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I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Yes youre being selfish. Shes told you she wants it only as a fantasy. Leave it at that. Dont force it. |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario?
Yes youre being selfish. Shes told you she wants it only as a fantasy. Leave it at that. Dont force it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but yes. Respect is key to a healthy relationship and you must respect her wishes. It is her body after all! I hope that she also does this and wouldn't force you into something you are uncomfortable with. Communication is key and by all means discuss your fantasies, but if she's not up for it, it would be wrong for you to push it in my opinion x |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Can't believe you even have to ask!
Yes you are being selfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
The word forcing pretty much sums it up. |
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By *i1971Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry but yes. Respect is key to a healthy relationship and you must respect her wishes. It is her body after all! I hope that she also does this and wouldn't force you into something you are uncomfortable with. Communication is key and by all means discuss your fantasies, but if she's not up for it, it would be wrong for you to push it in my opinion x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You got to let this one go OP.
You've told her how you feel, she knows, she said how she feels so leave it alone. Who knows at some point she may change her mind, if she does, enjoy it, but now it's out there, you've done all you can.
Respect your wife and her wishes on this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have to force her then yes, you are being selfish.
Why would you want to make her do something which she clearly does not want to do just for you to get your kicks? |
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By *andaCouple
over a year ago
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
It was an interesting dilemma until your last sentence. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Does she know you are on here?
We can't say if you are being selfish or not we don't know your wife.
It may be her ambition but she does not want to accept it as that.
The simple answer is whatever the real situation she is not ready now and pushing it will only hurt her.
Sex has to go at the speed both participants accept, in the 60s it was expected that the woman would say no and have to be persuaded to have full sex, even married women were still expected to give in to their husbands rather than want sex themselves.
She may feel that she has to be persuaded to expand her horizons but without knowing her we can not advise.
Therefore the only advice we can give is listen to what she says and act accordingly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume you have tried showing her fab and how there are thousands of very normal couples who adore each other yet with no emotional connection can physically have fun with others? Let her look though and don't be behind her saying "see others do it". |
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"Does she know you are on here?
We can't say if you are being selfish or not we don't know your wife.
It may be her ambition but she does not want to accept it as that.
The simple answer is whatever the real situation she is not ready now and pushing it will only hurt her.
Sex has to go at the speed both participants accept, in the 60s it was expected that the woman would say no and have to be persuaded to have full sex, even married women were still expected to give in to their husbands rather than want sex themselves.
She may feel that she has to be persuaded to expand her horizons but without knowing her we can not advise.
Therefore the only advice we can give is listen to what she says and act accordingly
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Personally the phrase "almost forcing" covers everything I need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You shouldn't force anyone to do anything they're not comfortable with. Why would you want to?
Fantasy vs reality are very different. I have some fantasies that I'd never do in reality. |
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Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
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"Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
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Really!? You would be happy to collaborate with another man to find out if his wife enjoys another man's touch without her knowing that was the intention. 
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"Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
Really!? You would be happy to collaborate with another man to find out if his wife enjoys another man's touch without her knowing that was the intention.
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
So yes, I highly recommend it for relaxation, general well-being, stress relieve, improved cardio vascular function, etc etc. And if the wife finds out that all she ever wants is her husnband, or on the contrary, she won't mind another cock, what's wrong with that?
No need for nasty remarks, my dear. Negative thoughts lead to premature aging.
Enjoy you day!
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"Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
Really!? You would be happy to collaborate with another man to find out if his wife enjoys another man's touch without her knowing that was the intention.
Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
So yes, I highly recommend it for relaxation, general well-being, stress relieve, improved cardio vascular function, etc etc. And if the wife finds out that all she ever wants is her husnband, or on the contrary, she won't mind another cock, what's wrong with that?
No need for nasty remarks, my dear. Negative thoughts lead to premature aging.
Enjoy you day!
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I will.
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
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Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
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Same here! Can't believe what I'm reading!! |
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Your use of the word force is worrying.
