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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? " Personally Michelle keegans | |||
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"How do we like our females?? " On toast. | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans" Lol you said above you prefer curves! | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans Lol you said above you prefer curves!" I always thought Keegan had far too many right angles... | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans Lol you said above you prefer curves! I always thought Keegan had far too many right angles... " Lol but let's be honest, she has the body most us girls want! | |||
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"Michelle Keegan or Kelly Brook?" Keegan | |||
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"Michelle Keegan or Kelly Brook?" I've never heard of anyone named on this thread 
But I think Kelly looks better. Michelle is attractive, by her boobs look disproportionately large for her body.... | |||
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"Michelle Keegan or Kelly Brook?" Personally I'd love a body like Kelly Brook, I think she's the perfect ratio in every way! | |||
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"It's usually a very brave man that starts threads like this. Fyi I like somewhere in between "I feel as a female I could start this thread, As I have a real grasp of the female body and struggles. Being a slim girl and knowing the majority of the uk are classed as obease - is this the body form people actually find attractive - or just what they have learnt to accept as the norm.... | |||
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"I love curves I need something to grab hold of and there's nothing sexier than wobble bum boobs while having sex !!! " And a gunt? | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans Lol you said above you prefer curves! I always thought Keegan had far too many right angles... Lol but let's be honest, she has the body most us girls want!" Not at all! I'd love a body like Christina Hendricks. | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans Lol you said above you prefer curves! I always thought Keegan had far too many right angles... Lol but let's be honest, she has the body most us girls want! Not at all! I'd love a body like Christina Hendricks. " Doesn't she have bloody huge boobs? | |||
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"It's usually a very brave man that starts threads like this. Fyi I like somewhere in between "
For us it's not about size it's about how you carry it...
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"Real women have curves" lol so slim ladies are a figment of the imagination?
"Bones are not sexy" to some they are! Most slimmer women are not honey anyway
"I'm a BBW if you don't like it......" some prefer slimmer get over it!
We've played with people of all shapes and sizes all of them had something that drew us to them regardless of size..... | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun " Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition." Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question?" Well yes that would help. | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... " Well that's pretty obvious, no!? Many people are bigger due to a variety of reasons. Some eat too much due to a coping mechanism, some just love food. Some are larger due to physical or mental illness. You do get some who are genuinely happy being a larger build, but I think I'm correct in saying that for a large proportion of us, it's a constant struggle to get our weight under control. I'm just wondering, have you been bigger!? Have you lost or gained lots of weight? | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... " and as i have said on another thread before some people dont actually choose to be fat some have medical conditions that cause it so dont start with the some choose to be fat arguement | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... Well that's pretty obvious, no!? Many people are bigger due to a variety of reasons. Some eat too much due to a coping mechanism, some just love food. Some are larger due to physical or mental illness. You do get some who are genuinely happy being a larger build, but I think I'm correct in saying that for a large proportion of us, it's a constant struggle to get our weight under control. I'm just wondering, have you been bigger!? Have you lost or gained lots of weight? " dont burst the ops bubble after all us larger ladies choose it without thinking its one of the above or any other medical condition | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... " I'm overweight, fat, wobbly, curry whatever you want to call it. I want to change it but I can honestly say I don't strive to have a beach body at all. Getting fitter is of more interest to me than losing shed loads of weight. | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help." I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... Well that's pretty obvious, no!? Many people are bigger due to a variety of reasons. Some eat too much due to a coping mechanism, some just love food. Some are larger due to physical or mental illness. You do get some who are genuinely happy being a larger build, but I think I'm correct in saying that for a large proportion of us, it's a constant struggle to get our weight under control. I'm just wondering, have you been bigger!? Have you lost or gained lots of weight? dont burst the ops bubble after all us larger ladies choose it without thinking its one of the above or any other medical condition" I can't read anywhere where she's said that, to be honest. She's asked a question. | |||
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Everyone seems obsessed with "living for longer" these days and surely if you live life to the fullest, have a job that makes you happy and you're positive that's all that matters. Yes you could live an extra few years if you cut out certain foods but you could get hit by a car tomorrow....
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"As long as the female is happy with their life and appearance who gives a shit if they eat an extra cake or two? Social media is terrible for showing only the "best bits" of people's lives... this is where envy and jealousy begin and people try and out do each other. No one is gunna post negatives are they? If working hard to keep your body a size 6/8 gives you satisfaction then brilliant, but also if a lady who is a size 18 is happy enjoys going out and eating in nice places and indulging on desserts etc, equally that's fine
Everyone seems obsessed with "living for longer" these days and surely if you live life to the fullest, have a job that makes you happy and you're positive that's all that matters. Yes you could live an extra few years if you cut out certain foods but you could get hit by a car tomorrow....
