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Your biggest FAB regret
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Spoke to a couple who wanted voyeurs. Turned up at the location. Saw one guy in a car, and then I checked the woods. I regret not speaking to the guy as his girlfriend was led down in the back. Now they only meet couples and females. |
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Well mine was arranging a scenario meet and we had set rules before meeting that I would tease her and push her limits and she could only touch me if I said so (first time experience for me) I really enjoyed the experience and we had said second meet she could finally feel me inside her but things happened after we met and I didn't get chance to make that happen and I kick myself for sticking to not fucking but we did have a lot of fun and I know I'll be stuck in her head for a long time. Still regret not fucking though but massively enjoyed teasing and pleasing i still can't believe I actually stuck to it  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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going fucking mental when my ex hurt me, i mean really stupid and meeting anyone coz i was cock hungry. had a couple of bad experiences by not thinking straight and they ruined everything.
believing guys bullshit is a close second. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having too much damage from my previous life to allow myself to explore when I first joined
4 years on and waaaay better  "
 hope to be this way very soon... no regrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not trusting my gut instinct on my very first meet. Should've driven straight home, but it was a lesson learned.
Also, letting a so called Dom take advantage of my vulnerabilities, control me and mentally abuse me. Another tough lesson learnt. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I don't regret anything as everything that happens is part of the excitement but I am wiser and more in control of what I want and how I get it these days. I certainly don't seek to recreate some of my early meetings.
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."
 - That must be most people's (including my own) worst nightmare - the things that pass for "news" in the gutter press. |
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."
You are so right about the "if it looks too good to be true". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being able to spot a man pretending to be a woman sooner. I got stood up and wasted an afternoon in the process. "
At least "she" didn't turn up  could of been awkward !! |
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"Not joining sooner! "
This for me too!
And also that 3 years ago when new to fab I allowed a guy on here to completely fuck with my head and heart! 2 years later his psycho girlfriend. (He wasn't with her when I knew him) found a load of messages/pictures of us (until then she'd no idea he was a swinger I assume!) and launched a spite/hate campaign against me - just because she could!
He's the only person from fab I truly regret laying eyes on! On the whole I've had an amazing time on here and hope to continue to do so! Xx |
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."
I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.
Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation. |
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.
I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.
Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation. "
Long story, but in brief a certain person who knows us from both here and real life told someone with an axe to grind about our "hobby". He did this because we wouldn't meet him, he tried wearing fem down, asking her to meet alone etc etc, so we blocked him.
The axe grinders setup a honey Trap profile and made contact, conversation flowed where we both revealed personal preferences and stuff. Then armed with screenshots went to the press and set about discrediting us in our community.
We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though. |
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Had a meet with a gorgeous looking lady last week.
Booked a table for dinner and then fell asleep on the sofa!
Table was booked for 8 but woke up at 9.
Obviously blocked and can't say that I blame her.
Bit gutted though. |
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"Not joining sooner so I could have more fun in my younger years before wanting to settle down  "
Not selling up everything I own and moving us down to Norwich...
Luscious is not even close my dear. Completely stunningly edible would be more appropriate
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.
I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.
Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation.
Long story, but in brief a certain person who knows us from both here and real life told someone with an axe to grind about our "hobby". He did this because we wouldn't meet him, he tried wearing fem down, asking her to meet alone etc etc, so we blocked him.
The axe grinders setup a honey Trap profile and made contact, conversation flowed where we both revealed personal preferences and stuff. Then armed with screenshots went to the press and set about discrediting us in our community.
We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though."
Guessing if the local press took an interest, you're job was a factor. That's seriously fucked up Man, glad to hear you didn't wind up getting sacked for it or anything. |
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"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".
Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.
I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.
Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation.
Long story, but in brief a certain person who knows us from both here and real life told someone with an axe to grind about our "hobby". He did this because we wouldn't meet him, he tried wearing fem down, asking her to meet alone etc etc, so we blocked him.
The axe grinders setup a honey Trap profile and made contact, conversation flowed where we both revealed personal preferences and stuff. Then armed with screenshots went to the press and set about discrediting us in our community.
We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though."
That's horrible, there really are some utterly vile people about. I can hardly believe that individuals would go to those lengths simply to prove you were swingers. It's not a crime for goodness sake!
Speaking personally, I'm pleased that you've come through this horrible situation (all the stronger I bet); I'm sure that the individuals concerned will get what's coming to them, and I'm glad that the pair of you haven't been completely deterred by all this palaver.
Looking at it positively, I suspect that you now know who your true friends are. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meeting a couples or from here on my old profile and as we was playing they started doing a number of Drugs and just the whole experience was uncomfortable, they made me leave the site for about 2 years but now back on and it's better than ever |
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