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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some read a message then mark as unread On a first contact? I've seen this happen a few times. Why not simply delete if uninterested "
Because they are waiting until they have time to actually reply OR they know you're watching and don't want to get bombarded with "why did you delete my message" messages  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do some read a message then mark as unread On a first contact? I've seen this happen a few times. Why not simply delete if uninterested
Because they are waiting until they have time to actually reply OR they know you're watching and don't want to get bombarded with "why did you delete my message" messages "
Seems fair enough.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a couple, one half may read it then mark unread until the other half can read it.
As s single lady, I may read a message and then come back to it when less busyI do try to reply to all my mail, but I don't get many anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do it if I don't have time for a proper reply, when I want to have a proper peruse of the profile later, because I can, it varies. It's largely since someone sent a quick and actually quite cheery message which I read and didn't reply to and then within less than five minutes sent another one psycho ranting that I hadn't replied and wishing that someone close to me died. It's basically a fuckwit freak filter tool. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"It avoids further messages like 'I saw you read my message'.......
Not if they delete surely?  "
They do get deleted, just at a later date once the sender has stopped hovering over his sent mail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not ?.....seen plenty of reasons for doing it ,end of the day it's upto the recipient is it not ?...and if you know they've read it ,and questioning they've marked it unread ..are you being what there trying to avoid ?..a stalker or a wrong un
Be careful what you ask on fab ...it shows up more than any message |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why not ?.....seen plenty of reasons for doing it ,end of the day it's upto the recipient is it not ?...and if you know they've read it ,and questioning they've marked it unread ..are you being what there trying to avoid ?..a stalker or a wrong un
Reading the question again may help.
I asked why" not why not" and of course it's up to the recipient to do whatever they want with it. No one questioned that. How on earth can I be a stalker or wrong one for asking a simple question... good grief
Be careful what you ask on fab ...it shows up more than any message "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not ?.....seen plenty of reasons for doing it ,end of the day it's upto the recipient is it not ?...and if you know they've read it ,and questioning they've marked it unread ..are you being what there trying to avoid ?..a stalker or a wrong un
Reading the question again may help.
I asked why" not why not" and of course it's up to the recipient to do whatever they want with it. No one questioned that. How on earth can I be a stalker or wrong one for asking a simple question... good grief
Be careful what you ask on fab ...it shows up more than any message "
Mate I wasn't calling you a stalker ..could I suggest you have a read through other posts in the forums to see how things can be misconstrued here ..I was making a point ..and don't need to read it again ...my simplistic answer was just that ..why not ?
Fans a great place ,you'll find a lot gets twisted on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not ?.....seen plenty of reasons for doing it ,end of the day it's upto the recipient is it not ?...and if you know they've read it ,and questioning they've marked it unread ..are you being what there trying to avoid ?..a stalker or a wrong un
Reading the question again may help.
I asked why" not why not" and of course it's up to the recipient to do whatever they want with it. No one questioned that. How on earth can I be a stalker or wrong one for asking a simple question... good grief
Be careful what you ask on fab ...it shows up more than any message
Mate I wasn't calling you a stalker ..could I suggest you have a read through other posts in the forums to see how things can be misconstrued here ..I was making a point ..and don't need to read it again ...my simplistic answer was just that ..why not ?
Fans a great place ,you'll find a lot gets twisted on here "
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
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"Guys.can be soooooo..Touchy as far as message deletion is concerned. Pathetic"
That would be weird. I currently have several sent messages still unread, and one read but not deleted - all several weeks old, and frankly I just wish they'd delete them so that I know where I stand!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys.can be soooooo..Touchy as far as message deletion is concerned. Pathetic
That would be weird. I currently have several sent messages still unread, and one read but not deleted - all several weeks old, and frankly I just wish they'd delete them so that I know where I stand!
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Read no reply = not interested in my opinion..just forget about it ...persecute or torture yourself over something not replied to then your in for a lot of pain brother |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys.can be soooooo..Touchy as far as message deletion is concerned. Pathetic
That would be weird. I currently have several sent messages still unread, and one read but not deleted - all several weeks old, and frankly I just wish they'd delete them so that I know where I stand!
Read no reply = not interested in my opinion..just forget about it ...persecute or torture yourself over something not replied to then your in for a lot of pain brother "
Whenever I send a message I immediately delete them in the sent folder. If they reply they do, if they don't then that's fine. Just get rid of them, stops you constantly checking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys.can be soooooo..Touchy as far as message deletion is concerned. Pathetic
That would be weird. I currently have several sent messages still unread, and one read but not deleted - all several weeks old, and frankly I just wish they'd delete them so that I know where I stand!
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If they're several weeks old I think you know the answer. Focus on your inbox rather than your outbox (and read the FAQS, no reply = sorry, no thanks) You can't control how others manage their inboxes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cos I like the colour yellow 
Really though it is like someone above said, I may not have time to reply or look at the senders profile to decide if I wish to reply or what to put in the reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys.can be soooooo..Touchy as far as message deletion is concerned. Pathetic
That would be weird. I currently have several sent messages still unread, and one read but not deleted - all several weeks old, and frankly I just wish they'd delete them so that I know where I stand!
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yeah. I would assume that if they don't reply that day then they are not actually interested. If a reply pops up a few days later then you have a bonus
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