But given that your wife has said she only wants your cock, am i right in saying you two haven't swung at all yet?
If so it was a bit mad to suggest jumping straight into organising a gang bang. As arousing a prospect as it might be the reality is an extremely nerve wracking situation to contemplate. You should have tried to take baby steps toward this (soft swap with another guy a few times, then full swap, them MFM, then MMMF etc... you get the picture)
Also, if you haven't swung before are you sure YOU are ready to see her gang banged?
I feel you may need a major rethink here OP but ultimately if she doesn't want to do it then respect her wishes and don't force anything. |
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"Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
Really!? You would be happy to collaborate with another man to find out if his wife enjoys another man's touch without her knowing that was the intention.
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I thought exactly the same. This is as bad as the husband 'forcing' her. I'm pretty sure that in either scenario there is a criminal offence being committed |
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I shouldn't have used the work force as this has lead you to believe that I would indeed force her into this scenario which I would never do.
What I meant was to 'force the issue' as keep banging on about it all the time!
I would never force anyone into anything they weren't happy with |
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"I shouldn't have used the work force as this has lead you to believe that I would indeed force her into this scenario which I would never do.
What I meant was to 'force the issue' as keep banging on about it all the time!
I would never force anyone into anything they weren't happy with "
I was going to say the same here that it was clear no one understood what you meant. Some members are keen on making out the worst of all possible scenarios from what they read on forums.
Too tense to have a decent conversation...
But you are right in asking your question and if the answers might not have been so helpful, at least you got attention to your profile. |
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"I shouldn't have used the work force as this has lead you to believe that I would indeed force her into this scenario which I would never do.
What I meant was to 'force the issue' as keep banging on about it all the time!
I would never force anyone into anything they weren't happy with "
Whatever you meant your wife has made her feelings crystal clear, you need to respect that |
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
Same here! Can't believe what I'm reading!!"
Lol, a few more premature ejaculators ...
Who said a "surprise massage"???
I said "a present". Quite a difference.
I would've thought that the couple would agree they would get a masseur. Or it may be that the man knows from experience or otherwise that his wife absolutely loves massages any time.. More so than sex or even chocolate!
Or perhaps... a few thousand other scenarios..
Yet, some of you decided to choose the worst situation and the one I never contemplated, where the woman hates others touching her, the man's know it, he calls in the masseur, wife blindfolded expecting a surprise from her loving husband (a diamond ring!!! ), but he shackles her to the massage table and she is massaged contrary to her wishes...
Really???
You guys, just chill out a bit. If you are monsters inside youselves it doesn't mean others are too.
Good luck to OP ! |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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It takes two of you to enjoy this. If my wife didnt enjoy what she was doing with other guy. Then i wudnt enjoy. It. Its the part of her enjoing it and getting turned what does the situation for me realy. Dont force it.
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
Same here! Can't believe what I'm reading!!
Lol, a few more premature ejaculators ...
Who said a "surprise massage"???
I said "a present". Quite a difference.
I would've thought that the couple would agree they would get a masseur. Or it may be that the man knows from experience or otherwise that his wife absolutely loves massages any time.. More so than sex or even chocolate!
Or perhaps... a few thousand other scenarios..
Yet, some of you decided to choose the worst situation and the one I never contemplated, where the woman hates others touching her, the man's know it, he calls in the masseur, wife blindfolded expecting a surprise from her loving husband (a diamond ring!!! ), but he shackles her to the massage table and she is massaged contrary to her wishes...
Really???
You guys, just chill out a bit. If you are monsters inside youselves it doesn't mean others are too.
Good luck to OP !"
You're wishing him good luck in forcing his wife into something she doesn't want? |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Respect her choices and dnt force her. Selfishness will lead to your undoing so be careful |
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
Same here! Can't believe what I'm reading!!
Lol, a few more premature ejaculators ...
Who said a "surprise massage"???
I said "a present". Quite a difference.
I would've thought that the couple would agree they would get a masseur. Or it may be that the man knows from experience or otherwise that his wife absolutely loves massages any time.. More so than sex or even chocolate!
