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Does this make me gay he said
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bi curious, or maybe just bi selfish. But if he's on here, he doesn't need to change his sexual preference on his profile - he can just be "Fab" straight.  "
He's not on here yet lol
But I'll give him about a week and beware |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
Nope. Think you're spot on. |
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
He does know de Nile isn't just a river in Egypt, right???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was told by a man who sleeps with tvs he's straight as what's the difference poking a women's bum to a man   .
I said surely you're at least bi-curious he recons 100% straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh sexuality is probably more complex than a few binary labels.
No one is exactly the same in almost all respects yet a few arbitrary labels are accepted as being a definitively accurate gold standard to define the sexuality of everyone.
I tend not to label, just go what's mutually enjoyable, safe and pleasurable for both consenting parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is our understanding. If a guy is physically attracted to and turned on by guys, he's gay. If he's attracted to females and turned on by them but will play with a guy, he's bi sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird how there's such a fuss over males , girls being bi no fuss "
Exactly. Men are pilloried and ostracized. It's no wonder so many choose to remain low key.
Women are encouraged, indulged and lauded as liberated.. one of the many bizarre strangely pervasive double standards.
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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago
Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire |
"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
So did he feel that you should have said he was gay
Sounds to me he is a straight man with rose tinted glasses on lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
I always though...
Straight = Will only do it with the opposite Sex.
bi-curious = Curious about trying something with the same sex.
Bi-sexual = Someone who has tried it before and happy to do it again with same/opposite sex.
Gay = Will only ever do it with the same sex.
Am I wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong
I always though...
Straight = Will only do it with the opposite Sex.
bi-curious = Curious about trying something with the same sex.
Bi-sexual = Someone who has tried it before and happy to do it again with same/opposite sex.
Gay = Will only ever do it with the same sex.
Am I wrong?"
Based on my experience, things tend to be much "greyer" than most would imagine.. people adopt labels that are for the most part. Representative but perhaps not completely. |
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"The world is obsessed with labels.
Why do we need to put everyone in a box"
Stick to the labels just have a few more to cover all the different titles folk want .
Keep the boxes for when we're dead . |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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"Same sex, sex means your bi or gay them the facts lol "
I've had sex with women but I don't class myself as bi and no one seems to have an issue with that.
However if I was a bloke saying I'd had sex with a guy people would be insisting I was bi or (fab straight)
There's a real double standard and it really hacks me off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well me and hubby met guy few weeks back I was up for DP but instead we ended up with a rather large bellend in middle off both r mouths while kissing Dick was shocked but I made him suck it and it was big turn on . Its just wat happens in heat of the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird how there's such a fuss over males , girls being bi no fuss
It's that little old thing they call 'macho bullshit' "
If we could strip away social conventions I think most people would at least try before they bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird how there's such a fuss over males , girls being bi no fuss
It's that little old thing they call 'macho bullshit'
If we could strip away social conventions I think most people would at least try before they bi "
Or its Bi now, Gay later.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird how there's such a fuss over males , girls being bi no fuss "
Ridiculous isn't it. The real joke is that it's the "straight" guys who make most of the fuss... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club"
There's a name for that also, but I don't fancy a forum ban do I'm not going to say it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trying your first cigarette doesn't make you "a smoker" going back and doing it repeatedly and buying another packet makes you a smoker.
Why do men automatically have to become bi the first time they touch cock? |
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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Trying your first cigarette doesn't make you "a smoker" going back and doing it repeatedly and buying another packet makes you a smoker.
Why do men automatically have to become bi the first time they touch cock?"
at last someone with some sense and best answer so far |
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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club
There's a name for that also, but I don't fancy a forum ban do I'm not going to say it. "
o please tell me what it's called wouldn't think it would lead to a ban |
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"Trying your first cigarette doesn't make you "a smoker" going back and doing it repeatedly and buying another packet makes you a smoker.
Why do men automatically have to become bi the first time they touch cock?"
Insecurities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Human sexuality is much more then heterosexual, bisexual or gay. Majority of people are somewhere in between and it can be fluid over time. Obviously he was curious to try what he did but it doesn't make him anything else but human. People love categories, labels and stereotypes and there's more bad coming out of it than good in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club"
So you let a guy suck you off and verified by another guy all be it via cam and your not even a little curious ? lol |
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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club
So you let a guy suck you off and verified by another guy all be it via cam and your not even a little curious ? lol"
I was on the chat cam cant help who looks in but i understand y you say that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
I wish people would not get so hung up on labels. You are curious if you will do stuff with both sexes, gay if you ONLY seek men out for sex and bi if you seek man and women. I do not fit into any of the above, categorise that... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Same sex, sex means your bi or gay them the facts lol
I've had sex with women but I don't class myself as bi and no one seems to have an issue with that.
However if I was a bloke saying I'd had sex with a guy people would be insisting I was bi or (fab straight)
There's a real double standard and it really hacks me off"
Yes I the female would play with females with hubby present but I feel it's fun playful and I am playful rather than bi. Lol.
Each to their own. Make love not issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club
No that actually makes you a legend lol
Fist pump to you lol"
Erm ...... I didn't know desperate equaled legend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong"
I'd say he was bi delusional |
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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club
No that actually makes you a legend lol
Fist pump to you lol
Erm ...... I didn't know desperate equaled legend "
I'm a desperate legend then is that good or bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm straight but i let a guy suck it so could fuck his girlfriend in a club
No that actually makes you a legend lol
Fist pump to you lol
Erm ...... I didn't know desperate equaled legend
I'm a desperate legend then is that good or bad"
Your comment made me giggle n think cheeky...
Obviously all parties involved were happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong
I wish people would not get so hung up on labels. You are curious if you will do stuff with both sexes, gay if you ONLY seek men out for sex and bi if you seek man and women. I do not fit into any of the above, categorise that..."
You're just bloody awkward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a friend join in our swinging fun and we were? telling him about our sexy fun times and his story was he went into a male one sauna in which he got proper pleasured.
He asked dies that make me gay we told him no ur bi curious
He was annoyed at this but we tried to gently say to him you done this on your on accord cause you were curious.
Are we wrong
I wish people would not get so hung up on labels. You are curious if you will do stuff with both sexes, gay if you ONLY seek men out for sex and bi if you seek man and women. I do not fit into any of the above, categorise that...
You're just bloody awkward "
I am and you look lovely in pink xxxx |
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