 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Who seem to be glued to fab waiting for you to go online and messaging you within seconds.... very off-putting
Does this happen to many others on here? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"In my opinion, you shouldn't be here if you don't want attention. After all we are all here for the sex.
What an enlightened broad minded view "
Why not have a checkbox that says "Wants to be Cyberstalked" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If you don't like the attention, it's fairly easy to stop people messaging you or hide your profile, being on fab is not for everyone, if you need the attention but don't want the meets that's difficult to manage, if you want the meets you just have to manage it and take Fab for what it is, a shop window.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you don't like the attention, it's fairly easy to stop people messaging you or hide your profile, being on fab is not for everyone, if you need the attention but don't want the meets that's difficult to manage, if you want the meets you just have to manage it and take Fab for what it is, a shop window...."
Well spoken |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's strange how it can seem a spooky coincidence, like every millimeter of internet has been surveilled waiting for your entrance.
It's worth setting privacy settings to private sometimes, so that you can pop in and have no disturbance. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you don't like the attention, it's fairly easy to stop people messaging you or hide your profile, being on fab is not for everyone, if you need the attention but don't want the meets that's difficult to manage, if you want the meets you just have to manage it and take Fab for what it is, a shop window...."
Spot on!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't mind being messaged as soon as I log on as its logical for members to message online members. I don't like the "I,m free now, can I come to yours messages"
Yes it's a site for sex but members need to stay safe, men and women alike. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Yeah I like the attention sure..But we are talking about pushy guys who seem to be waiting on you to go online here! They then bombard you with.messages and I have had to block them yep because it's so off-putting. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ive noticed in couples profiles its always the guy that messages me and wife/ partner no were to be seen just him. I always think its a single guy pretending to be a couple to be able to send messages |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you don't like the attention, it's fairly easy to stop people messaging you or hide your profile, being on fab is not for everyone, if you need the attention but don't want the meets that's difficult to manage, if you want the meets you just have to manage it and take Fab for what it is, a shop window...."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don't mind being messaged as soon as I log on as its logical for members to message online members. I don't like the "I,m free now, can I come to yours messages""
A lady recently sent a wink. I liked her profile and pics but I havent messaged to say thanks, because her status mentioned having a deluged inbox at the moment.
Given that she's not signed in for almost a week, it makes sense to wait until she's online, before messaging. Message should be nearer the top (QED). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you don't like the attention, it's fairly easy to stop people messaging you or hide your profile, being on fab is not for everyone, if you need the attention but don't want the meets that's difficult to manage, if you want the meets you just have to manage it and take Fab for what it is, a shop window...."
Agree. Hide yourself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
streatham |
I don't understand how anybody can truly be bothered by messages..it's a "virtual" contact, no one is actually knocking on your door forcing you to get off your sofa again and again and again like some pesky door salesman. Just delete- oh look it's gone. Put your phone down- oh look nobody bothering me. In this age of instant messaging, instant eliminating is just as easy.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think a lot of women get a lot of messages from guys, I think a lot of women are not getting what they want out of being on here but they always try to paint the guys as being bad, yeah a lot of guys are messaging them but just when I listen to these women I can see that they really want a companion and not sex, I think the thought of this kind of environment worries them very much so they are here in large numbers trying to drive the narative to ensure that women are not putting out and make it seem like all the guys are hitting a brick wall. This is not true at all women who are here for just sex are enjoying this site but I can understand the frustration if you are here for a relationship lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Wow, from such an expert too, he's been here half a month already! I'm sure if he had a female profile he would think differently.
"In my opinion, you shouldn't be here if you don't want attention. After all we are all here for the sex.
What an enlightened broad minded view "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
