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Do you find it harder to get action on here (men)?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?"
like i said they get hundreds of messages...some probably here for ego boosting too |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?"
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them |
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?"
I am the same I am much better in pubs shops etc . I think it's the sheer volume of men to women on here so women have such a wider choice . In my experience I find I am not as good with typing as I am talking also I don't take great photos I am just not photogenic like barney in how I met your mother lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them"
you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex?"
yes,thats exactly what was said...also some women get a huge amount of messages, but i would say the majority do not get 'hundreds' a day..it's just a pretty useful excuse.
When we do get messages however, most will check the profile first,before deciding to even look at the message...maybe bear that in mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex?
yes,thats exactly what was said...also some women get a huge amount of messages, but i would say the majority do not get 'hundreds' a day..it's just a pretty useful excuse.
When we do get messages however, most will check the profile first,before deciding to even look at the message...maybe bear that in mind. "
women can be alot more picky here than in real life, and increase their standards because clearly the most average are getting loads of attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex?
yes,thats exactly what was said...also some women get a huge amount of messages, but i would say the majority do not get 'hundreds' a day..it's just a pretty useful excuse.
When we do get messages however, most will check the profile first,before deciding to even look at the message...maybe bear that in mind. women can be alot more picky here than in real life, and increase their standards because clearly the most average are getting loads of attention"
Not sure the most average quote is going to go down that well if I am honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?"
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP....."
and everything you said ultimately will lead to sex... |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?"
taking into account how you find it so easy to pull in the real world the one question would be why are you on here in the first place 
and why are you still trying if other methods work so well ....?
i for one find online and off line to both be full of sexy women willing to have a fun liaison or two when you approach them as a fun loving gentlemen  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
taking into account how you find it so easy to pull in the real world the one question would be why are you on here in the first place
and why are you still trying if other methods work so well ....?
i for one find online and off line to both be full of sexy women willing to have a fun liaison or two when you approach them as a fun loving gentlemen "
I have a thing for MILF, bit harder to approach a lady nearly twice your age . |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
taking into account how you find it so easy to pull in the real world the one question would be why are you on here in the first place
and why are you still trying if other methods work so well ....?
i for one find online and off line to both be full of sexy women willing to have a fun liaison or two when you approach them as a fun loving gentlemen I have a thing for MILF, bit harder to approach a lady nearly twice your age ."
that's a poor excuse in my opinion. I'm even more demanding in my tastes and i do equally well online and off line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?"
I think the problem is that like many on here people think swinging is purely meeting for sex and once that doesn't happen you blame the site. When in fact your assumption is why your not getting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP..... and everything you said ultimately will lead to sex..."
No not all the time we've met lots of people that we've socialised with off here that has not led to sex. That is where the problem lies for you thinking that every encounter will lead you to sex. |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
I think the problem is that like many on here people think swinging is purely meeting for sex and once that doesn't happen you blame the site. When in fact your assumption is why your not getting meets. "
Well said again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?"
I dont see this as a moan. Its more a statement and looking what others feel. That's what he asked. .. I'd agree in general yes.
Here you need to sign a contract..
1. You are who you are...photo ID please in my inbox before ill show you my face on.my hidden profile.
2. Must be 6'6 or taller with rugby shoulders.
3. 3 legs... ( all the same size  ) I don't wantto hear an echo inside me. 
4. Must accommodate or pay the hotel... ( They must be a gentleman)
5. Need to guarantee to show but I hold reserve to no show if I find a better meet.
6. Be patient. I've 50,000 messages to go through so can't meet for coffee till next month.
Anyone available for a simple coffee meet? . Yes, message me on pof and we'll chat over coffee tomorrow. Thank you. Do I need to sign anything? Have photo ID?
??? No, it's just a coffee.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?
I dont see this as a moan. Its more a statement and looking what others feel. That's what he asked. .. I'd agree in general yes.
