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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting with a member of the new team I'm now working with this morning when he told me he recognised my smile. He's seen me on fab.
Yay. I'm famous  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!"
I guess that remains to be seen. He said it quietly as we were talking about 'sparkle' (the transgender pride event in Manchester).
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In all seriousness the conversation we were having kinda made it ok for him to say.
I'd rather not tell the world. Coming out as trans is enough to deal with as it is.
As for discretion, I certainly respect people's right to privacy. I had a couple message umpteen times recently wanting to contact a rather well hung guy I referred to in a thread. Even via fab I won't do that. |
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!
I guess that remains to be seen. He said it quietly as we were talking about 'sparkle' (the transgender pride event in Manchester).
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Well I'm sure your smile is instantly recognisable  |
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!
I guess that remains to be seen. He said it quietly as we were talking about 'sparkle' (the transgender pride event in Manchester).
Well I'm sure your smile is instantly recognisable "
Meaning it's a nice smile,a smile makes all the diffence to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone recognised me from here, I wouldn't be upset, I'd be impressed, my photos don't show my tattoos or any distinctive features.
I think I'd hire them as a detective  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its an unwritten code to keep fab business to just other members, ive seen 4 peeps i known outside of fab in here, 2 i never let on and the other 2 we all agree to keep it between us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be very happy to be recognised...... Will it happen? I doubt it...!!!"
To be fair all ive found so the 2 girls i told i knew them, all cool though, even pic swapped with one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me "
I guess with face pic, hair and tatts youll stand out, in a good way of course, if i saw id certainly want to let you know  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!"
If they keep their mouth shut and are respectful then it could be a good thing, but saying that all i've ever read are horror stories of those who have been 'outed' for being on here  |
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me
I guess with face pic, hair and tatts youll stand out, in a good way of course, if i saw id certainly want to let you know "
Yes I don't mind at all .. I put my face up there I like to it pics up and host events and am on other social media sites so I know I'm 'out there' ... only prob I have is being spotted at the gym sweaty and without make up is a tad embarrassing lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!
If they keep their mouth shut and are respectful then it could be a good thing, but saying that all i've ever read are horror stories of those who have been 'outed' for being on here "
We've been flirting a while. Apparently his partner was a contestant in Mr gay U.K. Or something like that..... this could get fun  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Is that a good thing in work though?!
If they keep their mouth shut and are respectful then it could be a good thing, but saying that all i've ever read are horror stories of those who have been 'outed' for being on here
We've been flirting a while. Apparently his partner was a contestant in Mr gay U.K. Or something like that..... this could get fun "
Sounds like yours is heading to be a positive story of being recognised |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I feel another potential spitroasting
Sounds like yours is heading to be a VERY positive story 
Driving that point home good and hard I see "
Well you'll have to judge if the point is driven good and hard  |
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
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Surely you cannot be disciplined in your place of work for what you do in your own personal time outside of work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs
Surely you cannot be disciplined in your place of work for what you do in your own personal time outside of work?"
I agree. I find it bizarre people make these statements. As a retired lawyer who specialised in HR employment tribunal claims - I cannot see how being on a legitimate 18+ heavily monitored site would lead to legal employment disciplinary action tbh. Unfair - yes but not legal x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs
Surely you cannot be disciplined in your place of work for what you do in your own personal time outside of work?
I agree. I find it bizarre people make these statements. As a retired lawyer who specialised in HR employment tribunal claims - I cannot see how being on a legitimate 18+ heavily monitored site would lead to legal employment disciplinary action tbh. Unfair - yes but not legal x "
And yet still these cases have gone to court in the last few years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me
I guess with face pic, hair and tatts youll stand out, in a good way of course, if i saw id certainly want to let you know
Yes I don't mind at all .. I put my face up there I like to it pics up and host events and am on other social media sites so I know I'm 'out there' ... only prob I have is being spotted at the gym sweaty and without make up is a tad embarrassing lol "
You know, I think I'd be ok meeting you without makeup and sweaty.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've seen people out about of fab and I'm sure with some of the looks and smiles we get we've have been seen lol. But never have we approached or said anything to the people we've seen and never have we been approached. We the only time we worry is if we're out with family or the children and if anyone was disrespectful enough to approach us they would soon get there answer lol it's a unwritten rule that you don't approach someone you recognise from here or a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs
Surely you cannot be disciplined in your place of work for what you do in your own personal time outside of work?
I agree. I find it bizarre people make these statements. As a retired lawyer who specialised in HR employment tribunal claims - I cannot see how being on a legitimate 18+ heavily monitored site would lead to legal employment disciplinary action tbh. Unfair - yes but not legal x
And yet still these cases have gone to court in the last few years."
