! Although I have to say some of the ones I've had in my in box looked so rank I had to reach for the block button, so sometimes it's a great filter

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"i don't have a single cock picture on here not even in my friends only pictures ,

I've been told off in a light hearted way for my flat out refusal to have the old boy on show .

my reasoning is very simple my cock doesn't define me nothing about my body defines me .

is a woman defined by her tits by her fanny no nor is a man defined by his bits and bobs as you can tell I'm far from a shallow man

Cocktail sausage "

you cheeky minx I'd call you out on that line but i already did and it was you crying out very very loudly if my memory serves me well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

Send them to me they're a great turn on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bugs me when guys don't provide a cock picture even though my profile requests one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stop whinging about it and put filters on....instantly no more cock pics

Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bugs me when guys don't provide a cock picture even though my profile requests one. "

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me

Maybe they don't speak French? "

Neither do I...Just a term I used!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Stop whinging about it and put filters on....instantly no more cock pics

Problem solved "

What filters??? I have filters in abundance! What DO you mean?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Stop whinging about it and put filters on....instantly no more cock pics

Problem solved

What filters??? I have filters in abundance! What DO you mean?"

Block single men from messaging you.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't think a lot of these men particularly want to meet someone who likes cock pics. I think most are misguided about how to attract women. I personally don't like men who are clueless.

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me

Block all men and do your own searches

Unless you secretly like all those messages "

Er...No...I simply don't read and delete instead. I get many messages a day without these tacky pics. Just shows how they have not read my profile

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By *mber GamblerCouple  over a year ago

rugby


"Simply block all single guys from messaging you and find suitable people yourself, voila no more cock pics received...."

Best advice yet. I do it myself.

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By *iolet2000Woman  over a year ago

Ormskirk


"It's part of the filtering process... "

This

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

"

So clearly searching for reasons to be offended when it's easier and better for all to ignore and not be offended.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs"

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened.

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By *exmadscotMan  over a year ago

alloa

well you've got your cleavage and thigh out trying to get a man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah i just reply 'oh look its a penis.. only smaller'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's an adult oriented site with various types of compromising pics on display. You're presumably not here to exchange quiche recipes or gardening tips.

It comes with the territory of fab, just block the sender or turn your filters on. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you the kind of man-boy who seeks to impress (or inform) your potential partner on fab about how awesome your 'junk' is? Is your first thought "I know I'll send them a dick pic!"?

If so... whoa Nelly. Did you know that dick selfies are officially off trend?

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Note: I have no affiliation to this company. I just think it's hysterical.

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By *exylexi6980Woman  over a year ago

leicester

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By *exylexi6980Woman  over a year ago

leicester

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Generally they don't bother me. Not wanting them but not a major issue if they send them.

What I do not like are guys who just send message like "like hung guys". To me shows no or poor personality "

And I've found that the majority of the men that send messages or have an entry on their profile that insinuates they're bigger than average downstairs, are in fact not that well endowed .......... not that it matters but keeping it real does

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By *ammy-leeWoman  over a year ago

Swansea

And when you say nicely sorry no you are not my type and they keep on messaging and sending pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened."

I would be very greatful if you would enlighten me as to what the other reasons are that men send cock pics with first message to profiles that don't request them. I cannot consider facts if I don't about those facts. Likewise facts cannot be disregarded or dismissed if there were not there for me to consider in the first place. I thought there is one reason and one reason only why men do this. I have even asked men why they do this. Very happy to be proven wrong.

Mrs

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower. "

On the contrary i do pretty well on the swing scene. We get repeat invites to parties, and men we play with always come back for more. That's unlikely if I were no fun in bed.

Mrs

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

On the contrary i do pretty well on the swing scene. We get repeat invites to parties, and men we play with always come back for more. That's unlikely if I were no fun in bed.

Mrs"

Any port in a storm eh.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower. "

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

On the contrary i do pretty well on the swing scene. We get repeat invites to parties, and men we play with always come back for more. That's unlikely if I were no fun in bed.

Mrs

Any port in a storm eh."

Rubbish. My dislike of cock pics has no baring whatsoever on my sexual ability and open-mindedness when with a partner or at a swing party. Anybody who knows me knows that I am far from a prude.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender "

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby. "

Just for the record I don't care what pics or messages I get sent and if I got sent something I didn't like I'd just delete/block. But they shouldn't have to block a whole sex because a few men are too lazy to read the preferences they've put on they're profile.

