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Am I a Total Freak?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Basically, all trolling answers aside, that's my question. Being this inexperienced at this age... I mean that's not normal, right? I know some guys are just late bloomers, but this is taking the cake a bit, isn't it? I'd like to know if my inexperience is completely offputting, or if I'm making it a bigger thing in my head than it actually is? Because if I'm being honest, I feel like a freak, I feel like this is a barrier to me leading a normal dating life. I did bring one girl home who, when I stupidly told her that would be my first time, she legged it out the door and never returned any of my calls and texts. I've also sorted two meets on this site, both of which stood me up and blocked me. So it reinforces in my head that this is not normal, to be a virgin this old, that I'm weird and my inexperience is offputting. I dunno, am I just being an idiot?

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By *nvercoupleCouple over a year ago

Inverness

Don't advertise that your a virgin and see how you get on.

Not that there is anything at all wrong with not having sex before so please don't think there is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alot of women on here are looking for experience it appears. I wouldnt call you a freak though...and i dont think its unrealistic to find someone who would pop your cherry.

Probably better luck on a dating site though xxx

Little d xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't advertise that your a virgin and see how you get on"

But wouldn't you be extremely disappointed if you met a guy and it turned out that was the case? I mean it's going to be pretty difficult to hide lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is very off-putting, and won't fit in with what people are looking for on a swingers website. I think I've advised you before to keep your inexperience to yourself, and I've suggested that you try and get experience in the less pressurised environment of a dating site. Might be worth considering why you are a virgin. Is it choice or were you unable to find a partner. Is there something that you can correct?

Mrs

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By *nvercoupleCouple over a year ago

Inverness

But wouldn't you be extremely disappointed if you met a guy and it turned out that was the case? I mean it's going to be pretty difficult to hide lol!"

We have met older men than us that couldnt perform on the night due to nerves.

So worst case scenario you can't get it up.

If you cum too soon it isn't a massive problem because your young enough to get it back up soon enough and in the meantime you got your mouth and hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the responses. I think it might be worse in my head than it really is, although I still feel like most women are put off by it.

RE: trying a dating site... it was the lack of success there that brought me here. I thought a site more explicitly sexual in nature would be a place I could find someone that actually likes that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see what you were thinking but women come here generally to try new things with new people....so experience is needed.

I would keep trying with dating sites xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are not a freak at all. I agree with those that say to try a dating site instead. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You asked a similar question months ago OP. You were told to change your username by some forum posters. I see you haven't.

You're making it an issue yourself, it seems.

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By *an789Man over a year ago

Cambridge

I suggest you go on an escort site and get it on. There are usually lovely girls in your area who will not make you feel inadequate.

Tell them what you want and have fun. Sex us too amazing to be frightened. Adult work is a good place to start.

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