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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married. |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
And presumably after reading your thread they may think they've had a narrow escape, you're not livestock breeders are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married.
And presumably after reading your thread they may think they've had a narrow escape, you're not livestock breeders are you?"
And that comment makes sense how? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aaah I see well , the 3 guys were asked individually ' 1st one chatted then disappeared , so next one contacted us he then shyed off 3 red one went invisible , and no not selective but they contacted us , we were just commenting on how sexy they were that was all . |
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"Aaah I see well , the 3 guys were asked individually ' 1st one chatted then disappeared , so next one contacted us he then shyed off 3 red one went invisible , and no not selective but they contacted us , we were just commenting on how sexy they were that was all ."
Hey there im in london |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
Some guys seem to get off on knowing they can "have" someone.. without necessarily being interested in actually doing anything beyond their online fantasy world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's simplistic to blame single guys.
Perhaps it was your misadventure during the selection, you narrowed down to fakes or not really serious about meeting you, etc...
Seeing your age, some might've had a second thought about it..
Singles, couples... it's wrong to paint everyone with the same brush.
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
You say the guys were: " all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe"
Hmmmmm...Maybe and just maybe, you were dealing with fake profiles.
The pics you saw about the guys looking handsome, vwe etc may not have even been their real pics.
Fake profiles, pic collectors and time wasters know how to talk all the enticing talk and put stolen images of models out there just to lure and entice others. Once they have got their kicks from the cyber chat they just disappear or find some lame excuse not to meet.
Like one poster above said, the problem may well be with your selection criteria. Not all single guys act like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Live stock breeders ?
You thread reads like you were selecting a prize breeding bull/ram not a third person for fun."
No it doesn't. They chose men they thought were suitable for them, the same as you do with women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What the hell has our age got to do with it??!!!!!!
They knew how old we are and usually misty doesn't join in he leaves me to get on and have a fun eve , he just likes to make sure everyone is good...you are Deffo of our X as card list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Live stock breeders ?
You thread reads like you were selecting a prize breeding bull/ram not a third person for fun.
No it doesn't. They chose men they thought were suitable for them, the same as you do with women. "
thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married.
Some guys seem to get off on knowing they can "have" someone.. without necessarily being interested in actually doing anything beyond their online fantasy world.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married.
Some guys seem to get off on knowing they can "have" someone.. without necessarily being interested in actually doing anything beyond their online fantasy world.
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that's very true .x |
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"What the hell has our age got to do with it??!!!!!!
They knew how old we are and usually misty doesn't join in he leaves me to get on and have a fun eve , he just likes to make sure everyone is good...you are Deffo of our X as card list"
Age shouldn't have anything to do with it.....I mean everyone has the option of advertising what age people they want to meet....why contact someone out of their preferred age range??
I personally, think you look like a great couple and if we were closer, I'd probably contact you myself. |
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This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Live stock breeders ?
You thread reads like you were selecting a prize breeding bull/ram not a third person for fun."
The couple were looking to satisfy their own fantasy. Why should they compromise on what they want? |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
Empathise with your situation and it is one that we have found ourselves in previously.
Our suggestion to you would be to get more involved in the Club scene and arrange to meet at a Club. Two benefits: if they do go to Clubs they are more likely to really be players and secondly if you find you don't hit it off at the Club - you still have the rest of the night to find another person at the Club.
After a few experiences like yours we decided a long time ago to only ever meet first time at a Club. It works for us. |
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Cos some of the single guys we are all considerated time wasters...i have never let down a meet...for single guys...read the profile and if you are shy or you can't meet don't messing around for nothing don't waste somebody else time...hope you will fiind a meet soon... |
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples."
Wish you were closer, just what the doctor ordered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
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commiserations OP - this has happened to us in the past too - now we always arrange rendevous at or very near a swingers club so we can go ahead with plan B if needed! |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
Maybe choose 5 guys next time! |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
love the naivety in your statement. bless. |
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I'm not sure why it seems to become a blame game whenever anyone on here gets let down . It seems like whoever says they've been let down , it somehow becomes their fault !
The fact is this , this couple had a meet set up , looked forward to it , and all the guys turned out to be timewasters . This is exactly what ruins the site for those here to meet up .
All we can do is say we are sorry this happened , and it's a bloody shame people do this .
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples."
The golden rule is to speak on the phone to the female before any meeting with a new 'couple' or 'single female' otherwise it's likely the female half isn't aware of the online conversation or doesn't even exist . |
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples.
