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How often do you have meets
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As the title says. How often do you have meets and would you like it to be more or less?
We probably have a met once every 3/4months on average I think.
This seems enough for us but at times I do wish we could meet more straight forward people and meet up spontaneously. |
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I usually meet 5/6 times a year. I travel with work and work unsociable hours. People on here are very untrusting (and probably rightly so) of guys in hotels looking to meet.
I also find people don't believe me when they suggest a meet and I say yes. There must be loads of people to don't turn up when they say they will. |
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"For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3.
So I guess you're the same as us. How comes you don't have more meets?"
I was going to ask that. What slows you down? Logistics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a meet Monday and Tuesday and one tonight so all depends when we have free time some months we don't meet at all so we make the most off our free time lol xx |
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
belfast |
"For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3.
So I guess you're the same as us. How comes you don't have more meets?"
Mostly is due to not getting free time or not finding the right meet when looking one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's as and when the school holidays occur although we would love to meet much more regularly than that. We can sometimes meet ad hoc at other times but that's Hotel meets only and so some people may not want thus resulting in no meets even when we have free time
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"Nowhere near enough, too many time wasters unfortunately. It's a massive turn off at times it can get very frustrating. "
Not enough as genuine couples don't believe it when I say I will turn up as they have been burned in the past. But I completely understand why they are sceptical. |
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"I have a wife and two regular partners plus a BDSM play partner who keep me pretty busy.
I have a lady from Fab who I see about 8 times a year and go to clubs once or twice a month. "
Then he awakes from his slumber! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too often. We are at some club or the other every weekend. We need to cut this down as we should be spending more time with each other, just like we used to |
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1 every few month out of choice to be honest. Loads of meets don't interest me. Rather meet someone compatible and what usually happens is they become regulars so no need to have loads of meets. Prefer it that way as you can experiment with more filthy stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I meet as and when I have the free time, sometimes regular, other times once every few months it all depends as free time is rare for me, I would like much more regular meets at least once or twice a month would be great for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very rare, nowadays. I'd probably meet more, if I could find the time or motivation, to actually message anyone.
In the early days, when I was more proactive in contacting people, meets were more frequent.
There's no shortage of people on my hotlist, who I'd like to get around to meeting, someday - or even just chatting to. Maybe I should start using the wink button? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I'm currently a student with no major commitments, which means that I can meet pretty much as often as I like.
My fiancé lives away so visits every other weekend, I see my regular fwb once or twice a week, and then I have a couple of evenings free to either do uni work or meet others when they take my fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We usually do something about once a month. Usually a private threesome or a club or party. We tend to meet the same people. Rarely have cause to meet anyone new.
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Every 6 weeks or so il have a special meet at the gatehouse club and il play in the dungeon x
I intermittently go to Sauna Sauna on a Wednesday x
I have a few close females friend who I enjoy playing with ehen it suits is both x |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
I live alone and am single (divorced). I can't go without sex for more than a week so usually have a sex partner over at least once a week sometimes more. Many of those "meets" are blokes I've known for a long time so it's just a matter of a text message and they're here - not a Fab "meet" in the traditional sense as there's no work involved (except in the bedroom heh heh). Many are from my life outside Fab. Others are new people I meet here.
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Not as often as I'd like, but apparently I'm a terribly fussy woman with a very definite type. I tend to meet the same people over and over as a result, but because the type of guy I'm attracted to is rare, most of my playmates are quite a long distance away from me and can't meet regularly. I'd love to be back in the situation of having someone reasonably local that I could meet a couple of times a week again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't meet that often, time is in sort supply for meets.
Guys will chat on here, we get on well, and wish for a social meet, but tend not to be able to wait a week or so when I may have free time. I explain this they then think I'm a time waster and move on.
I tend now to meet only with guys I've met previously.
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By *robertsCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
We're quite similar we do 3/4 meets a year for various reasons .
We like it to be exciting so by doing it on that basis it keeps it fresh and the adrenaline is always there it doesn't lose its appeal . It's always exciting !
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"1 every few month out of choice to be honest. Loads of meets don't interest me. Rather meet someone compatible and what usually happens is they become regulars so no need to have loads of meets. Prefer it that way as you can experiment with more filthy stuff."
My story is 100% identical to yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title says. How often do you have meets and would you like it to be more or less?
We probably have a met once every 3/4months on average I think.
This seems enough for us but at times I do wish we could meet more straight forward people and meet up spontaneously. "
Sometimes it's weekly, other times it's far more infrequent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the last few weeks I meet with a reg every Thursday for the eve/night.. But other than that, not many as for me there needs to be mental stimulation and well as sexual chemistry.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once a week
I don't always wish to be verified however and lately have asked guys not to verify as I aware they are mounting up"
Maybe you should think "f"@k it verify" those people who judge people because they have loads of veris are not worth you meeting, who wants to meet judgemental idiots?
It works as a great filter for us  |
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"Once a week
I don't always wish to be verified however and lately have asked guys not to verify as I aware they are mounting up
Maybe you should think "f"@k it verify" those people who judge people because they have loads of veris are not worth you meeting, who wants to meet judgemental idiots?
It works as a great filter for us "
Us too 
We meet at least three times a week , and often have multiple meets on the nights we are out .
We would probably meet more often if we had time .
Since most of our meets are now with vanillas in the real world , it doesn't look like we meet as much as we used to on our previous profiles .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not as often as I'd like, but apparently I'm a terribly fussy woman with a very definite type. I tend to meet the same people over and over as a result, but because the type of guy I'm attracted to is rare, most of my playmates are quite a long distance away from me and can't meet regularly. I'd love to be back in the situation of having someone reasonably local that I could meet a couple of times a week again "
I'm the same as you. Definitely would like more meets xx |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
It used to be once or twice a month with a 'special friend' for one on one cd/tv lezzie fun or hotel party meets with other tgirls for 3somes and more some's)... but it's been a while now, mostly down to free time, finances and the obvious... too many idiots!  |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
Not as often as we would like, but real life and family take precedence.
Probably average a couple of proper meets a year, but we like socials first and not every social becomes a proper meet. |
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"Not as often as we would like, but real life and family take precedence.
Probably average a couple of proper meets a year, but we like socials first and not every social becomes a proper meet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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none right now, life's about other stuff at the moment but last year i was having about one a month...less before that, it varies as to my mood and what life is up to |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Here's a question: is it really swinging if a single girl is only meeting one single guy, and he in turn is only meeting her,.. ie they don;t meet anyone else for...over 3 years? |
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Not very often lately, not by choice but by circumstance. House moves, shift work, death of a parent, illness etc have temporarily put our swinging fun on hold. Hopefully we will be back to it very soon.
Probably about 4 meets a year is all we could manage as we both end up on opposite shifts often and we do like to spend some of our rare time together being a regular couple. |
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"Here's a question: is it really swinging if a single girl is only meeting one single guy, and he in turn is only meeting her,.. ie they don;t meet anyone else for...over 3 years?"
Of course it isn't !
But there may be some who will argue it is , nothing surprises me in here any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially it was 3-4 times a week but I've had some health issues this year.
Starting to feel better and hoping to get back to that
Problem is, I can no longer accommodate and I'm too old for outdoor and car fun! x |
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