FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Too many creepy Meet requests..
Too many creepy Meet requests..
Jump to: Newest in thread
Anyone else get concerned flicking through the forums with some of the meet requests from males on here!? :-/ I mean surely these guys never actually get a response!? I'm scared for my life at 6'5" and 17 stone.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone else get concerned flicking through the forums with some of the meet requests from males on here!? :-/ I mean surely these guys never actually get a response!? I'm scared for my life at 6'5" and 17 stone.
"
My biggest worry is seeing how many are having unsafe sex,  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
Unfortunately those who are rude, crass, insulting and generally have the cave man mentality of "ughh me man, you woman, we fuck"
Then when those of us with some modicum of intelligence and respect we get tarred with the same brush or get treated like we are "white washing" our way through the site when in fact we are being quite sincere with compliments |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Unfortunately those who are rude, crass, insulting and generally have the cave man mentality of "ughh me man, you woman, we fuck"
Then when those of us with some modicum of intelligence and respect we get tarred with the same brush or get treated like we are "white washing" our way through the site when in fact we are being quite sincere with compliments"
I think woman get so many messages it kind of gets hard seeing everyone for who they are. Does that make sense?
I get loads of messages and just end up deleting the lot if the first few are from the cavemen type as by the 3rd of 4th I'm just fucked off and can't be bothered. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Unfortunately those who are rude, crass, insulting and generally have the cave man mentality of "ughh me man, you woman, we fuck"
Then when those of us with some modicum of intelligence and respect we get tarred with the same brush or get treated like we are "white washing" our way through the site when in fact we are being quite sincere with compliments"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think those kinds you just delete.
In the beginning I replied to everyone out of politeness now I just delete. Only so many time you can say no thanks I don't want to gag on your cock |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why can't men just treat us how they would want to be treated or how they would expect their mothers, sisters etc to be appriached ?
Some of us do!  "
Yes there are some lovely guys on here as well. Waves to all the lovely men  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why can't men just treat us how they would want to be treated or how they would expect their mothers, sisters etc to be appriached ?
Some of us do! "
I know...just sending out some advice to the others |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why can't men just treat us how they would want to be treated or how they would expect their mothers, sisters etc to be appriached ?"
I suspect, though I may be generalising too much, that they probably aren't that respectful to their mothers themselves.
A lot of this behaviour is learnt from the male father figures in their lives. If they're no great shakes, then the child (and later adult) does not have much chance.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol"
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol"
I find mentioning particulars that is written in their profile helps mate. Shows you've taken the time to read it.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol"
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol"
Do you struggle talking in everyday life? I must confess ALL hi/how are you convos get deleted. Mainly cos they go:
hi
Hello how
Yeh good thanks. How are you?
Fancy a meet?
Delete.
Nothing to go on. No social skills and fuck all use to me Im afraid, who can literally chat for ages before even contemplating a meet. Chat to ladies like you would in the outside world.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming?"
Sorry adding a bit more.
In fact I just realised I had taken a look at your profile not too long ago.
I carried on looking as there was too little to go on... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming?"
If it makes me unapproachable that's ok, I get way more messages than I can answer so that's ok with me.
I'm very new on here and still deciding what I want and don't want.
I tend to be here to read the forums rather than meet, the unsafe sex going on with a few really puts me off.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
Do you struggle talking in everyday life? I must confess ALL hi/how are you convos get deleted. Mainly cos they go:
hi
Hello how
Yeh good thanks. How are you?
Fancy a meet?
Delete.
Nothing to go on. No social skills and fuck all use to me Im afraid, who can literally chat for ages before even contemplating a meet. Chat to ladies like you would in the outside world.
"
I like to have some kind of connection to someone before meeting... it's not about notches on the bed post for me. Talk about likes and dislikes. Makes for much more fun when you do meet  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
Do you struggle talking in everyday life? I must confess ALL hi/how are you convos get deleted. Mainly cos they go:
hi
Hello how
Yeh good thanks. How are you?
Fancy a meet?
Delete.