Wish you were closer, just what the doctor ordered "
Ahhh distance can be a bitch, aye  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
I may get a lot of stick on here but that's why I believe it's important to tell and ladies I chat to on here that I'm married and playing secretly from the off then they get to make an informed decision rather than messing people around X |
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples.
The golden rule is to speak on the phone to the female before any meeting with a new 'couple' or 'single female' otherwise it's likely the female half isn't aware of the online conversation or doesn't even exist ."
I never really considered this, you know. Thanks for the advice . I just assumed couples are genuine. Guess I'm still learn the ropes hahaha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure why it seems to become a blame game whenever anyone on here gets let down . It seems like whoever says they've been let down , it somehow becomes their fault !
The fact is this , this couple had a meet set up , looked forward to it , and all the guys turned out to be timewasters . This is exactly what ruins the site for those here to meet up .
All we can do is say we are sorry this happened , and it's a bloody shame people do this .
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Well said!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
we have had this a cple of times trying to arrange a meet the guy says yes to all our questions , when we agree to meet them they disapear |
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
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We've had it with single guys too recently. Would love to meet with one when we can. Get messages with all the chat and seem to get on well then the next day it's 'user no longer on site '
Either we're scaring them off or it's a case of them looking and chatting when horny then deleting after post wank guilt hits! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where the verifications good? I find people who been to clubs are more reliable then ones who haven't. "
I don't go to clubs. Never let anyone down. Been late due to traffic, keep them updated, but never no show. Even when I clearly saw once that it was a TS pretending to be a woman. Well, it was meant to be a social in public place anyway.
Single guys, women, couples... It doesn't matter. It depends on the person (provided they aren't fake. Fakes can tell you anything ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a lot to be said for my method of taking time chatting to guys first and Sussing them out over a period of time. I've never been let down in 5 years. |
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"A lot of people on sex sites are flaky. Not a lot can be done about it."
Just this afternoon, I was contacted by a couple, who invited me to come and fuck his wife while he watches, as they are staying in an hotel just outside Keswick (about 15 miles from me), and it has to be tomorrow, as they are going home on Tuesday. Trouble is; the gps locator in here puts them 130 miles away. Not only that, but their profile is less than 24 hours old, so no veris or photo -verified either. Thanks but no, dream on mate  |
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse "
No we don't; I've walked away from women who offered me sex on a plate at a social. Don't tar us all with the same brush  |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
So What you're saying is because you've been let down by 3 guys then the rest of us should get a hard time because of what they did?  |
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples.
The golden rule is to speak on the phone to the female before any meeting with a new 'couple' or 'single female' otherwise it's likely the female half isn't aware of the online conversation or doesn't even exist .
I never really considered this, you know. Thanks for the advice . I just assumed couples are genuine. Guess I'm still learn the ropes hahaha."
Nope, couples' profiles in here can be as false as the bulk of single females. Never assume anything, ask for proof, check veris, and definitely keep your wits about you |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married.
And presumably after reading your thread they may think they've had a narrow escape, you're not livestock breeders are you?"
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples.
The golden rule is to speak on the phone to the female before any meeting with a new 'couple' or 'single female' otherwise it's likely the female half isn't aware of the online conversation or doesn't even exist .
I never really considered this, you know. Thanks for the advice . I just assumed couples are genuine. Guess I'm still learn the ropes hahaha.
Nope, couples' profiles in here can be as false as the bulk of single females. Never assume anything, ask for proof, check veris, and definitely keep your wits about you "
wot he said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
Rubbish!! Men can be choosy too."
not rubbish.. men dont seem rite choosey on ere lol |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
Twats...each and every one of them.
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Its a ballache but unfortunately it happens.
I think in our experience we've arranged fewer meets with couples than with singles - seems trickier. But then I think we've probably be let down equally by couples as by single guys.
Some probably fake profiles, some just wind-up merchants, some of the single guys just got cold feet perhaps.
Anyway its all part of life's rich tapestry.
I think in contrast, at clubs, we've hooked up more often with single guys than with couples. With a single guy its mostly whether Marion is cool with them. Whereas with a couple we've got 2 and 2 to coordinate and be cool with playing. All of which much easier in larger groups.
All the variations are good for us so we tend to be satisfied with that
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there are a hell of a lot of guys on here who are just getting off on the fantasy of meets. It's a turn on planning a meet and thinking it might actually happen but when it comes to it they aren't actually cut out for it, they just enjoy the chase.