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"As long as the female is happy with their life and appearance who gives a shit if they eat an extra cake or two? Social media is terrible for showing only the "best bits" of people's lives... this is where envy and jealousy begin and people try and out do each other. No one is gunna post negatives are they? If working hard to keep your body a size 6/8 gives you satisfaction then brilliant, but also if a lady who is a size 18 is happy enjoys going out and eating in nice places and indulging on desserts etc, equally that's fine
Everyone seems obsessed with "living for longer" these days and surely if you live life to the fullest, have a job that makes you happy and you're positive that's all that matters. Yes you could live an extra few years if you cut out certain foods but you could get hit by a car tomorrow....
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help. I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. " It's obvious that people would choose a healthy body over one that was malnourished. That's not really a fair comparison. | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help. I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. " Well there's a huge difference between a healthy size 6/8 woman and a very poorly anorexic woman,so I would think most people would chose the Marilyn Monroe picture. | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help. I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. " So why could you not start a thread asking do you like toned slim women. Why does everything has to be one or another.There will always be extremes to highlight what people post on media sites, usually derogatory towards what they don't favour. I can appreciate the hard work that people put into having a slim toned body, I personally don't like one too thin. I know that when I was thin I had a lot of abuse from my friends who were a larger size. I favour a smaller frame sexually as I said previously,but I can appreciate all sizes of woman.There is nothing better than seeing a woman who is confident in her own skin, whatever the size. | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help. I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. Well there's a huge difference between a healthy size 6/8 woman and a very poorly anorexic woman,so I would think most people would chose the Marilyn Monroe picture. " EXACTALLY!!! I was merely asking on here what in the 'real world' to people actually prefer.... | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. " Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight??" What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! | |||
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"If you didn't have verifications I would think this was a guy saying this! Strange thing for a woman to say! It's not a flipping competition. Would you like me to explain why I am asking this question? Well yes that would help. I am,hmmm how do I say it.... a very blunt young lady. Who isn't scared to say anything to anyone. I have always been slim size (6-8) and work bloody hard to keep it that way. This morning on a for of social media a post popped up with a picture of marilyn monroe and a girl who was so obviously anorexic and malnourished - with the caption ' which would you choose' and of course EVERYONE commented that they would choose Monroe over the physically and mentally ill girl in the 2nd picture. I felt this was not a true definition of slim girls who work hard to keep our bodies in good shape. The reason for the post is merely to get more of a true perspective on this. Well there's a huge difference between a healthy size 6/8 woman and a very poorly anorexic woman,so I would think most people would chose the Marilyn Monroe picture. EXACTALLY!!! I was merely asking on here what in the 'real world' to people actually prefer.... " A healthy body over a poorly one,but people like all different sizes don't they,some prefer slim others more curvy and so on. So long as the woman is happy with how she is it doesn't matter about anyone else. | |||
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"I like women to be women-shaped. Thanks. " and you are that very sexy woman  | |||
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... " I'm fat. I love my body. I'm very confident within. I don't choose to be fat. It's just me. To answer your question I prefer women to be average. 
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! " I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat" Presuming that someone who is 10 stone overweight is always doing fuck all is the first issue. I think your question was answered, by me and many others. Generally people go for slimmer figures. | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat Presuming that someone who is 10 stone overweight is always doing fuck all is the first issue. I think your question was answered, by me and many others. Generally people go for slimmer figures. " Im getting the this that people prefer 'curves' But that is more than likely due to mental conditioning and 57% of uk women are over weight | |||
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" Michelle keegan body or Gemma Collins body? Personally Michelle keegans Lol you said above you prefer curves! I always thought Keegan had far too many right angles... " Is she a square? | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat" I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. | |||
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" I'd certainly not wish to share a lilo with miss prissyknickers. " Yeah she is a right bitch! **spit** | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. " Easy - Fat and large are the same Skinny and slim are not! | |||
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"Someone with a pretty face and a relaxed attitude please. Her size isn't important x" See, I really do not buy that! At all! | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. Easy - Fat and large are the same Skinny and slim are not! "Absolutely rubbish and proves my suspicions on your post which is to shame others. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for some sexual attraction comes from mental stimulation rather than quick gratification because a person looks a specific way. Oh and skinny is a derogatory way to speak about a slender person the same as fat is for a larger person. | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. Easy - Fat and large are the same Skinny and slim are not!
