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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
We don't do Facebook but I wouldn't be very happy if they did ... there's a kind of swinging etticut within true swingers... I wouldn't even approach anyone we had played with if we saw them in the street who was with their family
So nevertheless I wouldn't be happy !  |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
"I've made totally sure that my FB and Fab accounts are not linked in any way, mainly by ensuring my mobile is not linked to either."
Small things can stop them tracing you to Facebook but as its been said unless i wanted them there i would take it quite badly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't do Facebook but I wouldn't be very happy if they did ... there's a kind of swinging etticut within true swingers... I wouldn't even approach anyone we had played with if we saw them in the street who was with their family
So nevertheless I wouldn't be happy ! "
I'm the same if I see someone in public that I have played I don't talk to them, total discretion |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes people might see you through mutual friends I have see a few people like that from my city."
Unless they know your name and face, how would they equate you on FB to you here?
Just don't post about clubs and GBs and you'll be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes people might see you through mutual friends I have see a few people like that from my city.
Unless they know your name and face, how would they equate you on FB to you here?
Just don't post about clubs and GBs and you'll be fine."
If you someone's face on here and fb it's defo them lol some people use the same pic on both bad idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worryingly I've had a few friend suggestions appear on my fb page of people I've spoken to on here, no mutual friends but they're still suggested  (and no ive not added them lol ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worryingly I've had a few friend suggestions appear on my fb page of people I've spoken to on here, no mutual friends but they're still suggested (and no ive not added them lol ) "
Facebook is quite clever in using your search history and using any phone numbers or emails you've used to offer friend suggestions, quite worringly so aswell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone tried to add/message me, mrs tatts on facebook, and I blocked him, I wasnt happy, whats on fab should stay on fab, I consider someone taking the time you hunt you down on fb as stalking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WhatsApp is usually the reason people on here get suggested as friends on Facebook
We have some friends off here on Facebook but only after a few meets and they become friends in normal life too |
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I've seen people via the people you may know but I wouldn't dream of adding them because we're all entitled to a private life and I'd hope somebody would do me the same courtesy. It's just basic respect in my opinion |
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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago
leeds |
Im getting messages from fb saying if I give my phone number it keeps my account safer I don't understand how doing that would keep it safe.surely it would make it easier for people to find me?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im getting messages from fb saying if I give my phone number it keeps my account safer I don't understand how doing that would keep it safe.surely it would make it easier for people to find me?. "
thats exactly what it does,don't add it! my FB would not be traceable by anyone on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had someone added me through Facebook after one meet she soon got blocked very quickly then turned up at my work. I've now changed my settings and taken off personal info of Facebook as I still don't know how he found me as we used kik x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you reacted when someone from here try's to add you on Facebook or finds you on Facebook and then knows all details?"
a lot of my fab friends i have on facebook now, the line is quite blurred but that's just fine for me my friends are friends no matter where i find them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had someone added me through Facebook after one meet she soon got blocked very quickly then turned up at my work. I've now changed my settings and taken off personal info of Facebook as I still don't know how he found me as we used kik x"
Hope you don't have a pet rabbit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worryingly I've had a few friend suggestions appear on my fb page of people I've spoken to on here, no mutual friends but they're still suggested (and no ive not added them lol ) "
i had one particular forumite who kept popping up in my suggestions and i told her so she could change settings, it kept happening still so we just added each other in the end...was easier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doubt anyone from here would find me on Facebook lol. Had one person suggested to me on Instagram and Facebook who I swapped WhatsApp with but that's about it |
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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago
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We had someone take my picture off here and face searched me all coz I told him to fuck off he contacted me on messager n coz I told him the same on their he went through my friends list saying I was a slag n stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are two people I know who are on here and I know in real life. If they do spot me on here and in real life then I believe we are adult enough to manage the situation privately.
I use a separate email account that I never log in with on my phone or anything I have Facebook on. Another thing is never use pictures on your account which are also on Facebook, even the innocent ones. |
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and my phone number isn't connected to it and I never hand it out anyway! But I can block people 