Nothing to go on. No social skills and fuck all use to me Im afraid, who can literally chat for ages before even contemplating a meet. Chat to ladies like you would in the outside world.
"
Totally agree
Or the what are you doing messages
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
Do you struggle talking in everyday life? I must confess ALL hi/how are you convos get deleted. Mainly cos they go:
hi
Hello how
Yeh good thanks. How are you?
Fancy a meet?
Delete.
Nothing to go on. No social skills and fuck all use to me Im afraid, who can literally chat for ages before even contemplating a meet. Chat to ladies like you would in the outside world.
"
No I don't struggle I'm quite an out going sort of guy. I get on well with pretty much everyone. I'll try harder lol x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
Do you struggle talking in everyday life? I must confess ALL hi/how are you convos get deleted. Mainly cos they go:
hi
Hello how
Yeh good thanks. How are you?
Fancy a meet?
Delete.
Nothing to go on. No social skills and fuck all use to me Im afraid, who can literally chat for ages before even contemplating a meet. Chat to ladies like you would in the outside world.
No I don't struggle I'm quite an out going sort of guy. I get on well with pretty much everyone. I'll try harder lol x"
I think your doing fine |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is actually nice having a normal chat with someone,
"
I've been chatting to a lady from here for about 4 months now, but we've not managed to meet (she's a couple of hours away)! We've set a couple up, but then one or the other of us have had to cancel.
We'll get there eventually, but in the meantime we are having really interesting and fun chats.
Hopefully, when we meet it will be like old friends. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
Talking to someone is the first step into anything from a friendship to more.
There are those on here who think its "instashag" and because they are here, it automatically entitles them... Which is of course wrong.
I am a firm believer in polite, respectful and actually getting to know Someone |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Is actually nice having a normal chat with someone,
I've been chatting to a lady from here for about 4 months now, but we've not managed to meet (she's a couple of hours away)! We've set a couple up, but then one or the other of us have had to cancel.
We'll get there eventually, but in the meantime we are having really interesting and fun chats.
Hopefully, when we meet it will be like old friends."
Just think how good it will be when you do. You must know each other quite well by now.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Talking to someone is the first step into anything from a friendship to more.
There are those on here who think its "instashag" and because they are here, it automatically entitles them... Which is of course wrong.
I am a firm believer in polite, respectful and actually getting to know Someone"
Instashag, is that on the play store lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is actually nice having a normal chat with someone,
I've been chatting to a lady from here for about 4 months now, but we've not managed to meet (she's a couple of hours away)! We've set a couple up, but then one or the other of us have had to cancel.
We'll get there eventually, but in the meantime we are having really interesting and fun chats.
Hopefully, when we meet it will be like old friends.
Just think how good it will be when you do. You must know each other quite well by now.
"
lol. yes, giving each other advice and support on family issues...!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent "
I assume you brushed your teeth and was out the door like a shot...? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent "
Oh how romantic 
Mine was do you fancy wrapping them big tits around my throbbing young hard cock... my reply was no thanks lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent
Oh how romantic
Mine was do you fancy wrapping them big tits around my throbbing young hard cock... my reply was no thanks lol"
Oh dear haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent "
Shock horror - how awful....no apostrophe!
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My top request yesterday " play your cards right and you can have this Cocks thick heavy load up your pussy" cock picture was attached and it was the first message sent
Oh how romantic
Mine was do you fancy wrapping them big tits around my throbbing young hard cock... my reply was no thanks lol
Oh dear haha "
This is my original point.. just seedy and creepy and not what id imagine would be on you girls list of desirables!! Imagine them sat there with a hard drive full of porn, fray-bentos pie in the pan and cock in hand anticipating a reply on here  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone else get concerned flicking through the forums with some of the meet requests from males on here!? :-/ I mean surely these guys never actually get a response!? I'm scared for my life at 6'5" and 17 stone.
