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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always felt that those of us on the scene are pretty honest people. 1/ You're openly saying I like sex and 2/ You can say No to someone because you don't fancy them.
It's still annoying, disappointing etc when you've emailed someone and they delete without replying - ego slightly crushed! But that's how it works here, they're just being honest.
Saying that, I reading posts about false profiles etc so obviously not everyone is honest. Maybe they can't take rejections using their own profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.
One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.
One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed."
Whispers... was that me?
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I've always felt that those of us on the scene are pretty honest people. 1/ You're openly saying I like sex and 2/ You can say No to someone because you don't fancy them.
It's still annoying, disappointing etc when you've emailed someone and they delete without replying - ego slightly crushed! But that's how it works here, they're just being honest.
Saying that, I reading posts about false profiles etc so obviously not everyone is honest. Maybe they can't take rejections using their own profile. "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?
I'm honest...
I often don't reply to messages
V x
I like you.
I replied to you "
I know. I'm just being honest. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?
I'm honest...
I often don't reply to messages
V x
I like you.
I replied to you
I know. I'm just being honest. "
Did we just prove or disprove the assertion ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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"Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.
One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed."
100% correct
My experience on fab has made me more thick skinned and taught me how to deal with rejection. Remember your not gonna be everyone's cup of tea. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?
I'm honest...
I often don't reply to messages
V x
I like you.
I replied to you
I know. I'm just being honest.
Did we just prove or disprove the assertion "
Neither.
You know, this mail system is so crap. I can't even go back and see what we said. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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