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Meeting..why is it so hard?????!!!!
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
Shepton Mallet |
Perhaps part of the problem is that you're looking for "verified people"?
In rural areas, it can be difficult for men to find women who will see them, and therefore get verified (other than photo-verification, of course).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!  "
lots of people prefer not to meet locally..
personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!! "
Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned
You're doing the right thing |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Got to the point of meeting and arranging, boom! the guys I've been talking to go offline or stop talking, another is married accommodates while Mrs and kids are out, the rest unverified too far or don't accommodate! |
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
lots of people prefer not to meet locally..
personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius "
Well I'm at least 20 miles from you lol  |
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Perhaps getting rid off the "I'm only here for the forums" would stop peeps reading straight away. also 20mins isn't very far especially around St Austal as maybe for some it maybe to close as for your pics and stuff you look amazing .hope it helps |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Perhaps getting rid off the "I'm only here for the forums" would stop peeps reading straight away. also 20mins isn't very far especially around St Austal as maybe for some it maybe to close as for your pics and stuff you look amazing .hope it helps "
Thanks I'll lose that bit as for driving I do 300+ miles a week working that's why I have a limit |
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I agree always better to have a verified person or couple as they are always genuine I have found. And some of us guys will travel long distance for the right woman or couple I like to make a little trip of it and get a nice hotel to .but yes stick to your guns x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
Widen your search?"
I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
bristol |
For a meet, you would think most men would make an effort. I know I would.
Personally if given enough notice I am willing to go beyond a normal distance if its worth it...and by that i mean we have talked lots, chatted in text and maybe a few calls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
lots of people prefer not to meet locally..
personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius
Well I'm at least 20 miles from you lol "
so?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We struggle for meet as quite rural but live in hope lol"
Might be the house by a river, with soundproofing ??, someone might be unsure if that was too block out screams of ectasy or murder . |
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"Perhaps part of the problem is that you're looking for "verified people"?
In rural areas, it can be difficult for men to find women who will see them, and therefore get verified (other than photo-verification, of course).
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exactly that once people see your not verified the just don't bother tlkn back to u ive been her over a year now and still not had any luck with a mee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned
You're doing the right thing"
It doesn't mean a thing, I have been verified before but do not want to meet the same people just to get verified, its bullshit and no guarantee of a good meet. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned
You're doing the right thing
It doesn't mean a thing, I have been verified before but do not want to meet the same people just to get verified, its bullshit and no guarantee of a good meet."
It's my preference to only meet verified single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find the same when I put up a meet, nobody local is interested. X"
You look amazing and i'am not far from you il be up for a social meet first if you like and hope you have a wonderful weekend,  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I find the same when I put up a meet, nobody local is interested. X
You look amazing and i'am not far from you il be up for a social meet first if you like and hope you have a wonderful weekend, "
Thanks x |
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"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
Widen your search?
I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet"
Got you,but just because you widen your search doesn't mean you'd have to travel far. Just meet at a hotel if you can't accommodate. Haven't looked at your profile so just speculating |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!
Widen your search?
I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet
Got you,but just because you widen your search doesn't mean you'd have to travel far. Just meet at a hotel if you can't accommodate. Haven't looked at your profile so just speculating "
Thanks for advice xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread was more civil than these types usually are.
Generally the OP gets accused of expecting people to jump into bed with them and giving rubbish first messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread was more civil than these types usually are.
Generally the OP gets accused of expecting people to jump into bed with them and giving rubbish first messages."
Only if the OP is a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet today is useless unless you know how to use it properly, you have to put it on for the day you want in advance, giving plenty of time for people to see it, short, sweet and to the point and open to flexibility.
Thankfully I have a regular playmate now and ain't bothered about that shit. |
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