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By *arry247Couple  over a year ago

Wakefield

What men don't seem to realise is B is not interested in cock pics or talking about sex, she wants to feel the warmth of the man as he presses against her and feel his cock inside her.

Pictures and talking about it have the opposite effect and are a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby. "

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Hmmm...people being offended by cock pics on a swinging site. Give me a minute to get my head around that one.

Sorry, I must be missing something. I don't like cock pics, especially spitting, throttled ones, but offended? Really?!! If I were that delicate I'd log onto prettyflowers.com not a swingers site.

Get a grip people!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hmmm...people being offended by cock pics on a swinging site. Give me a minute to get my head around that one.

Sorry, I must be missing something. I don't like cock pics, especially spitting, throttled ones, but offended? Really?!! If I were that delicate I'd log onto prettyflowers.com not a swingers site.

Get a grip people! "

"Won't somebody think of the children!?" Or "No cock pics please, we're British!"

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc.........

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs"

Oh... You're one of those "you looked at me you must want a meet" people. Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs

Oh... You're one of those "you looked at me you must want a meet" people. Ok."

No we have never made that assumption

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc........."

Size isn't always the issue but i like to see what's on offer, as does my wife. We want to know it doesn't look like it's been caught in a door, or should have been circumcised 15 years ago.

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By *artLonCouple  over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they have ignored what you have put in your profile, even if it's a picture of their face it would still be a cock pic.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened.

I would be very greatful if you would enlighten me as to what the other reasons are that men send cock pics with first message to profiles that don't request them. I cannot consider facts if I don't about those facts. Likewise facts cannot be disregarded or dismissed if there were not there for me to consider in the first place. I thought there is one reason and one reason only why men do this. I have even asked men why they do this. Very happy to be proven wrong.

Mrs"

All that says is that you don't know of any motives. Does not mean there aren't any.

If you get offended by assuming assumptions then I don't suppose you are due much sympathy or understanding.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc.........

Size isn't always the issue but i like to see what's on offer, as does my wife. We want to know it doesn't look like it's been caught in a door, or should have been circumcised 15 years ago. "

It's certainly not that we are sizeist as such , but average and above is our preference . And as you say , it is certainly preferable to have a clean and well looked after cock .

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc.........

Size isn't always the issue but i like to see what's on offer, as does my wife. We want to know it doesn't look like it's been caught in a door, or should have been circumcised 15 years ago.

It's certainly not that we are sizeist as such , but average and above is our preference . And as you say , it is certainly preferable to have a clean and well looked after cock . "

You 2 certainly come across as a fun couple. focusing on positives.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened.

I would be very greatful if you would enlighten me as to what the other reasons are that men send cock pics with first message to profiles that don't request them. I cannot consider facts if I don't about those facts. Likewise facts cannot be disregarded or dismissed if there were not there for me to consider in the first place. I thought there is one reason and one reason only why men do this. I have even asked men why they do this. Very happy to be proven wrong.

Mrs

All that says is that you don't know of any motives. Does not mean there aren't any.

If you get offended by assuming assumptions then I don't suppose you are due much sympathy or understanding."

I now stand corrected. I have since started a thread to find out what the other reasons could be, in order to correct my ignorance. When I thought there was only one reason I was basing my emotion on what I thought was fact, not assumption. Now that I've learnt there are other reasons, then I will obviously I will be wrong to assume one reason when it could well be a different reason. I am still entitled to feel offence, if on establishing a reason, that reason offends me. We are all different, and I fall into a camp where certain things will offend me, and that's just the way I am. I have never asked for sympathy ever on the forums or on my experience on the swing scene.

Mrs

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc.........

Size isn't always the issue but i like to see what's on offer, as does my wife. We want to know it doesn't look like it's been caught in a door, or should have been circumcised 15 years ago.

It's certainly not that we are sizeist as such , but average and above is our preference . And as you say , it is certainly preferable to have a clean and well looked after cock .

You 2 certainly come across as a fun couple. focusing on positives. "

Always , it's the only way

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't know why peeps get their arse in their hands over cock pics. It's a pic of a cock. So what it's not gonna jump out of the screen n bite you.

PTU xxx"

I know! I love receiving hundreds of unwanted pussy pics..............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes constantly and I also delete

Like I state in my profile if I want to see there dingle dangle then il ask

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"We aren't in the slightest bit bothered by a cock pic - it's actually nice to see what's on offer .