Then there's the fake profiles, guys who have stolen pics and text and living out the fantasy of being someone else. I've had two guys steal my pics/profile in the last few months and they are just the ones I've found out about.
The fakers will invariably have copied from what they consider the more appealing profiles, nobody creates a fake profile of an ugger. So more of the desirable guys will turn out be fakes than the less desirable ones.
Bearing all that in mind the genuine, reliable and desirable guys on here are a lot more valuable than they may at first seem, maybe not quite Unicorn status but in shorter supply than it at first might appear. |
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"I think there are a hell of a lot of guys on here who are just getting off on the fantasy of meets. It's a turn on planning a meet and thinking it might actually happen but when it comes to it they aren't actually cut out for it, they just enjoy the chase.
Then there's the fake profiles, guys who have stolen pics and text and living out the fantasy of being someone else. I've had two guys steal my pics/profile in the last few months and they are just the ones I've found out about.
The fakers will invariably have copied from what they consider the more appealing profiles, nobody creates a fake profile of an ugger. So more of the desirable guys will turn out be fakes than the less desirable ones.
Bearing all that in mind the genuine, reliable and desirable guys on here are a lot more valuable than they may at first seem, maybe not quite Unicorn status but in shorter supply than it at first might appear."
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
Rubbish!! Men can be choosy too.
not rubbish.. men dont seem rite choosey on ere lol"
That's sounds more like the type of men you've been speaking to.
It certainly does not apply to all men on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Jioso - quote.
"Where the verifications good? I find people who been to clubs are more reliable then ones who haven't.
I don't go to clubs. Never let anyone down. Been late due to traffic, keep them updated, but never no show. Even when I clearly saw once that it was a TS pretending to be a woman. Well, it was meant to be a social in public place anyway.
Single guys, women, couples... It doesn't matter. It depends on the person (provided they aren't fake. Fakes can tell you anything )"
What was the give away, did they whip out the 'ole knobler and ask for a beej?  |
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
Rubbish!! Men can be choosy too.
not rubbish.. men dont seem rite choosey on ere lol
That's sounds more like the type of men you've been speaking to.
It certainly does not apply to all men on here. "
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"Live stock breeders ?
You thread reads like you were selecting a prize breeding bull/ram not a third person for fun."
why wouldint they want to find the best of the bunch?plenty to pick from with the ammount of guys to girls on here so makes perfect sense. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow what a lovely response from you all, yes we were a little picky this time and also the comments were great to read, thank you all but I think we will stick to clubs now ,hydro nr Heathrow and as for guys just sorting out a meet because they can , then cancel and the comments about our age,
Your time will come and that right soon.
Thank you all for the fun on this subject. |
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par for the course really .. i hardly meet anyone now as its usually a big letdown and i just cant be bothered to put myself thru it ..i often had 3 or 4 eager guys lined up and and none would show up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming the OP is a real story, rather than an attempt to attract views to her persona, would you agree to give us the names of the offenders?
Name and shame may be frown upon, but why not? Fab site actually allow you to report no show meets to admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't just apply to single guys. I had a meet all lined up with a couple and I've been chatting on kik with them both on the days leading up to tonight. All through the day ive been messaging and loe and behold theyve gone silent on me. Complete waste of time. All that build up for nothing.
Remember folks that couples and women can be just as bad and it's not all the blokes. |
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
Rubbish!! Men can be choosy too.
not rubbish.. men dont seem rite choosey on ere lol"
Excuse me? . Bit presumptuous of you. Lol doesn't make it okay to say that either. Cheek of it |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
I find this interesting as in all my years on and off this site I've only been let down twice by single men, but don't even get me started on all the hassles with couples!
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married.
I find this interesting as in all my years on and off this site I've only been let down twice by single men, but don't even get me started on all the hassles with couples!
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I find this interesting as in all my years on and off this site I've only been let down twice by single men, but don't even get me started on all the hassles with couples!
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
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"Some may have been married?"
Not sure what difference that would make. I'm on here because I'm a married man in a sexless marriage (with kids), and paying escorts is costing me thousands!
Never managed to meet anyone on Fab for sex, but I've never failed to show up for an escort booking. Guys in my position are very reliable indeed!
What I find rather annoying are women who complain about "all the timewasters on here" after turning me down... (though not applicable in this case).