Or perhaps... a few thousand other scenarios..
Yet, some of you decided to choose the worst situation and the one I never contemplated, where the woman hates others touching her, the man's know it, he calls in the masseur, wife blindfolded expecting a surprise from her loving husband (a diamond ring!!! ), but he shackles her to the massage table and she is massaged contrary to her wishes...
Really???
You guys, just chill out a bit. If you are monsters inside youselves it doesn't mean others are too.
Good luck to OP !
You're wishing him good luck in forcing his wife into something she doesn't want? "
Strangely he didn't mention that in his little rant... |
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"Don't force obviously, as others pointed out.
Get a present for her. Invite me or a local masseur for a normal massage. You'll see how she responds to being touched by another man.
You may jokingly throw something like "Oh well, next time I may invite a naked masseur.. ".
Or simply have the massage done and after the masseur has gone talk to her about the experience and if she would've loved it to have progressed further. You can always book him for round 2.
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Round 2 .... If my husband had tried this sort of thing before we got into swinging to try and convinced me further I probably would never have gotten into this in the first place.
If he booked me in for a massage somewhere it would only be for that not for some guy to be joking afterwards about having a naked masseur next time and probably winking at the husband while massaging his wife when she wasn't looking.
To the OP if she has said its a fantasy then that's the best place to leave it tbh |
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I'm very confused I think that iv worked it out to be a bloke that's now a woman who meets men for sex who wants his wife to be fucked by a group of men and she doesn't want to sounds like you have the most understanding wife in the world to stay with you while you lead your life how you want and you should probably let her lead her life how she wants and not pressure her into anything |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
I'm going to rearrange your words so you can hear yourself and what she's saying to you;
She only wants your cock. She always tells you this.
You cannot love her. You want to force her into an uncomfortable scenario to see her being used for your selfish burning ambition.
She's reluctant! She's uncomfortable with this. She always tells you this. You're forcing her. You're being selfish. All clear?
You want a female's response to this... YOUR WIFE IS A FEMALE! She's given you her response. |
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"I'm going to rearrange your words so you can hear yourself and what she's saying to you;
She only wants your cock. She always tells you this.
You cannot love her. You want to force her into an uncomfortable scenario to see her being used for your selfish burning ambition.
She's reluctant! She's uncomfortable with this. She always tells you this. You're forcing her. You're being selfish. All clear?
You want a female's response to this... YOUR WIFE IS A FEMALE! She's given you her response. "
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"I shouldn't have used the work force as this has lead you to believe that I would indeed force her into this scenario which I would never do.
What I meant was to 'force the issue' as keep banging on about it all the time!
I would never force anyone into anything they weren't happy with "
I think it's clear you should stop or she may stop wanting your cock |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario?
I'm going to rearrange your words so you can hear yourself and what she's saying to you;
She only wants your cock. She always tells you this.
You cannot love her. You want to force her into an uncomfortable scenario to see her being used for your selfish burning ambition.
She's reluctant! She's uncomfortable with this. She always tells you this. You're forcing her. You're being selfish. All clear?
You want a female's response to this... YOUR WIFE IS A FEMALE! She's given you her response. "
Well said. Could not have put it better myself. Respect to you sir xxx |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario?
I'm going to rearrange your words so you can hear yourself and what she's saying to you;
She only wants your cock. She always tells you this.
You cannot love her. You want to force her into an uncomfortable scenario to see her being used for your selfish burning ambition.
She's reluctant! She's uncomfortable with this. She always tells you this. You're forcing her. You're being selfish. All clear?
You want a female's response to this... YOUR WIFE IS A FEMALE! She's given you her response. "
Close the thread. |
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Yes. Not just selfish but thoughtless and mindless too.
She says she only wants your cock. Translate that as she does not want fucking by a group of random strangers of who she has no knowledge or guarantee that they are not violent or are clean.
