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By *eah OP Woman
over a year ago
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Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx |
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
They're sexy, the mark of a woman embrace them or let me |
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I genuinely don't think you've got anything to worry about.
My wife has had 4 kids and so has a few stretch marks which she used to be very self conscious about, however, after going to a few clubs and playing with other people she's realising that most people don't care about them and as a result is becoming less self conscious about them. I tell her she has them because she did an amazing thing (or 4!) they're her tiger stripes and they're sexy.
Your pics look really great as well 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bigger girl with a wobbly tummy and stretch marks but I've never had anyone complain!  your pictures are incredible, and no stretch marks in sight.. embrace them and don't worry xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As daft as it might sound, someone being conscious of them/trying to hide them is far more unattractive than a few stretch marks.
I know it's easier said than done but just forget about them, nobody is going to care/bring them up and there's nothing hotter than a confident naked woman. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I like people with character and bodies with character. I'm not sure a body can really have "character", but hopefully you know what I mean.
There's loads of guys out there who would far rather meet someone with a few quirks/bumps/ lines than some botoxed, bland person who looks like a walking photoshop tutorial.
Personally, I have a bit of a thing for lines on a face - I think they look great usually.
I used to be terribly self-conscious about a couple of things myself, but "letting go" of that is a joyous thing .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stretch marks are a sign of your femininity and your ability to create life.
Anyone who finds pregnancy stretch marks a problem really isn't worth your time.
Mr. Rogue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any woman who has had kids are expected to have stretch marks and they ain't something to be shy about it happens same as grey hair it happens same as weight gain it happens just because media don't like them doesn't mean we don't like them they are not imperfections they's are subtle reminders of moments in your life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had children so don't think I've got any."
Stretch marks aren't exclusive to women who have had children.
I got my first stretch marks at puberty.
Men get them too.
Anyone who gains weight can get stretch marks.
You would be very lucky to never have any stretch marks. |
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I get where ur coming from i love my kids and would go through pregnancy all over again without question but I hate mine and they do make you self conscious
Get yourself on Amazon and get some dermacol make up cover that stuff is gold dust it hides scars tattoos the lot I use it on my shoots to cover my tats n tiger stripes
Failing that ......
suspender belts n corsets hide a thousand sins  X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also have a colleague who has had a baby without any stretchmarks so I guess they are an individual thing. Shouldn't make anyone any less attractive though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As daft as it might sound, someone being conscious of them/trying to hide them is far more unattractive than a few stretch marks.
I know it's easier said than done but just forget about them, nobody is going to care/bring them up and there's nothing hotter than a confident naked woman. "
What he said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm off aboard to have a Tummy Tuck in 3 months. First time I've ever put this on fab because I'm so embarrassed 
It's for me though. And it goes further than just having babies. I've lost nearly 4 stone in weight too.
Actually feels quite relieving to admit it on here..
It's also nice to read the guys reactions to stretch marks. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people "
I'm not sure porn is the big culprit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people
I'm not sure porn is the big culprit. "
Not exclusively, but I think it plays a big part. What's your view? |
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i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed.
But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out.
Love yourself and so will the men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people
I'm not sure porn is the big culprit.
Not exclusively, but I think it plays a big part. What's your view? "
Oh don't get me wrong, it's a big factor, but I enjoy porn and it hasn't had that effect on me.
I could get into it more but I wouldn't want to derail this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed.
But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out.
Love yourself and so will the men. "
Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you.
I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son 
I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly..  |
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Embrace them!! There are so many woman who would love to have kids and can't . Your marks are showing you have lived and are blessed with a family .
If you get through life unmarked you ain't living it right lol . X |
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I have stretch marks on my lower back and hips following pregnancies but none on my tummy (work that out). I also sport a proper mummy tummy. I have a few operation scars that have basically saved my life! Do I give a flying fiddle..... nope. Can't change them so please don't worry about them. Sadly some ppl perceive the airbrushed images nowadays as the norm. I know only one woman that has no stretch marks. She's a 6ft 1in clothes size 8 mother of triplets |
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed.
But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out.
Love yourself and so will the men.
Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you.
I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son
I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly.. "
Bloody hell women hope you make him suffer 
It is what is you can either spend all the time hating on yourself or loveself and have more fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
I think you look amazing. But I do the same and cover mine with sexy lingerie. But if that makes you feel sexy then I can't see anything wrong with that but really do not think any guy is going to go eergh if you got naked, I think they would be too busy checking out your sexy body..
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"I'm off aboard to have a Tummy Tuck in 3 months. First time I've ever put this on fab because I'm so embarrassed
It's for me though. And it goes further than just having babies. I've lost nearly 4 stone in weight too.
Actually feels quite relieving to admit it on here..
It's also nice to read the guys reactions to stretch marks. Thank you "
Congratulations on your achievement, you should be rightly proud. Good luck for your forthcoming surgery.
As to stretch marks, only shallow people would be put off by them. We embrace them and their beauty in signifying birth and motherhood.
Show 'em off, be proud and bollocks to the haters.
XX
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Some nice underwear can help.
I had three C sections and i hate the marks on my stomach.