It does seem odd that on a swinging site it's frowned upon so much . I wonder how many would be disappointed upon meeting up with a guy who was only 3 inches when hard ?

Oh hang on , that's another topic isn't it .....

It's not what you've got it's how you use it .

There's more to sex than fucking .

The personality is way more interesting than his cock size .

Etc.........

Size isn't always the issue but i like to see what's on offer, as does my wife. We want to know it doesn't look like it's been caught in a door, or should have been circumcised 15 years ago. "

'Caught in a door' made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened.

I would be very greatful if you would enlighten me as to what the other reasons are that men send cock pics with first message to profiles that don't request them. I cannot consider facts if I don't about those facts. Likewise facts cannot be disregarded or dismissed if there were not there for me to consider in the first place. I thought there is one reason and one reason only why men do this. I have even asked men why they do this. Very happy to be proven wrong.

Mrs

All that says is that you don't know of any motives. Does not mean there aren't any.

If you get offended by assuming assumptions then I don't suppose you are due much sympathy or understanding.

I now stand corrected. I have since started a thread to find out what the other reasons could be, in order to correct my ignorance. When I thought there was only one reason I was basing my emotion on what I thought was fact, not assumption. Now that I've learnt there are other reasons, then I will obviously I will be wrong to assume one reason when it could well be a different reason. I am still entitled to feel offence, if on establishing a reason, that reason offends me. We are all different, and I fall into a camp where certain things will offend me, and that's just the way I am. I have never asked for sympathy ever on the forums or on my experience on the swing scene.

Mrs"

I agree especially the last comment don't generalise things from your experiences. This is a sex site which means they will be cocks, pussies, boobs and arses. I don't know why people complain about it. What do they expect to see degree certificates, cars and houses and bank statements?

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Hmmm...people being offended by cock pics on a swinging site. Give me a minute to get my head around that one.

Sorry, I must be missing something. I don't like cock pics, especially spitting, throttled ones, but offended? Really?!! If I were that delicate I'd log onto prettyflowers.com not a swingers site.

Get a grip people! "

prettyflowers.com got closed down for being discriminatory against unappealing blooms

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a fan of being sent unsolicited cock pics especially in a first message.

........,,,

But don't send me 30, yes 30 pics as 1 guy did, of your cock from different angles unless I ask if you wouldn't mind sending me 1.

Ok the cock in question had many different poses, there was sleepy cock, standing to attention cock, angry cock, throttled (why?) cock and spitting cock, but I wasn't that impressed.

"

Was he wanting you to build a 3D model?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs"

What i dont understand is you say you don't want to meet new people. So why not block single men. Your friends will still be able to message you..

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Not a fan of being sent unsolicited cock pics especially in a first message.

........,,,

But don't send me 30, yes 30 pics as 1 guy did, of your cock from different angles unless I ask if you wouldn't mind sending me 1.

Ok the cock in question had many different poses, there was sleepy cock, standing to attention cock, angry cock, throttled (why?) cock and spitting cock, but I wasn't that impressed.

Was he wanting you to build a 3D model?"

I had a woman ask me to send her a rubber mould of my cock once, with one of those kits you can buy? That was quite horny actually, knowing she was using a dildo of my cock on herself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's the reason I hid my profile. I just got fed up having to wade through stuff I didn't want and now I just open it when I'm interested in someone or have the time to cope with the result. Maybe my tolerance level is low but it seemed the most polite way to deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have always said right at the top of the profile that I don't like cock pics. We don't get too many sent to us, though we don't get many messages. But I have in the past asked men why they sent us one. A lot have apologised for causing offence. And a few say that they accidentally sent it. One guy told me I was in the minority. It's not the cock pic that offends me. It's the assumption that all women need a picture of a cock to help them choose I sex partner that offends me.

Mrs

Why be offended by something which is not offensive? Annoying, mildly, but offensive?

People making assumptions about me is something that offends me. If we get sent a picture of a cock in a private message, I regard it that they are making an assumption that I need that picture to help me choose a sex partner.

Surely that's you making an assumption about their reasoning?

If there were a multitude of reasons as to why men attach cock pics with first message to a profile where such a pic wasn't ask for, then I would be wrong to assume it's a for a particular reasonreason, when there are a selection of possible reasons that caused them to make that choice. But if there is only one realistic reason as to why men do that, then I'm not making an assumption, I'm stating a fact. However I would be happy to be enlightened on the other reasons that men send cock pics that are not requested.