Here you need to sign a contract..
1. You are who you are...photo ID please in my inbox before ill show you my face on.my hidden profile.
2. Must be 6'6 or taller with rugby shoulders.
3. 3 legs... ( all the same size ) I don't wantto hear an echo inside me.
4. Must accommodate or pay the hotel... ( They must be a gentleman)
5. Need to guarantee to show but I hold reserve to no show if I find a better meet.
6. Be patient. I've 50,000 messages to go through so can't meet for coffee till next month.
Anyone available for a simple coffee meet? . Yes, message me on pof and we'll chat over coffee tomorrow. Thank you. Do I need to sign anything? Have photo ID?
??? No, it's just a coffee.
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I get all this....and I know you're (partly) joking. But in all seriousness - why not go on POF? I'm sure there are just as many women there who just want a fuck as there are women who are hoping to find a guy who'd like to date them...right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?
I dont see this as a moan. Its more a statement and looking what others feel. That's what he asked. .. I'd agree in general yes.
Here you need to sign a contract..
1. You are who you are...photo ID please in my inbox before ill show you my face on.my hidden profile.
2. Must be 6'6 or taller with rugby shoulders.
3. 3 legs... ( all the same size ) I don't wantto hear an echo inside me.
4. Must accommodate or pay the hotel... ( They must be a gentleman)
5. Need to guarantee to show but I hold reserve to no show if I find a better meet.
6. Be patient. I've 50,000 messages to go through so can't meet for coffee till next month.
Anyone available for a simple coffee meet? . Yes, message me on pof and we'll chat over coffee tomorrow. Thank you. Do I need to sign anything? Have photo ID?
??? No, it's just a coffee.
I get all this....and I know you're (partly) joking. But in all seriousness - why not go on POF? I'm sure there are just as many women there who just want a fuck as there are women who are hoping to find a guy who'd like to date them...right? "
I am.... been there 3 yrs.... It's where I meet mostly. Here is for forum banter, friends and a bit of craic. Too much baggage at times with people on here. One striking difference is the bitching...or lack of it. Here it's all over the forums and even get it at coffee meets. Never had that a pof meet. I met a fabber on.pof ( easily spotted profile wording) .. met for coffee... and yes the fab thingy appeared. |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP....."
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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Personally we cant make a comment giving advice on certain aspects without it being asked for...
Personally i would suggest having a look at how you are selling yourself and others who are doing well on here.
Its not "instashag" and with meeting in shops, pubs or where ever you can get your personality across... Here you need to put a bit of effort in and realise this is a connection site rather than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?
I dont see this as a moan. Its more a statement and looking what others feel. That's what he asked. .. I'd agree in general yes.
Here you need to sign a contract..
1. You are who you are...photo ID please in my inbox before ill show you my face on.my hidden profile.
2. Must be 6'6 or taller with rugby shoulders.
3. 3 legs... ( all the same size ) I don't wantto hear an echo inside me.
4. Must accommodate or pay the hotel... ( They must be a gentleman)
5. Need to guarantee to show but I hold reserve to no show if I find a better meet.
6. Be patient. I've 50,000 messages to go through so can't meet for coffee till next month.
Anyone available for a simple coffee meet? . Yes, message me on pof and we'll chat over coffee tomorrow. Thank you. Do I need to sign anything? Have photo ID?
??? No, it's just a coffee.
I get all this....and I know you're (partly) joking. But in all seriousness - why not go on POF? I'm sure there are just as many women there who just want a fuck as there are women who are hoping to find a guy who'd like to date them...right?
I am.... been there 3 yrs.... It's where I meet mostly. Here is for forum banter, friends and a bit of craic. Too much baggage at times with people on here. One striking difference is the bitching...or lack of it. Here it's all over the forums and even get it at coffee meets. Never had that a pof meet. I met a fabber on.pof ( easily spotted profile wording) .. met for coffee... and yes the fab thingy appeared. "
Sorry - I didn't mean you specifically. I meant the OP. I don't get why someone who is here for sex would stay if they aren't getting sex. If POF is the goldmine it sounds, I wouldn't bother with fab. The whole age things is an excuse, and a bad one.