B got me some underwear on line its like a wide garter belt that comes above my navel and stops just above my pubic bone. Holds me in perfect and looks amazing as i dont have to remove it for play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
Nothing wrong with them. Its about the person. Hell if someone likes me enough to play I am going to let a small thing like streach marks ruin it? |
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
Hat here.
Firstly I'd like to echo everybody else's comments here: stretch marks are nothing to worry about and, apart from a few numpties, we men will hardly even notice them while we admire your naked body .
A lot of sexiness is confidence. If you don't feel confident being completely naked, go with that lingerie that gives you your confidence boost. I think you may find that admiration of your naked body will help to boost that confidence too. Maybe do it a bit at a time with less and less covered.
Secondly, we've both been admiring that beautiful, curvy, sexy body of yours as we see the pics go by in our local updates section. You are damned hot and you should be proud. |
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I've got 3 children and have a few stretch marks, if anything swinging has made me more confident about my body!
At the end of the day us women have earned them tiger stripes!!
Op your gorgeous!!
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm off aboard to have a Tummy Tuck in 3 months. First time I've ever put this on fab because I'm so embarrassed
It's for me though. And it goes further than just having babies. I've lost nearly 4 stone in weight too.
Actually feels quite relieving to admit it on here..
It's also nice to read the guys reactions to stretch marks. Thank you "
i'd do the same, good luck.
had 5 kids and lost 5 stone here. it's shrunk a fair bit since losing weight but i'd love to see what my body looked like before i had kids (i can't remember). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
For what it's worth we think you look stunning. Stretch marks are just another chapter in the story of a woman's body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed.
But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out.
Love yourself and so will the men.
Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you.
I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son
I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly..
Bloody hell women hope you make him suffer
It is what is you can either spend all the time hating on yourself or loveself and have more fun "
Very very true..
Ha ha.. He looked like a 3 month old.. He will here about it for ever more. Actually it was an incredible experience xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Stretch marks should be considered beautiful not something unsightly!! It comes from the creation of life which is the most magical experience anyone could possibly go through. But in our world physical confidence is extremely important when it comes to feeling attractive and sexy. So it's not so much how we feel it's more of how you feel about yourself. I can't speak for every guy but I think stretch marks are like a beauty spot. |
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I've had more kids than most people, so obviously have a few,, although I hate them I can hide them,, but at the end of the day they are just life lines,, And no one is perfect,, it is really just a confidence issue more than a body one xxx |
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"Hello all from Scotland
I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx"
They are your battle scars. Be happy with your body and if someone has a problem, too damn bad. Wear them proudly sweetheart. |
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"Men can have them.
Anyone can.
It's not a badge for mothers.
It's a minor blemish, so what?
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Yeah i have a few from when i was much bigger than i was dont bother me a bit if im attracted to a woman its because i like all of her inc any blemishes we are not all perfect but to other peoples eyes we are xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine start on my chest and finish at my knees. Two babies in 14 months, and an eight stone weight gain means my mixed race skin will never be the same.
They never disappear. But with time and care they DO get less noticeable. Obviously I don't use photos where they're very visible!
Derma rolling is helpful, if done properly. And you can't beat oil for ALL skin.
It's been ten years, now, and I've never had anyone be horrible about them, despite them being a big part of me. I worried for so long but am now resigned it, and more than a little fond of them, in the 'body as a life-map', kind of way! |
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed.
But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out.
Love yourself and so will the men. "
Took a long while for me to accept this myself, and still have times when i feel bad about some of the scars and marks I have from motherhood and an abusive ex husband.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have loads. No kids as a reason just weight loss, weight gain and growing in all sorts of new directions really fast during puberty. I am pale skinned and they are noticeable but they have never really bothered me since I have far more body issues than worrying about something most people have. |
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It's swings and roundabouts I suppose. You could be like me and not have stretchmarks,I don't have my own biological children though and the heartache of that was devastating for me. So what would you rather have no stretchmarks and the absolute heartache of not giving birth to your own children or stretchmarks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The Rock - Dwayne Johnson has stretch marks from bulking up quickly and you know what he wears them with pride and confidence so when someone says anything nasty about mine I tell them to go say the same to him and see how they fare |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Theyve never bothered me one but as i like to call them theyre tiger stripes my fwb is in the same position after having 4 but shes gorgeous and doesnt feel it at times honestly biggest percentage of guys or even girls for that matter dont really care about them as others have said too busy else where lol |
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By *eah OP Woman
over a year ago
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I feel very humbled and grateful for all the positive replies I really do ..... thank you so much I will try to not worry so much about them ... I think it's the whole tv and magazine thing isn't it where we are met with pics of smooth skinned and toned celebrity bodies that we are falsely led to believe that it's that men like ... thanks again xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Truthfully they're not very nice, you'll get a lot of people saying.."ooh they're a part of you and your experiences blah blah" but in truth a lot are lying and wouldn't have them on a wishlist of a 'best features' and people that have them would love to remove them....
Fact is they are part of life, some things in life ain't pretty but you just overlook them.
I'd rather have a woman with stretch marks than horrible teeth but hey ho! |
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