I think anyone who keeps trying to urge a reluctant person to do this has no feelings, respect or concern for that person what so ever. |
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OP, it's a Bank holiday tomorrow so quite a few people have a lot of time on their hands and came up with tons of stories.
Let me give you another one:
Your wife mentioned to you previously that she had this fantasy about other men.
You started to nag her to try it out for real.
She thought that you were playing her to check if she was still faithful to you.
She had secretly been visiting the nearest swingers club on bukkake nights.
She swears emphatically that your cock is all she ever wants.
You see OP ! Ask a question and you open a can of warms. Some on here will throw you in jail without trial, others will lynch you. But few will ever understand...
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"OP, it's a Bank holiday tomorrow so quite a few people have a lot of time on their hands and came up with tons of stories.
Let me give you another one:
Your wife mentioned to you previously that she had this fantasy about other men.
You started to nag her to try it out for real.
She thought that you were playing her to check if she was still faithful to you.
She had secretly been visiting the nearest swingers club on bukkake nights.
She swears emphatically that your cock is all she ever wants.
You see OP ! Ask a question and you open a can of warms. Some on here will throw you in jail without trial, others will lynch you. But few will ever understand...
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Oh my god YES!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do I close the thread?!!
Not many are actually listening"
We are listening, you just don't like the responses.
Imagine if your wife walked out of your marriage now, citing the pressure of your demands for this fantasy. In the great scheme of things, would it have been worth it ? Not having a pop at you, just think of the possible damage and outcome, and trying to put it in perspective of an otherwise happy marriage. |
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over a year ago
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My missis didn't want to at first always asking her then one night we were out drinking and a guy was talking to her and I said go for it there she was kissing him then on way home we stopped and she had 2 guys fucking her at dogging location x |
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over a year ago
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Not selfish at all. What wife wouldn't want her husband to keep trying to get her to be fucked by a gang of men against her wishes?
There's a word for making someone have sex without consent. Maybe ask her what it is as you don't seem to know. |
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over a year ago
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She says she only wants your cock. Translate that as she does not want fucking by a group of random strangers of who she has no knowledge or guarantee that they are not violent or are clean.
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Now if she was a swinger, she would want and do exactly that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do I close the thread?!!
Not many are actually listening"
The tread will close by itself when it reaches 175 posts. So you either endure it or start posting short comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FYI OP
Getting gang banged is a woman's number 1 fantasy
Probably the most stupid, dangerous and untrue statement I've ever seen on here!! 
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of the numerous stupid comments on here today,this is one of the stupidest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have this absolute burning ambition to see my wife in a gang Bang situation - with strangers.
We always get off talking about it, but when I say we must organise one, she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock.
She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this.
I'd like some female response please.
Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario? "
Careful what you wish for, she might just enjoy someone else's cock more than yours!
Yes you're being selfish. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
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"I have this absolute burning ambition"
"she always says it's fantasy and only wants my cock"
"She says I cannot love her if I want to see her used like this"
"Am I being selfish in almost forcing her into this incomfortable scenario?""
I really can't believe that you need responses to your question.
You have answered it yourself in my eyes.
You are absolutely selfish, I would also say it's completely wrong! She has told you how she feels, and if you respect her you would understand! |
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Massage is a massage. You can't go wrong with it. I'd take it any time on my body whatever the hidden agenda of the other party may be.
Really, you can't go wrong with a surprise massage?
Pretty much depends on the person.
If my husband, who has known me for over 30 years, were fool enough to surprise me with a masseur, man or woman, innocent or with a nasty hidden agenda, I would be handing him his balls on a plate. He knows I dislike being touched by strangers. The idea of someone giving me a pamper day at a spa makes me shudder.
And then there if the point that she has made her feelings clear and said no. And that someone who supposedly loves her would trick and deceive her into doing something she has said no to just for their own sexual satisfaction.....
Words fail me.
Same here! Can't believe what I'm reading!!"
yep...don't force her...just coerce her without her consent by going behind her back and plotting what is essentially a sexual assault with a complete stranger... |
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