Mrs

No you are making an assumption and disregarding facts you have not considered or have dismissed.

By the way you get offended, that is also offensive as you are making assumptions similar to those you are seeking to be offended by. So not only are you being offended by things which may not have happened, you are doing the same level of perceived assumption but this time 100% real and unambiguous, thus worse than the assumptions you are assuming happened.

I would be very greatful if you would enlighten me as to what the other reasons are that men send cock pics with first message to profiles that don't request them. I cannot consider facts if I don't about those facts. Likewise facts cannot be disregarded or dismissed if there were not there for me to consider in the first place. I thought there is one reason and one reason only why men do this. I have even asked men why they do this. Very happy to be proven wrong.

Mrs

All that says is that you don't know of any motives. Does not mean there aren't any.

If you get offended by assuming assumptions then I don't suppose you are due much sympathy or understanding.

I now stand corrected. I have since started a thread to find out what the other reasons could be, in order to correct my ignorance. When I thought there was only one reason I was basing my emotion on what I thought was fact, not assumption. Now that I've learnt there are other reasons, then I will obviously I will be wrong to assume one reason when it could well be a different reason. I am still entitled to feel offence, if on establishing a reason, that reason offends me. We are all different, and I fall into a camp where certain things will offend me, and that's just the way I am. I have never asked for sympathy ever on the forums or on my experience on the swing scene.

Mrs

I agree especially the last comment don't generalise things from your experiences. This is a sex site which means they will be cocks, pussies, boobs and arses. I don't know why people complain about it. What do they expect to see degree certificates, cars and houses and bank statements? "

I wasn't complaining about cocks, pussies and boobs. I was complaining about a cock being sent as part of an introductory message. Its a personally thing, but it's one of the many aspectsof this site that I don't like, and I'm entitled to feel that way.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs

What i dont understand is you say you don't want to meet new people. So why not block single men. Your friends will still be able to message you.."

Our profile says we meet at clubs and that we welcome messages from men who are attending the same club as us. We use Fab to look for potential playmates within the club/party scene. We also want to know if our male friends look at us.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs

What i dont understand is you say you don't want to meet new people. So why not block single men. Your friends will still be able to message you..

Our profile says we meet at clubs and that we welcome messages from men who are attending the same club as us. We use Fab to look for potential playmates within the club/party scene. We also want to know if our male friends look at us. "

It's a real minefield for you isn't it? Honestly, it doesn't have to be this complicated.

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds


"Any ladies get that.. Especially when you state NON on your profile!!

Really annoying and yep it's always a delete.

I definitely know what one looks like guys, trust me"

Personally I like cock pics, particularly if they are well taken pics of a good looking cock. I also know what a cock looks like, but I also know that cocks, like faces, are all different. I certainly wouldn't want to fuck an ugly cock!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads are a great filter. There is no way someone who gets this worked up about a dick pic on a swinging site is going to be any fun in bed. Enjoy your ivory tower.

I'm guessing your a cock pic sender

Nope i don't send anything to anyone. I just can't stand people that moan moan moan moan moan moan moan etc etc etc and don't filter. If you don't like it block men and find them yourself. If you still don't like it, find another hobby.

We filter to the max without filtering out single men. If we block single men from messaging then it's not possible to see which men have looked at us including those on our friends list, this inhibiting our ability to search. We do however say on our profile that we don't limerick pics, and to be fair not many ignore that statement. Do I moan too much? I admit I let off steam from time to time, about things that irritate or offend me.

Mrs

What i dont understand is you say you don't want to meet new people. So why not block single men. Your friends will still be able to message you..

Our profile says we meet at clubs and that we welcome messages from men who are attending the same club as us. We use Fab to look for potential playmates within the club/party scene. We also want to know if our male friends look at us.

It's a real minefield for you isn't it? Honestly, it doesn't have to be this complicated. "

It's really not complicated. We're having a good time and Fab has served us well. I don't like pictures of cocks being sent to us, but I live with it and grumble on the forum.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

I understand completely that some people like cock pics and that some don't. I also know that a lot of guys don't read profiles. (That alone is a good enough filter imo). However to experience offence from this behaviour is OTT imo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I understand completely that some people like cock pics and that some don't. I also know that a lot of guys don't read profiles. (That alone is a good enough filter imo). However to experience offence from this behaviour is OTT imo."

