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Hotel meet - my treat
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion |
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I'm a guy so this isn't really something I have to worry about but if I did have to think about it I'd never meet someone simply because they're paying for a hotel room. There has to be an attraction otherwise you're just selling your body - and if i was doing that it'd be for a lot more than a night at a hotel. |
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"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return "
But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return
But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?"
I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.
I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep but WOULD you feel obliged to have sex with someone in a hotel if they made hotel cost "their treat"? Not sure I would.
I kind of interpreted the post of him paying as the actions of a guy who was desperate to meet! |
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"Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion"
Wouldn't be an incentive for me It's just money afterall!
There is some practically about meeting in a hotel bar for a social though I guess |
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"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return
But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?
I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.
I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid "
Nobody should feel that they should have to do anything just because someone has paid for a hotel!.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Look at it this way,if a guy is going to go and pay for it,it would cost a minimum of £100 for 30 minutes, he could get good room for that fuck all night and you could get on very well,after all it is no different than taking her out wine and dining her,that could cost more and end up being fucked in the car lol  |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
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"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return
But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?
I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.
I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid "
Agreed. I'd rather go 50/50 then made to feel bad if they pay and demand something just because they paid. |
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"Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion"
It would be an incentive not to meet in that scenario. He obviously thinks he can simply buy a woman but wants the cheapest option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't meet him. I like to get to know someone before agreeing to meet. "
Absolutely this. It doesn't bother me who pays tbh.I only meet when I'm ready to. And I wouldn't feel obliged to do anything I didn't want to regardless of who paid. ..but as I only meet when I'm certain I want to have sex with someone that scenario is unlikely to happen and hasn't in 5 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return "
Same going Dutch is the best way, good on you, all about pride and independence too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I pay my own way in life. To me it's like treating you as an Escort tho hell of alot of women do have this mindset on here.Hotels, gifts, perfume, shoes. Ive heard it all and they are very proud of themselves. Funnily enough they slag off Escorts when all they are doing is being paid in kind. Each to their own but at least see it for what it is. You are being paid in kind for fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would pay half as it seems fair plus I'm very independent and proud.
Plus I don't feel like I'm being used and it's an equal playing field with no comebacks |
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Im glad i can accom. I dont have loads of spare cash to be going dutch with.
Tell you what, after reading above, i wish i had the balls to be an escort/prostitute. Then maybe i would have some bloody cash! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he's already staying in the hotel then of course he's paying for it, if he's booked a hotel just to accommodate a fab meet then that's his choice if he otherwise can't accommodate why not push the boat out and enjoy a nice hotel it's private, discreet, comfortable and undisturbed! It's between themselves if they have pre drinks in bar first or get straight down to it...
The hotel stay alone wouldn't be the incentive for me but simply makes meeting possible if neither of us could otherwise accommodate and him paying simply makes life easier for me... |
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