Absolutely rubbish and proves my suspicions on your post which is to shame others.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for some sexual attraction comes from mental stimulation rather than quick gratification because a person looks a specific way.
Oh and skinny is a derogatory way to speak about a slender person the same as fat is for a larger person.
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"Curvey ladies seem to have more fun Is that because they are 'bubbley' Lol.. I just there is an element of denial. I would say very little people choose to be fat. Most of us strife for that beach body... " I wouldnt want a beach body I prefer not to get a melanoma thanks! Also you seem to have an almost hatred towards bigger women and are quite nasty with some things like saying we have gunts, doesnt matter how big or slim a person is to me they are still a person with feelings and constantly body shaming is horrible! As a woman you should know first hand body shaming can be extremely cruel and bring people down! | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat Presuming that someone who is 10 stone overweight is always doing fuck all is the first issue. I think your question was answered, by me and many others. Generally people go for slimmer figures. Im getting the this that people prefer 'curves' But that is more than likely due to mental conditioning and 57% of uk women are over weight" You claimed to know the struggles of the female body, which was why you were posting this thread. Throwing around a load of statistics and facts is exactly the same as me saying that factually, you're in a unhealthy weight range. There's a huge grey area when it comes to weight. | |||
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"Where would someone who's 5'8", a size 12-14, safely inside her BMI, with small boobs but a bit of a belly and a butt but long slim limbs fit into this? Or do I not want to know?
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. Easy - Fat and large are the same Skinny and slim are not!
Absolutely rubbish and proves my suspicions on your post which is to shame others.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for some sexual attraction comes from mental stimulation rather than quick gratification because a person looks a specific way.
Oh and skinny is a derogatory way to speak about a slender person the same as fat is for a larger person.
Blah blah blah!
All I asked is what people actually prefer!
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"I dont know. If i look at my pics i definately fluctuate throughout the year. Usually feel better with a few extra pounds on. Thats juat me though xx " Although I'm in pain (and was in great pain when I was skinny) I feel better than I did when I was skinny. I felt bony and rat-faced being underweight. Ideally, I'd like to be a size 14, for myself, not for others. If I lose the men who like my flab, so be it. | |||
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" I'd certainly not wish to share a lilo with miss prissyknickers. Yeah she is a right bitch! **spit**" A bitch is a female dog...No need to growl here...you're clearly hurting at not being the chosen one, try and channel it elsewhere as you're only making a spectical of yourself, for all the wrong reason. ...slim or slob..thin or thick...fat or fab...who cares?....well it seems you do.  bitterness is never attractive unless it's dark chocolate and I'm guessing that's off the list also. | |||
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"So, OP... I green arrowed you to see your other posts and you've disclosed your weight on a thread. In medical terms, both me and you are unhealthy. The person who smokes and drinks too much are unhealthy, as is the person who gets too little sleep a night. It's not good to obsess too much about being a certain size. In the 'real' world, people tend to gravitate towards a healthy body. Unhealthy in what way? I do not drink or smoke... I swim and attend the gym 4 times a week. I cycle 5 miles to work everyday. My body fat % is 11% - near that of an athlete.... I'm unhealthy because I am maybe a little under a recommended weight?? What I'm trying to show you is that there's a whole grey area between thin and fat, healthy and unhealthy and it may not always be what you expect. I think you only have to look at mainstream media to see that a slimmer figure is preferred overall. However, whether that slimmer figure is healthy or not, is another matter! I never mentioned what was health! But..... Being a stone underweight and living and eating well (as I do) is 100% better than being Class 2 obese and being 10 stone over weight and doing fuck all! But as I said, I never said anything about what was more healthy... I asked what body type do people prefer ? Slim or fat I find the word 'fat' to describe someone quite derogatory. Your last commemt slim or fat, why not skinny or fat? You chose slim? Why?. Why not say slim and large?. Easy - Fat and large are the same Skinny and slim are not!
Absolutely rubbish and proves my suspicions on your post which is to shame others.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for some sexual attraction comes from mental stimulation rather than quick gratification because a person looks a specific way.
Oh and skinny is a derogatory way to speak about a slender person the same as fat is for a larger person.
Blah blah blah!
All I asked is what people actually prefer!