Anyone can complete an ET1 tribunal application and take it to court. Still doesnt mean the employer has followed the correct procedure etc in discliplinary proceedings and shouldnt be challenged - but sadly many dont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
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If your workplace has such an influence on your private life, I would consider leaving anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was chatting with a member of the new team I'm now working with this morning when he told me he recognised my smile. He's seen me on fab.
Yay. I'm famous "
Customers recognise me in my shop, from when my were pics were public. My boss knows and doesn't care as long as it brings custom in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs
If your workplace has such an influence on your private life, I would consider leaving anyway."
Fyi: Disciplinary action and Discrimination on basis of sexual orientation (in your case "swinger" shall we say) is actually illegal.
I wouldn't recommend posing in work uniform tho... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display ."
I would love to know you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol"
lol come to the pub then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been recognised a couple times whilst working at events....buts as function was very high profile it was only a very casual "its Fab to see you" comment made followed by a message here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol lol come to the pub then "
Well let me know which pub ;-p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol lol come to the pub then
Well let me know which pub ;-p"
come find me around monton I'm not easy to miss lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol lol come to the pub then
Well let me know which pub ;-p come find me around monton I'm not easy to miss lol."
Ha yeah ill go around monton pubs asking for wine queen with great breasts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol lol come to the pub then
Well let me know which pub ;-p come find me around monton I'm not easy to miss lol.
Ha yeah ill go around monton pubs asking for wine queen with great breasts "
pmsl you have no idea how many people will say she's in there. Lol. Quite well known but not for the reason you may be thinking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive been recognised by people in the pub. Must admit they are very discreet about it though. That's why I no longer have my face on public display .
I would love to know you lol lol come to the pub then
Well let me know which pub ;-p come find me around monton I'm not easy to miss lol.
Ha yeah ill go around monton pubs asking for wine queen with great breasts pmsl you have no idea how many people will say she's in there. Lol. Quite well known but not for the reason you may be thinking x"
Interesting, well if youd like me to find you drop me a mail lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me "
The pink hair does it.
Btw, did you give a 2nd chance to the ones who stood you up?
I wouldn't have stood you up but alas you never responded to my message... |
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs
If your workplace has such an influence on your private life, I would consider leaving anyway.
Fyi: Disciplinary action and Discrimination on basis of sexual orientation (in your case "swinger" shall we say) is actually illegal.
I wouldn't recommend posing in work uniform tho..."
Unfortunately some jobs would class being open as swingers as bringing the profession into disrespute.can mean struck off, certainly from nursing etching.Not fair but it would also hit the newspapers . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever seen one person off fab and just said hi but would love to call into a customers office or reception and recognise someone when I'm working lol |
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me
The pink hair does it.
Btw, did you give a 2nd chance to the ones who stood you up?
I wouldn't have stood you up but alas you never responded to my message..."
No I didn't give him a second chance and sorry I never replied x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yay. I'm famous
I hope you'll still speak to us mere mortals
Of course. Now you can be staff 
I have my own 
Yay. I really do have a gardener
Ooo errrr "
Worse; I got him for my wife |
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"Yay. I'm famous
I hope you'll still speak to us mere mortals
Of course. Now you can be staff
I have my own
Yay. I really do have a gardener
Ooo errrr
Worse; I got him for my wife "
I need a pool boy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yay. I'm famous
I hope you'll still speak to us mere mortals
Of course. Now you can be staff
I have my own
Yay. I really do have a gardener
Ooo errrr
Worse; I got him for my wife
I need a pool boy "
I'm in the mood for a big muscular man and his wife to go down on as he enjoys me but I guess I'll just go to bed alone. Wife's at work btw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been recognised and seen others from fab including a ex work associate not really a big but if you look localish it will happen .Ex work associate and her chap we cammed with etc on numerous occasions but they would not meet , bit of fantasy fun etc and harmless. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me "
Yup this - me thinks it maybe hair related with us both!? |
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"I would be absolutely mortified I must say and would consider leaving my current workplace as I would be disciplined if it came out
Mrs "
Really, that's fucked up. Why can't the world grow up and accept that people are adults and entitled to express their sexuality in their own space. Why is this seen a wrong? Unless maybe your a nun? Despite many movies I have seen to the contrary I believe it's frowned upon for nuns to widely fornicate all over the place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm recognised on a weekly basis ... the gym , Tesco , driving , shopping centres
Only once has someone come up to me and said the rest I get a fab message to say they have seen me
The pink hair does it.
Btw, did you give a 2nd chance to the ones who stood you up?
I wouldn't have stood you up but alas you never responded to my message...
No I didn't give him a second chance and sorry I never replied x "
His loss!
You can PM me anytime... |
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