Basically there is high demand for this and a low supply of women. Don't see the appeal personally but obviously we are in the minority in that respect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're probably better off going to a club, chances of finding what you are looking for on here, are very slim.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not many women want to be involved in putting on a show for someone's husband. "

Couldn't of put it better

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Not many women want to be involved in putting on a show for someone's husband.

Its more for my wife to discover the bi experence but doesn't feel comfortable doing it alone. But thank you for advice"

Put yourself in a single woman's place going to meet a couple alone, the safety aspect alone must be daunting.

Clubs might be the way forward or couples where the guy just wants to watch.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"Not many women want to be involved in putting on a show for someone's husband.

Its more for my wife to discover the bi experence but doesn't feel comfortable doing it alone. But thank you for advice"

The chances of finding a female that will meet a couple, for only the females to play, will be almost impossible

Finding another couple, where just the female half is happy to play is more likely

I never understand why couples search endlessly for a single fem when there's plenty of couples where the female will be happy to play with other females while the guys don't get involved, unless with their own partner?

If a single fem meets a couple, chances are it's because she ways play with a couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for advice looks like club maybe the way forward

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Not many women want to be involved in putting on a show for someone's husband.

Its more for my wife to discover the bi experence but doesn't feel comfortable doing it alone. But thank you for advice

The chances of finding a female that will meet a couple, for only the females to play, will be almost impossible

Finding another couple, where just the female half is happy to play is more likely

If a single fem meets a couple, chances are it's because she ways play with a couple? "

This

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

It's easy to forget that the second woman is a person too,with her own expectations,feelings and boundaries. FFMs shouldn't be considered as 2+1 but 3 people playing together. In this respect the other woman is not an experiment or toy.

The best way round this is to go to a club where you might find a single woman, or the female half of a couple, willing to play. I love girl on girl and this sometimes works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's easy to forget that the second woman is a person too,with her own expectations,feelings and boundaries. FFMs shouldn't be considered as 2+1 but 3 people playing together. In this respect the other woman is not an experiment or toy.

The best way round this is to go to a club where you might find a single woman, or the female half of a couple, willing to play. I love girl on girl and this sometimes works for me."

Great advice thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

We have done ffm couple of times an yes very enjoyable for me but she felt a little awkward so would like to try without me directly involved.that said I may join in if she feels it would add to the experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Basically there is high demand for this and a low supply of women. Don't see the appeal personally but obviously we are in the minority in that respect. "

Same here, tried it once, we're not fans. We much prefer the experience of a couple who both play.

I don't enjoy being a show piece and he does not get off on being a voyeur.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Basically there is high demand for this and a low supply of women. Don't see the appeal personally but obviously we are in the minority in that respect.

Same here, tried it once, we're not fans. We much prefer the experience of a couple who both play.

I don't enjoy being a show piece and he does not get off on being a voyeur. "

Thanks for replying but surely that's just personal preference, we obviously spoke about our boundaries an her first rule was no other men, couple or not it's just not what she's looking for.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

I think you're missing what a couple of people have alluded to. You're talking as if the woman who joined you would just fall in with what you or your partner wanted to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

I think you're missing what a couple of people have alluded to. You're talking as if the woman who joined you would just fall in with what you or your partner wanted to do. "

Well yes and no we would obviously want the other person to be happy, comfortable and get what they are looking for out of the experience too we just have 1 or 2 boundries as im sure most people on here do.

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By *urchoicenowCouple over a year ago

Ashford

Look at it the other way round. Would you both be happy for the female of your couple to meet another couple?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

I think you're missing what a couple of people have alluded to. You're talking as if the woman who joined you would just fall in with what you or your partner wanted to do.

Yes, everyone has boundaries and everyone should state what they want clearly and plainly. However in the context of your original post in which you asked for advice because you weren't getting anywhere I think it might help if you showed that the person joining you would have an equal say in what happened.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely she would gain experience if it was just a 3 way ffm instead of a ff with a bloke jacking off in the corner

I'd hazard a guess at a FFM being more enjoyable for all parties

I think you're missing what a couple of people have alluded to. You're talking as if the woman who joined you would just fall in with what you or your partner wanted to do.

Oh ok thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Look at it the other way round. Would you both be happy for the female of your couple to meet another couple?"

No but we never said we want a woman from a couple that's down to them if they have a partner an still play alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Look at it the other way round. Would you both be happy for the female of your couple to meet another couple?

No but we never said we want a woman from a couple that's down to them if they have a partner an still play alone."

That said greatfull for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Basically there is high demand for this and a low supply of women. Don't see the appeal personally but obviously we are in the minority in that respect.

Same here, tried it once, we're not fans. We much prefer the experience of a couple who both play.

I don't enjoy being a show piece and he does not get off on being a voyeur.

Thanks for replying but surely that's just personal preference, we obviously spoke about our boundaries an her first rule was no other men, couple or not it's just not what she's looking for."

As long as that is your agreed boundary and fully understood and respected by all you play partners then I see no problem with it.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Not many women want to be involved in putting on a show for someone's husband. "

I am , it's the only reason we swing