After hearing loads of gross messy anal sex stories in the last few weeks my question is wouldn't you think to anally douche if there is the slightest chance of anal sex. Saves mess and embarrassment surely  |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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Wise man once said
When going into certain caves, expect to find a bear.
Applies to most things, especially anal...if shit happens, accept it, clean it and move on
*please excuse the bad pun |
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"After hearing loads of gross messy anal sex stories in the last few weeks my question is wouldn't you think to anally douche if there is the slightest chance of anal sex. Saves mess and embarrassment surely "
I wish all girls were as anal about anal cleanliness as you  |
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"Douching before anal sex can increase the risk of transferring HIV it also increases the risk of transfer of Hepatitis B.
Play safe don’t douche
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Everyone knows you need to double bag for anal sex surely ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never have anal without being 100% cleaned out. I bought my special tool from Love Honey. I also like a flat tummy so douching helps me feel empty too !
I have tried toys on just two guys - both times .... yuck !! and Im extremely squeamish. Never again |
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"Wise man once said
When going into certain caves, expect to find a bear.
Applies to most things, especially anal...if shit happens, accept it, clean it and move on
*please excuse the bad pun "
Wise man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im not screamish about bodily stuff. I dont go seeking it out but if it happens it happens. I had my finger up a guys ass before and he kept asking me to go deeper and that go a little messy, but i just cleaned up. I am a mum. I am long past being grossed out
Its happened to me after unexpected deep anal and whilst a tad embarrassing i wouldnt want to fuck anyone that got freaked out anyway.
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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Thing is it all comes down to discretion...
You do it, pull out and a bit on the cock....dont run around screaming like a crab has pinched your dick...walk into the bathroom and wash..hot water and soap.
If there's a mess deal with it calmly an politely..
Think about it from several perspectives....
The receiver - you have been in their ass and pull out and start freaking out....they feel even more mortified because of how you react to it.
The giver - it might make you sqeemish but you did it, you knew the risks so be half decent at least.
Its a no brainer really.... How someone reacts to one situation could impact others so.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing is it all comes down to discretion...
You do it, pull out and a bit on the cock....dont run around screaming like a crab has pinched your dick...walk into the bathroom and wash..hot water and soap.
If there's a mess deal with it calmly an politely..
Think about it from several perspectives....
The receiver - you have been in their ass and pull out and start freaking out....they feel even more mortified because of how you react to it.
The giver - it might make you sqeemish but you did it, you knew the risks so be half decent at least.
Its a no brainer really.... How someone reacts to one situation could impact others so.
*gets down of soapbox "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing is it all comes down to discretion...
You do it, pull out and a bit on the cock....dont run around screaming like a crab has pinched your dick...walk into the bathroom and wash..hot water and soap.
If there's a mess deal with it calmly an politely..
Think about it from several perspectives....
The receiver - you have been in their ass and pull out and start freaking out....they feel even more mortified because of how you react to it.
The giver - it might make you sqeemish but you did it, you knew the risks so be half decent at least.
Its a no brainer really.... How someone reacts to one situation could impact others so.
*gets down of soapbox "
This makes total sense to me- shit happens lol!
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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"Thing is it all comes down to discretion...
You do it, pull out and a bit on the cock....dont run around screaming like a crab has pinched your dick...walk into the bathroom and wash..hot water and soap.
If there's a mess deal with it calmly an politely..
Think about it from several perspectives....
The receiver - you have been in their ass and pull out and start freaking out....they feel even more mortified because of how you react to it.
The giver - it might make you sqeemish but you did it, you knew the risks so be half decent at least.
Its a no brainer really.... How someone reacts to one situation could impact others so.
*gets down of soapbox
This makes total sense to me- shit happens lol!
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I made that joke earlier |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Whenever we've played anally we've never had a problem . The rectum doesn't store poo , so unless the receiver is needing one you should be fairly OK . We could have been just lucky though  "
It depends on the cock size and how deep you go. As deeper you dig....
I douche and it can still leave some traces, therefore never forget to change condom when you go back to pussy fucking as the female could catch a not very nice infection. |
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"After hearing loads of gross messy anal sex stories in the last few weeks my question is wouldn't you think to anally douche if there is the slightest chance of anal sex. Saves mess and embarrassment surely "
Sadly it can create problems rather than prevent them!
I happen to have a very tight arse (like many people I imagine). On 2 separate occasions I douched before a meet. On both those occasions my arse, unbeknown to me, decided to retain some of the fluid that was supposed to clean it. It released it later during anal intercourse - and lets just say it was no longer clear! 
From then on I still had anal sex - and still do - but if a guy wants to go up there (with a condom of course) then he takes his chance.
Sex isn't meant to be clinically clean, and a brown smudge on the end of a condom is hardly a catastrophe!  |
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"After hearing loads of gross messy anal sex stories in the last few weeks my question is wouldn't you think to anally douche if there is the slightest chance of anal sex. Saves mess and embarrassment surely "
Like a girl who is prepared for all eventualities...good advice |
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"Whenever we've played anally we've never had a problem . The rectum doesn't store poo , so unless the receiver is needing one you should be fairly OK . We could have been just lucky though
It depends on the cock size and how deep you go. As deeper you dig....
I douche and it can still leave some traces, therefore never forget to change condom when you go back to pussy fucking as the female could catch a not very nice infection. "
Lol look at the size of Leedsbig9in xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been having anal sex for years. Never douched and never had an accident; not even a slightest bit. If you squirt water up into your colon you will stimulate movement, which can keep moving and leaking during anal sex.
Using two condoms at the same time can cause them to break, due to friction. There is a lot of advice from respected and trusted sites on the internet. |
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Never douched, never had an accident. Like someone said, the rectum doesn't store faeces, so as long as i'm "normal shower" clean, that's enough for me. Sex isn't meant to be clinical or sterile, there's always the possibility of bodily goo of some sort being involved. Clean up, forget it, carry on f*cking  |
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