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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago
Cirencester |
We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.
However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.
Best way to catch them is Kik message.
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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
ok... I am NOT a man no never i am a girl but i only want to meet girls to suck on my coc..... clit and pkay with my moobs... please add me im a girl i promise 
hate not being believed... i have kik also... am defo not a man xx
all the very best Pete.... oops sorry Petra x |
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Theres always one person who consistently makes a fake profile around 11pm without fail in my local area every day. First time they messaged me saying 'Are you bi'. Striaght away knew it was guy. Blocked and reported them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, we can't understand either on what they getting out of it ..why waste your time and as well as ours just to get a peek of the private pics or few hours chats ( bcoz they usually get caught in few hours though)? internet is full of nude pics and if you want naked pics they can get it there, so why pretend to be someone ?.... can anyone make sense of this behaviour ?? |
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No we can't explain what they get out of it, they're inexperienced boys that haven't thought it through. They're so easy to spot after a while on here, and the ones we're unsure about we'll ask for a phone conversation, which you can't fake, if you can't chat on the phone you can't meet - simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As soon as a supposed single girl starts trying to get dirty chat out of you or private type of stuff alarm bells ring for me.
We had one mail yesterday and I said nikki can chat on the phone and never heard back. Haha fakes everywhere on here
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By *omtdhMan
over a year ago
IOM |
Do you think that maybe they are closet gay? Lets face it they are after cock pictures so defo Bi if not gay. Not that there is a problem with that if they admit it but they do waste time for actual swingers who want to meet and just have nsa fun.
There are sites that they can use and not waste peoples time. Mind you a female friend was let down by a bloke several times turned out to be a woman so occasionally you get it vice versa! It's not Victorian times it is okay to be gay/bi and admit it on your profile and not waste peoples time.
I suppose it is whatever floats your boat but it often wastes peoples time and costs them if they attend a meet and the fake does not. That is just not fair on the innocent party. Mind you no different to multiple profiles.
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"Do you think that maybe they are closet gay? Lets face it they are after cock pictures so defo Bi if not gay. Not that there is a problem with that if they admit it but they do waste time for actual swingers who want to meet and just have nsa fun.
There are sites that they can use and not waste peoples time. Mind you a female friend was let down by a bloke several times turned out to be a woman so occasionally you get it vice versa! It's not Victorian times it is okay to be gay/bi and admit it on your profile and not waste peoples time.
I suppose it is whatever floats your boat but it often wastes peoples time and costs them if they attend a meet and the fake does not. That is just not fair on the innocent party. Mind you no different to multiple profiles.
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It's peculiar and you're right that bi, gay and curious guys can find sex very easily, if they're attractive and sociable etc.
I wonder if it's a bit like an abusive power play for many of them who are insecure and want to assert control over others. As most will never meet, they don't risk their real identity being rejected. |
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"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone."
Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veried couples profiles that are no longer both playing or no longer a couple seems to be pretty common here too.
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If you believe that is the case report and block. "
Have done to numerous couples profiles we have found to be guys still using their old couples profile ..... result nothing as the profiles are still active.
Well nothing except you find yourself blocked from seeing that profile again by the powers that be ! |
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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago
Cirencester |
"I'm just puzzled how Kik can sort it out....its more anonymous than fab!"
When You ask for a now pic it comes up with gallery or says camera if it was taken and sent. Simple thing to do is ask them to write the date on a piece of paper and take the pic. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.
Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it. "
I've had several of them today lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.
However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.
Best way to catch them is Kik message.
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lol kik is the in app for most fakes |
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"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.
Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.
I've had several of them today lol"
Me yesterday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it. "
TBH I have sent messages like this to fems looking for married guys but only after we have met the woman in question as a couple beforehand and given my OK to her in person Lois x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.
Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it. "
 I've sent these on behalf on my FB.
Kik is easy to spot. Just ask for a live shot then you get a camera under the photo proving they're real.
As I don't show my face I don't get believed that often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.
However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.
Best way to catch them is Kik message.
lol kik is the in app for most fakes "
we had one today wanting our kik so his gf could chat to us.
told him what i thought of his idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shoot them all snell snell ze vermin not as annoying as the fck yards that go through the whole gig till you send contact details n either go quite or TX on day then call as fun starts n say they lost or cant make it and ask what shed wearing n doing yes you know who you are you sad weird man lol god dam freaks why wank over a thought when the tea deals out there if you have a bit about you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pmsl we must blatantly be weird lol we use our real names on kik when we do use it but its very rare use here n phone numbers most numptys freak at a number so cuts a lot a them out n down from start |
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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago
Cirencester |
"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.
Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.
I've sent these on behalf on my FB.
Kik is easy to spot. Just ask for a live shot then you get a camera under the photo proving they're real.
As I don't show my face I don't get believed that often. "
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"Its when you play along and call them and they talk in a high pitched voice
"No im a laydee"
All i can see is david walliams in a dress
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Hahaha, thought it was just me with that image, mind you... mmm David Walliams... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Phew .. had to re-read this thread given the title 
I hate time wasters and guys like this are very sad as are single guys posing as part of a couple. Unfortunately you get them on most sites and it seems little can be done other than to report them.
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"No we can't explain what they get out of it, they're inexperienced boys that haven't thought it through. They're so easy to spot after a while on here, and the ones we're unsure about we'll ask for a phone conversation, which you can't fake, if you can't chat on the phone you can't meet - simples"
The other thing I ask for is a picture of their hand; sorts the men from the er, women  |
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