I get the feeling that men who make the complaints similar to the OP are here instead of on POF because it can be exhausting pretending they want to date those women they actually just want to fuck.
OP, you want to know why I personally think you have a better time on POF and in the "real world" than you do on here? Because a lot of women probably think you might be offering more than a fuck. When it comes to sex with no strings many women are looking for different things in a guy. But that's just a guess on my part. And if I'm wrong, which I might be, then why bother with fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a hit and miss  Truck is to build a great friendship with those you've already met & enjoy repeat meets
otherwise as a guy unless you just a lucky bugger lol obbs are not in your favour |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP.....
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Would you say that you don't sell your tickets to single men on sex? I'd say the primary reason for the 5 x or more single men ticket cost is because you know you can charge that as the men think they will get sex. It's not about limiting men as you limit their numbers for balance anyway.. I do believe you made a comment to a man on the forum asking about if he'd blank out... you said.. 'you wouldn't be left out'.
So not sure why you agreed with the above. Yes swinging is about the social side the friends etc...but this us a swing site by name only. I'd say the majority don't swing....only about 3% actually use the forum...I'd hazard aguess and say most single ladies ddon't swing. .but use it for nsa, as do mos single men. But that's just an opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do you think that might be though?
Many many men moan about this daily,i'm just curious to see what you yourself think may be the reason?
like i said they get hundreds of messages...some probably here for ego boosting too"
Even if I only got one message a day if I didnt fancy them then i'd just delete it. That's the thing - just cos women are on here doesn't mean they will meet everyone who messages. If you are more successful in vanilla land then stick to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Older woman are not here to provide you with a tick on your bucket list, they are here for there own reasons. I think you need to try an escort service for what your looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no problem meeting with the people that I want to, I don't see volume as being a measure of success though.
I'm becoming increasingly aware that my view isn't very common in the male proportion of this place, not sure if that makes me strange or them lol. |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex?
yes,thats exactly what was said...also some women get a huge amount of messages, but i would say the majority do not get 'hundreds' a day..it's just a pretty useful excuse.
When we do get messages however, most will check the profile first,before deciding to even look at the message...maybe bear that in mind. women can be alot more picky here than in real life, and increase their standards because clearly the most average are getting loads of attention"
I don't get loads of attention nowaday's so that's no excuse really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mostly use clubs to meet people. Any meets arranged on here are a bonus and for that reason I am very picky in who I meet off fab because unlike a club you can't see what they are like until you actually meet them. |
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
Very very true
How about you guys?
Your problem may be obvious in your above post.
The thing is, people on this site do not meet purely for sex.
It is a common misconception that single guys have about the people on this site. Some meet for sex and some don't, however from what we have seen single guys who have that opinion of the site seem to struggle a fair bit and end up posting on here saying that no one wants to meet them you are telling me the majority of people on a site called fab swingers do not meet purely for sex?
yes,thats exactly what was said...also some women get a huge amount of messages, but i would say the majority do not get 'hundreds' a day..it's just a pretty useful excuse.
When we do get messages however, most will check the profile first,before deciding to even look at the message...maybe bear that in mind. women can be alot more picky here than in real life, and increase their standards because clearly the most average are getting loads of attention"
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"I meet women in real life (clubs, streets, supermarkets...anywhere), POF, tinder and here.
Now for me, success rate is alot higher in clubs and in public, however on a site where people meet purely for sex, im slacking big time lol.
I mean im sure average looking women here get hundreds of messages everyday
I agree good answer
How about you guys?
Swinging isn't about hookups, blowing your load, or "purely sex"... it's about friendship, the lifestyle, getting to know people, the club or party scene, and appreciating that sexy friendships don't necessarily involve sex.