My biggest worry is seeing how many are having unsafe sex, "
me i have pics of getting bj's with no condom and of going down on women with no oral dams  i'm happy with the risks though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Anyone else get concerned flicking through the forums with some of the meet requests from males on here!? :-/ I mean surely these guys never actually get a response!? I'm scared for my life at 6'5" and 17 stone.
My biggest worry is seeing how many are having unsafe sex,
me i have pics of getting bj's with no condom and of going down on women with no oral dams i'm happy with the risks though "
Then that's all that matters, we all have our limits. Well maybe not some people lol.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think that some people the enthuse is on sex and for others it's on the social side. For me atm I'm only interested in the social side of swinging but I have the problem that I see every person who messages me has a hidden agenda. That's why I love the forums I can chat till the cows come home without the oh no when is the faf message gonna cum.
PTU xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think that some people the enthuse is on sex and for others it's on the social side. For me atm I'm only interested in the social side of swinging but I have the problem that I see every person who messages me has a hidden agenda. That's why I love the forums I can chat till the cows come home without the oh no when is the faf message gonna cum.
PTU xxx "
My god exactly same as me.
I tell guys that and usual reply is this is a sex site not a dating site.
Gosh I never realised that thanks for telling me
I love chatting to people, when I'm ready for more I'm ready |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Is actually nice having a normal chat with someone,
I've been chatting to a lady from here for about 4 months now, but we've not managed to meet (she's a couple of hours away)! We've set a couple up, but then one or the other of us have had to cancel.
We'll get there eventually, but in the meantime we are having really interesting and fun chats.
Hopefully, when we meet it will be like old friends."
That's refreshing to hear |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why can't men just treat us how they would want to be treated or how they would expect their mothers, sisters etc to be appriached ?"
I'd like to be treated the same too....afraid it's not just the men... There's a lot of women out there who treat men badly, I guess the 1:50 or more ratio means it can be done with little consequences to future meets for the women so less respect needed.
The respect OP is more a reflect of the individual, maybe better off without meeting them anyways... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming?
If it makes me unapproachable that's ok, I get way more messages than I can answer so that's ok with me.
I'm very new on here and still deciding what I want and don't want.
I tend to be here to read the forums rather than meet, the unsafe sex going on with a few really puts me off.
"
The sky remote makes you approachable lol..... #justkidding |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A guy I had been chatting to asked if I was free. I politely declined and explained I had tonsillitis and wasn't feeling very well. His response was yeah but you have other holes?
Wtf? Did he want me to lie there in agony while he fucked my holes and did he think/care if I would get any pleasure from this? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming?
If it makes me unapproachable that's ok, I get way more messages than I can answer so that's ok with me.
I'm very new on here and still deciding what I want and don't want.
I tend to be here to read the forums rather than meet, the unsafe sex going on with a few really puts me off.
The sky remote makes you approachable lol..... #justkidding "
Tut you just want my remote |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"Hi peeps. TT has point though. I've been on and off here for a while and I have had some very good meets. There are so many profiles that say not to start with HI or HEY or how you doing ect... so it's hard to start that conversation. Confused.com lol
My profile is very lacking, i gradually shortened it and have just added I don't meet because I'm hit by the wrong kind a lot of the time. It's my new filter lol
lol
That does make you rather unapproachable!
Do you therefore now simply do the looking yourself? Ignoring all incoming?
If it makes me unapproachable that's ok, I get way more messages than I can answer so that's ok with me.
I'm very new on here and still deciding what I want and don't want.
I tend to be here to read the forums rather than meet, the unsafe sex going on with a few really puts me off.
The sky remote makes you approachable lol..... #justkidding
Tut you just want my remote "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
You only have to look at the disrespect in the chat rooms comments like smashing back doors in get your tits out etc
Not one of them would ever say it directly to a woman's face but when behind a keyboard in the long dirty flasher macs with tiny todger in hand there nasty horrible perverts |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
•+• Access Denied •+• |
in this day and age it's still valid to say you have a boyfriend or are married just to get rid of a guy pestering you offline, irl. that gives you the level of respect many men have for women, none at all but they'll respect her fella (or made up one). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
