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over a year ago
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"Im happy in life its just the sex that dosent do it for me an what something that makes me horrny
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What a selfish bloody attitude, let the poor girl find herself a nice boyfriend that wont mess around like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is obviously something that you and your girlfriend aren't compatible in.
You could try talking to her to see if there are ways to make your sex life more exciting.
She may find sex with you incredibly dull and tedious as well.
Maybe tell her about Fab, it might be something the two of you can explore together.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So bored of fucking my girlfreind need something new to excite me "
At least he's being honest... Unlike some!
Instead of "fucking" your gf, have you tried making love to her?
Theres a whole world of difference between the two. You may find it more satisfying?
If you've not tried to spice things up, then give that a go first before looking elsewhere. |
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"So bored of fucking my girlfreind need something new to excite me
It takes two to make boring sex and two to make good sex.
Talk to her."
I don't really agree with this. It seems you are eliminating the possibility that an individual can be terrible at sex? |
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"So bored of fucking my girlfreind need something new to excite me
It takes two to make boring sex and two to make good sex.
Talk to her.
I don't really agree with this. It seems you are eliminating the possibility that an individual can be terrible at sex? "
Not really. If they aren't communicating whoever it is who's terrible won't know, that's what I mean by taking two. |
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"So bored of fucking my girlfreind need something new to excite me
It takes two to make boring sex and two to make good sex.
Talk to her.
I don't really agree with this. It seems you are eliminating the possibility that an individual can be terrible at sex?
Not really. If they aren't communicating whoever it is who's terrible won't know, that's what I mean by taking two."
But part of being terrible is that one would be extremely difficult to communicate with? Haven't you ever seen the types where you explain what you like / dont like and they do the opposite. You remind them, they apologise and 2 minutes later go back to doing exactly the same thing. |
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"So bored of fucking my girlfreind need something new to excite me
It takes two to make boring sex and two to make good sex.
Talk to her.
I don't really agree with this. It seems you are eliminating the possibility that an individual can be terrible at sex?
Not really. If they aren't communicating whoever it is who's terrible won't know, that's what I mean by taking two.
But part of being terrible is that one would be extremely difficult to communicate with? Haven't you ever seen the types where you explain what you like / dont like and they do the opposite. You remind them, they apologise and 2 minutes later go back to doing exactly the same thing. "
Yes. I walk away in that case, there will then no longer be two. If I stayed and allowed terrible sex to continue that's two of us contributing. |
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over a year ago
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Right ok, just to clear up this wasnt a chat up line, an mabey i should have worded it better an not been so blunt, been together 10 years now an i allways had to make the effort etc, an when it happend was good sex, nut it gets a little tiering being the one allways making the effort, so decided to stop it a bit an see if she would make the effort but it hasnt ever happend an has fizzeld out |
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"Right ok, just to clear up this wasnt a chat up line, an mabey i should have worded it better an not been so blunt, been together 10 years now an i allways had to make the effort etc, an when it happend was good sex, nut it gets a little tiering being the one allways making the effort, so decided to stop it a bit an see if she would make the effort but it hasnt ever happend an has fizzeld out "
Then you're doing it wrong!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right ok, just to clear up this wasnt a chat up line, an mabey i should have worded it better an not been so blunt, been together 10 years now an i allways had to make the effort etc, an when it happend was good sex, nut it gets a little tiering being the one allways making the effort, so decided to stop it a bit an see if she would make the effort but it hasnt ever happend an has fizzeld out "
Maybe you are just crap in bed |
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"Right ok, just to clear up this wasnt a chat up line, an mabey i should have worded it better an not been so blunt, been together 10 years now an i allways had to make the effort etc, an when it happend was good sex, nut it gets a little tiering being the one allways making the effort, so decided to stop it a bit an see if she would make the effort but it hasnt ever happend an has fizzeld out "
Would seeing her with another man reignite your desire for her? Have you discussed swinging with her? |
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"Right ok, just to clear up this wasnt a chat up line, an mabey i should have worded it better an not been so blunt, been together 10 years now an i allways had to make the effort etc, an when it happend was good sex, nut it gets a little tiering being the one allways making the effort, so decided to stop it a bit an see if she would make the effort but it hasnt ever happend an has fizzeld out "
The spark once gone needs work to reignite. Maybe a chat about the issue would have been more appropriate. |
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!  "
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response... |
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response... "
Not sure what you mean |
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response...
Not sure what you mean "
Some of your choice of words was poor but a significant part of the negative reaction is due to you being a single guy as opposed to a single girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response...
Not sure what you mean
Some of your choice of words was poor but a significant part of the negative reaction is due to you being a single guy as opposed to a single girl. "
For your information please do not presume to know anything about me, I was purely making an observation. I am not single, and unsophisticated as I am, the guy was obviously reaching out and the best advice he has received so far is to actually talk to his girl, who obviously has her own issues. |
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response...
Not sure what you mean
Some of your choice of words was poor but a significant part of the negative reaction is due to you being a single guy as opposed to a single girl.
For your information please do not presume to know anything about me, I was purely making an observation. I am not single, and unsophisticated as I am, the guy was obviously reaching out and the best advice he has received so far is to actually talk to his girl, who obviously has her own issues."
Sorry, actually got confused between you and the OP! I thought you were the OP confused why you got a negative reaction on the thread. |
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"Wow, not messing with any of you guys, you're fierce! From marital relations to picking up on grammar!
Try posting the same message but from the profile of a single lady. You'll get a better response...
Not sure what you mean
Some of your choice of words was poor but a significant part of the negative reaction is due to you being a single guy as opposed to a single girl.
For your information please do not presume to know anything about me, I was purely making an observation. I am not single, and unsophisticated as I am, the guy was obviously reaching out and the best advice he has received so far is to actually talk to his girl, who obviously has her own issues.
Sorry, actually got confused between you and the OP! I thought you were the OP confused why you got a negative reaction on the thread. "
I did wonder? No apology needed, I should perhaps have kept my nose out anyway! Just hope he can talk it out with his girl so at least she has the opportunity to speak |
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