Perhaps stick to tinder, OP....."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Older woman are not here to provide you with a tick on your bucket list, they are here for there own reasons. I think you need to try an escort service for what your looking for "
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"I have no problem meeting with the people that I want to, I don't see volume as being a measure of success though.
I'm becoming increasingly aware that my view isn't very common in the male proportion of this place, not sure if that makes me strange or them lol."
i totally agree buddy, if you play the success game based on volume then go on POF. the people you meet on here are (the majority) more open and its about lifestyle/choice. |
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"I have no problem meeting with the people that I want to, I don't see volume as being a measure of success though.
I'm becoming increasingly aware that my view isn't very common in the male proportion of this place, not sure if that makes me strange or them lol."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to OP
i find talking and concentrating on the social aspect (for ladies who do) then when that goes right you have a much higher chance of a follow up and more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get hundreds of messages which means I'm not average, I'm a stunner!!!! Wuhhuuuuu thanks OP!!
Unless I'm below average..shit. 
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You are above average x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im average and guess what im just as picky in the real world as I am on here, my standards are just that mine, they dont change for different situations! Im realistic and dont believe half the crap im told |
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Unfortunately (well I find) a lot of women either want 8inchs or above or they only go for white or black. I only get contacted because my partner is white lol hahaha good thing I can laugh about it |
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I've never really understood why men compare dating sites with swinging sites. Of course it's easier to get one-on-one sex with a single lady from POF or Tinder. That's because there are more single ladies on those sites, and those sites are geered towards one-on-one liaisons. Fab is a swingers site. There will be the couples who are interested in swinging either with other couples or singles. There are a handful (comparatively) of single ladies who might be looking for swinging or one-on-one NSA sex. And there are hundreds of men. Some men are enjoying the swing scene or at least interested in swinging. But most guys seem to come here because they think, unlike with POF or Tinder, they can get sex without having to make an effort. And it's a surprise to them that swinging requires a similar amount of effort as dating. And it's a surprise when they discover that they've come to a site where there are relatively few single women. I really don't understand why more men just don't use an escort site, if they want an instant guaranteed shag. If it weren't for these horny dogs looking for a free sex, I believe Fab Swingers would continue to be predominantly a swingers site.
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over a year ago
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The OP's opinion is coming across a bit like this .......... Average looking women on a sex site shouldn't be so fussy!
Just for the record I think regardless of looks or personality be as fussy as you want it's a swingers site, so build friendships because great sex comes from attraction and chemistry x
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A female friend of mine on here gets messages daily and her profile is pretty much blank and no pictures. There is tons more below average looking desperate men on this site and always will be |
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The site has seen an explosion of single males over the last few years. Some see it as an alternative to POF and alike..
However swinging is a scene and lifestyle.. very often including a male who misses the fact that he is a cog in other people's interests and persuasions! |
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"The OP's opinion is coming across a bit like this .......... Average looking women on a sex site shouldn't be so fussy!
Just for the record I think regardless of looks or personality be as fussy as you want it's a swingers site, so build friendships because great sex comes from attraction and chemistry x
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Yeah, clearly think he's entitled to responses and shags from the 'average' women!
Doesn't work like that here OP.
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"Im average and guess what im just as picky in the real world as I am on here, my standards are just that mine, they dont change for different situations! Im realistic and dont believe half the crap im told "
You and me both |
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over a year ago
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I find it depends on the the time of year OP, for example school holidays and Christmas etc... hardly anyone seems to meet. The summer is coming, I find with the lighter days and warmer weather it makes people wanna meet and more. Now is the time to put yourself out there, take part in the forums frequently, up load new pics regularly and update your profile every now and again. You will be up to your eye balls in poon-tang before you know it! Good luck |
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OP, most men are pretty average around here too, not just the women. If we were having more success in bars then that is where we will concentrate our efforts and leave sites like these |
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