It's a human emotion. If I feel that way, I feel that way. I can't choose not feel that emotion. All I can do is keep that emotion controlled. Anyway I'm not objecting to cocks on profiles, I'm objecting to certain messages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I understand completely that some people like cock pics and that some don't. I also know that a lot of guys don't read profiles. (That alone is a good enough filter imo). However to experience offence from this behaviour is OTT imo.

It's a human emotion. If I feel that way, I feel that way. I can't choose not feel that emotion. All I can do is keep that emotion controlled. Anyway I'm not objecting to cocks on profiles, I'm objecting to certain messages. "

Tight filters, a request at the top of the profile that they don't poke your eye out on first message, an appreciation that sometimes it's hot to get a well timed pic as you get to know each other , taken together seems to work for me. Anyone who gives me the full 360 but doesn't send a face pic deserves compassion for how misguided their approach is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I understand completely that some people like cock pics and that some don't. I also know that a lot of guys don't read profiles. (That alone is a good enough filter imo). However to experience offence from this behaviour is OTT imo.

It's a human emotion. If I feel that way, I feel that way. I can't choose not feel that emotion. All I can do is keep that emotion controlled. Anyway I'm not objecting to cocks on profiles, I'm objecting to certain messages.

Tight filters, a request at the top of the profile that they don't poke your eye out on first message, an appreciation that sometimes it's hot to get a well timed pic as you get to know each other , taken together seems to work for me. Anyone who gives me the full 360 but doesn't send a face pic deserves compassion for how misguided their approach is."

That's a very good way of looking at the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"[Removed by poster at 07/05/17 12:45:13]"

Just a reminder about unsolicited pussy pics filling my inbox.........................................................................................anyone?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks"

Clearly you'd rather wait until it's in your hand etc...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sent.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks"

Quite a few people to be fair.

The answer is that some people like some things and others like other things and you will sometimes be exposed to things which are not to your liking.

The solution is easy, delete, move on, worry not, spend less time blogging.

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By *nglishdoodMan  over a year ago

Morristown

The trick to sending cock pics is to disguise them as something else

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"The trick to sending cock pics is to disguise them as something else "

You mean "dickrolling"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Filters are your friend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks"

It help with the selection process haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As someone just put on another thread... he's more than just a dick. Exactly! It's pointless unless we like the person it's attached to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

Clearly you'd rather wait until it's in your hand etc..."

Pass me the sick bag...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

Quite a few people to be fair.

The answer is that some people like some things and others like other things and you will sometimes be exposed to things which are not to your liking.

The solution is easy, delete, move on, worry not, spend less time blogging."

Really? Must be some folk not fussy then...I of.course delete and of.course.move on...And yep, I don't worry...Am a carer for.my disabled mum so these blogs are a kind of light-hearted escapism? Is that the right word to use??!

Yep, sure is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

Quite a few people to be fair.

The answer is that some people like some things and others like other things and you will sometimes be exposed to things which are not to your liking.

The solution is easy, delete, move on, worry not, spend less time blogging."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Stop whinging about it and put filters on....instantly no more cock pics

Problem solved "

Who said anything about whinging?? This is just a light hearted forum and nobody should get upset about it! I'm staying.my.view and so are you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The trick to sending cock pics is to disguise them as something else "

That's so cool how you shoot the green lazer from your arsehole.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

Clearly you'd rather wait until it's in your hand etc...

Pass me the sick bag..."

Yet that is what you want. Either to meet no matter what his dick looks like or to really get to know the guy, connect.... get intimate... then discover his tiny cock has pusstuals where chlamydia was actually invented!

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By *nglishdoodMan  over a year ago

Morristown


"The trick to sending cock pics is to disguise them as something else

That's so cool how you shoot the green lazer from your arsehole. "

Hahahaha I hadn't noticed that! I'm going to use it for aiming from now on. It does explain the burn marks in my Y fronts though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Let's be honest folks..Who wants to see a flacid, alarmingly red, spotty or an Iceland chipolata clone in pics???

No thanks

Clearly you'd rather wait until it's in your hand etc...

Pass me the sick bag...

Yet that is what you want. Either to meet no matter what his dick looks like or to really get to know the guy, connect.... get intimate... then discover his tiny cock has pusstuals where chlamydia was actually invented! "

Eh? Are you for real??!!

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