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New relationship with non fab lady but still chatting here - is it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Recently started a relationship with a lady who has no connection to this site, has no fab leanings but with who I am having fun and we are getting closer.

But...

I'm still here, still chatting to men and women and am meeting a guy next week.

Is that wrong (I feel it's wrong but can't stop).

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By *eerobCouple  over a year ago

solihull

Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing? "

If she was incredibly turned on as used to do exactly that with ex wife.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been seeing a non fab guy, for almost a year now, I still chat on here, with friends, and find the forum addictive, but........I've never met anyone, since I met him.

So I think meeting someone, is a bit naughty, even though some woukd I'm been naughty, still having a profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would say* ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You need an honest chat then, if you've no intention of been exclusive.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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why do you feel it's wrong?

i agree with you but my reasons might be different from yours.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax


"Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing?

If she was incredibly turned on as used to do exactly that with ex wife."

I would say don't lead her on if you have no intention of making a go of it or being faithful,if that what shes looking for.

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Does she know you're bisexual? If so does she expect you not to act on that while you're in a relationship with her?

If you haven't had that conversation, you might consider doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it may be time to have a little chat with her,

explain your situation while the time is right while the relationship is new and you are both getting to know eachother, leave it too long and it could be a dealbreaker,

you never know she may like the idea of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Recently started a relationship with a lady who has no connection to this site, has no fab leanings but with who I am having fun and we are getting closer.

But...

I'm still here, still chatting to men and women and am meeting a guy next week.

Is that wrong (I feel it's wrong but can't stop)."

Well yeah, you're cheating on her. Chatting is fine, but you're going to shag a bloke behind her back I'd have a chat with her. You're essentially placing her feelings on the firing line by going behind her back.

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