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are you good at catching out the fake ads on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I have been a swinger for many years both with a female partner and as a single.

A new word springs to mind "FAB WISE".

The incredible way a few so called "couples" profiles on here both read and when they reply just blows me away, i thought i was fab wise on here until a reply came through that almost took me in.

Name with held obviously but " they ?? he" is still on here possibly using the same technique to obtain pics.

Do you consider your self " FAB WISE " and whats the obvious tips for ing out a fake other than ones i probably know ???.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

No obvious tips, like you we ar fairly adept at detecting profiles that aren't what they seem. However sometimes it can take a couple of messages before we realise not everything is as portrayed .

Red flags for us are "sexy" chat straight away usually after 11 pm, asking for more pictures as if we don't have enough already and "women" talking to me (f) on behalf of their husband. I think some people imagine we've just come down the Manchester ship canal on a tea tray.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No obvious tips, like you we ar fairly adept at detecting profiles that aren't what they seem. However sometimes it can take a couple of messages before we realise not everything is as portrayed .

Red flags for us are "sexy" chat straight away usually after 11 pm, asking for more pictures as if we don't have enough already and "women" talking to me (f) on behalf of their husband. I think some people imagine we've just come down the Manchester ship canal on a tea tray."

And some still do think you will fall for it ?????.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Having come from internet dating and being on fab for a few years you tend to learn the familiar trait's and able to spot the fakes over time. Especially "couples" where she's too busy with the kids to talk or she's asleep etc...

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"No obvious tips, like you we ar fairly adept at detecting profiles that aren't what they seem. However sometimes it can take a couple of messages before we realise not everything is as portrayed .

Red flags for us are "sexy" chat straight away usually after 11 pm, asking for more pictures as if we don't have enough already and "women" talking to me (f) on behalf of their husband. I think some people imagine we've just come down the Manchester ship canal on a tea tray.And some still do think you will fall for it ?????. "

I think they do, yes. I think some people actually do fall for it too. There are some very nice people who aren't as cynical as us who believe that everyone is genuine because they themselves are and they tend to get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A of the above....I still get caught out every so often when my guard is dropped...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A of the above....I still get caught out every so often when my guard is dropped... "

same here but not very often now a days.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive noticed a huge amount of profiles supposed to be of domme ladies asking people to email directly.

They ask yoy to go to a website and set up an account....etc etc.

They're easy to spot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a couple have said already, sometimes it can take a few messages before I cotton on. You unfortunately have to treat everyone guilty until proven otherwise .

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

Well Im not Fab wise as you say . I think it's very hard to figure out the good from the bad .

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

Yes exactly those one looking for you to email you . Only bloody messers .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes exactly those one looking for you to email you . Only bloody messers . "

The ones asking for a face pic first and they have none on a profile are usually a dead give away its a single guy pic hunting ??????.

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By *urchoicenowCouple  over a year ago

Ashford

We are rubbish at spotting them, which is why almost all of our meets are at clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We are rubbish at spotting them, which is why almost all of our meets are at clubs"

A very good and valid point......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been a swinger for many years both with a female partner and as a single.

A new word springs to mind "FAB WISE".

The incredible way a few so called "couples" profiles on here both read and when they reply just blows me away, i thought i was fab wise on here until a reply came through that almost took me in.

Name with held obviously but " they ?? he" is still on here possibly using the same technique to obtain pics.

Do you consider your self " FAB WISE " and whats the obvious tips for ing out a fake other than ones i probably know ???.

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I've done as lot of detective work in our time on here, and we only started even using the site properly quite recently.

I tend to fall into the, anyone who oversexualises or degrades the female are usually suspicious. I've yet to meet a couple with a girl who calls herself a "total whore who just wants to be filled" or similar statement, who is genuine.

If a profile sounds like it waas written by a porn star, we just don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having come from internet dating and being on fab for a few years you tend to learn the familiar trait's and able to spot the fakes over time. Especially "couples" where she's too busy with the kids to talk or she's asleep etc...

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Yes, or "she doesn't talk until I've chatted a bit, just to make sure we're a good fit". Does he decide for her? No mate, don't think so. She's imaginary, or worse, you're doing this behind her back. We've bumped into this before now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have been a swinger for many years both with a female partner and as a single.

A new word springs to mind "FAB WISE".

The incredible way a few so called "couples" profiles on here both read and when they reply just blows me away, i thought i was fab wise on here until a reply came through that almost took me in.

Name with held obviously but " they ?? he" is still on here possibly using the same technique to obtain pics.

Do you consider your self " FAB WISE " and whats the obvious tips for ing out a fake other than ones i probably know ???.

I've done as lot of detective work in our time on here, and we only started even using the site properly quite recently.

I tend to fall into the, anyone who oversexualises or degrades the female are usually suspicious. I've yet to meet a couple with a girl who calls herself a "total whore who just wants to be filled" or similar statement, who is genuine.

If a profile sounds like it waas written by a porn star, we just don't bother."

The last line made us burst out laughing thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Having come from internet dating and being on fab for a few years you tend to learn the familiar trait's and able to spot the fakes over time. Especially "couples" where she's too busy with the kids to talk or she's asleep etc...

Yes, or "she doesn't talk until I've chatted a bit, just to make sure we're a good fit". Does he decide for her? No mate, don't think so. She's imaginary, or worse, you're doing this behind her back. We've bumped into this before now. "

One of the best i was told.......ha ha ha ha ......she is on the school run ha ha ha ha........

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