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"Someone with a pretty face and a relaxed attitude please. Her size isn't important x See, I really do not buy that! At all!" Awesome. Don't worry about it then | |||
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"I dont know. If i look at my pics i definately fluctuate throughout the year. Usually feel better with a few extra pounds on. Thats juat me though xx Although I'm in pain (and was in great pain when I was skinny) I feel better than I did when I was skinny. I felt bony and rat-faced being underweight. Ideally, I'd like to be a size 14, for myself, not for others. If I lose the men who like my flab, so be it. " I was told exactly this with my fibro when I asked if losing weight would help with my pain. It's swings n roundabouts. Yes losing weight may help with my legs but would put me in more pain when I'm in bed. Xxx | |||
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It was a simple question.
But of course all the 'larger' people have taken it the wrong way!
I'm done. If anyone wants to continue the out of context chat PM me
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It was a simple question.
But of course all the 'larger' people have taken it the wrong way!
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"I feel like you are body shaming and that you have issues about larger ladies! I am a size 18 - would I choose to be smaller - yes I would but I have hormonal issues that means though I eat right I don't lose weight - so I am healthy. Luckily most people are not as judgemental as you and find me attractive in spite of me being so fat it's not all about size you know! X "I'm not sure op has issues about larger ladies. More about that she can not get her head around that some people do not like the very slim toned woman.On here a high percentage of women are over weight,if you go by the media statistics, and being a slim toned woman it is the reverse of what is drummed into you from media and society.Men like woman of all sizes. The slim toned woman isn't the coveted goal of all. | |||
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Only boring people get bored.. you just dont like that people havent agreed with you and that shock horror people can like a variety of people.. "Errrm where have I said what my preference is???? | |||
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Only boring people get bored.. you just dont like that people havent agreed with you and that shock horror people can like a variety of people.. "like a crisps multipack, I'm not so keen on ready salted but I love roast beef | |||
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Errrm where have I said what my preference is???? ". What is your preference?? | |||
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"I feel like you are body shaming and that you have issues about larger ladies! I am a size 18 - would I choose to be smaller - yes I would but I have hormonal issues that means though I eat right I don't lose weight - so I am healthy. Luckily most people are not as judgemental as you and find me attractive in spite of me being so fat it's not all about size you know! X
I'm not sure op has issues about larger ladies. More about that she can not get her head around that some people do not like the very slim toned woman.On here a high percentage of women are over weight,if you go by the media statistics, and being a slim toned woman it is the reverse of what is drummed into you from media and society.Men like woman of all sizes. The slim toned woman isn't the coveted goal of all." | |||
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"I feel like you are body shaming and that you have issues about larger ladies! I am a size 18 - would I choose to be smaller - yes I would but I have hormonal issues that means though I eat right I don't lose weight - so I am healthy. Luckily most people are not as judgemental as you and find me attractive in spite of me being so fat it's not all about size you know! X
I'm not sure op has issues about larger ladies. More about that she can not get her head around that some people do not like the very slim toned woman.On here a high percentage of women are over weight,if you go by the media statistics, and being a slim toned woman it is the reverse of what is drummed into you from media and society.Men like woman of all sizes. The slim toned woman isn't the coveted goal of all."When I was slim, and young no one gave me a second glance. Only when I had boobs and a fat arse did people look and show interest. Unfortunately, now, they come with a fat stomach | |||
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Only boring people get bored.. you just dont like that people havent agreed with you and that shock horror people can like a variety of people..
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"I feel like you are body shaming and that you have issues about larger ladies! I am a size 18 - would I choose to be smaller - yes I would but I have hormonal issues that means though I eat right I don't lose weight - so I am healthy. Luckily most people are not as judgemental as you and find me attractive in spite of me being so fat it's not all about size you know! X
I'm not sure op has issues about larger ladies. More about that she can not get her head around that some people do not like the very slim toned woman.On here a high percentage of women are over weight,if you go by the media statistics, and being a slim toned woman it is the reverse of what is drummed into you from media and society.Men like woman of all sizes. The slim toned woman isn't the coveted goal of all.
When I was slim, and young no one gave me a second glance. Only when I had boobs and a fat arse did people look and show interest. Unfortunately, now, they come with a fat stomach "I'm thankful for my fat arse | |||
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"Then all the fat birds gang up and bully the slim chick "That is what Is happening... it's as pathetic as messaging someone... then blocking them hey? | |||
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"Oh really grow up! Your acting like a spoilt child who can't get their own way with people agreeing. Im ok being larger I diet as want to loose weight for me not because of the way 'some' people in society think i should look. And let's face it when the time comes your still going to be the same size pile of ashes as me..... | |||
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Body shaming?? WHERE?? WHERE HAVE I DONE THIS???? "(I'm fat but not bullying you) you haven't personally body shamed anyone directly but to start a thread like this straightaway gets people's backs up whether they're thin or fat x | |||
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