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
No we don't; I've walked away from women who offered me sex on a plate at a social. Don't tar us all with the same brush "
I've done that but apparently were lying. The women on fab are all irresistible sirens apparently. |
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
You had a problem with 3 single guys? That's not all single guys? |
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse "
You including your hubby in that sweeping statement or is he exempt because he's with you |
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What I find rather annoying are women who complain about "all the timewasters on here" after turning me down... (though not applicable in this case).
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So because they don't find you attractive enough to fuck, they can't complain about time wasters? Entitled much?  |
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I guess if they were single and attractive with hot bodies, maybe they followed the same process as you did in selecting play mates.
Perhaps they found some one hotter, just in the same way you selected them over people you thought were less hot. |
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What I find rather annoying are women who complain about "all the timewasters on here" after turning me down... (though not applicable in this case).
So because they don't find you attractive enough to fuck, they can't complain about time wasters? Entitled much? "
How could they know how attractive (or otherwise) I am? They didn't ask for pics, or agree to meet socially, or anything else.
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Your profile is your shop window and what women use to figure out if they want to have sex with you.
They will not waste time finding out how attractive you are, looks or personality wise, if there is nothing to raise that initial spark. |
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By *imonP23Man
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On the original topic: was it the "main event" that these guys chickened out of? Or some preliminary social meeting?
Even I would be reluctant to get involved in a weekend of debauchery without a meet-and-greet first. But if they failed to show up for that, or if they did but then failed to show up for the main event - yes, that's odd (and crass).
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"This seems to be happening to me with couples. Last night for example:
A couple messaged me for a meet. It was Mrs birthday. We exchanged messages. Arranged to meet. I gave them my number and told them to message me when they were ready. I jumped in the shower, got ready and then.... nothing. Woke up this morning and they still haven't messaged me.
Haven't been here long but I've already had my time wasted by a handful of couples.
The golden rule is to speak on the phone to the female before any meeting with a new 'couple' or 'single female' otherwise it's likely the female half isn't aware of the online conversation or doesn't even exist .
I never really considered this, you know. Thanks for the advice . I just assumed couples are genuine. Guess I'm still learn the ropes hahaha."
That golden rule proves nothing. It certainly doesnt mean that you are fake if you wont speak on the phone. I wont and alot of my friends wont but we still meet. |
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"I agree .. im pretty choosy ..not like men who shag anything with a pulse
No we don't; I've walked away from women who offered me sex on a plate at a social. Don't tar us all with the same brush
I've done that but apparently were lying. The women on fab are all irresistible sirens apparently."
I know you're not lying The only guys I go for are the ones that are picky and only have decent looking women in their veris
I'm not interested in a guy whose brain is in their trousers and will fuck anything with a pulse It's a total turn off
Those whose brains are in their heads and are actually picky about who they meet do seem to be in the minority though
Agree totally though There's a lot of single women on this site who are fully aware they are out numbered big time by single men and can act like divas getting men chasing them and playng games for attention
The men with brains in their heads just walk away and refuse to play their games and they're the type of guys I go for (provided they're physically my type too, obviously!) |
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Well, I'm so picky that I don't have ANYONE in my veris.
Which does raise an interesting question actually. Do I need verifications? My profile makes it clear that I'm a "married cheater", and that seems to be frowned upon, so maybe that proves I must be genuine!
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"Decided to have a weekend of great sex with a single guy,after the load of dross messages we get ,we eventually whittled them down to 3 guys, all handsome ,late 30,s early 40,s great body's vwe and guess what , after initial contact and making plans, 2 cried off one after the other and 3rd contact disappeared , and single guys wonder why they have a hard time, mind you these guys all said were single but reading on some may have been married."
We had a similar experience when we first started looking for single men. Got chatting to 2 guys, swapped face pics, everyone seemed happy, started to make plans and then they went silent.
I'm not sure if the men you spoke to were verified but the 2 guys we initially spoke to weren't verified as having had an MFM threesome so we wondered if they had bottled it. We then decided we were only going to talk to those which were verified in MFM and hey presto, the first attractive guy we spoke to turned up and was great! Swapped a few messages, had a social, then had a meet 2 weeks later.
We found being far more selective in who we spoke to and being VERY clear in our messages about what we would like, and what we could offer, at a meet made things go much more smoothly for everyone.
On reflection we blame ourselves as much as anyone else for our negative experiences early on. Maybe being more rigorous in your selection process will yield more successful results for you both |
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