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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who said that?  only messing !
I always respond to messages as I'm a single guy, so could be in a relationship or just busy working there could be a whole host of reasons
Does he have a face pic or any? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
He didn't like your response back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
I'd say stupidity. If I'd messaged you and got a reply no way would I ignore it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online. "
They may have opened the message and then press "mark as unread".
I sometimes am online but don't want to talk to people, doesn't mean I'm ignoring them though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online. "
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god."
I'm sorry if my question came across as arrogant, I can assure you that was not my intention, and of course it's everyone's choice whether they respond or not. I'm just genuinely curious about the psychology of this. |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god."
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Dunno, I find the whole situation with winks and messages weird on here.
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online. "
Checking my inbox now...... |
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Am kind of guessing that they are horny when they message and hoping that the woman is online at the time and may want to engage in chat to help with said horniess.
Then by the time they get the message back they have sorted themselves out.
I found that my erection sometimes makes me do things I wouldnt normally do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Don't know. I'm still trying to get past sending a woman a message and getting a reply. However, if I got a reply or was actually first messaged by a woman I wouldn't ignore it . |
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
There could be quite a lot of reasons: some good, some not so much.
I'm sure all of the negative reasons are trying to come to the fore (they have a habit of doing that) so I'll skip those and outline one or two more charitable interpretations:
He might be in company or at work or something and able to occasionally (and perhaps excitedly) check fab, but with never enough time to compose a message.
He might want to spend some time composing exactly the *right* reply so he doesn't mess up this contact. He'll be aware that you can see if the message is marked as read or not and won't want to click it until he has time to reply.
Of course it could just as easily be something else entirely, positive or negative. |
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
A woman, sorry I mean a hot woman, responding to a guys message is as rare as hens teeth. Reckon the shock killed him. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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You'll never know the reason why unless you ask him (and if he responds) so I'll say to you what I say to guys who ask this question: delete your sent box. You'll be much happier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
They came |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side.
A woman, sorry I mean a hot woman, responding to a guys message is as rare as hens teeth. Reckon the shock killed him."
Or as he actually got a response he's assuming OP must be fake & another guy 
He might have pebbledashed the site and your response was a little slow and someone else beat you to it?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll never know the reason why unless you ask him (and if he responds) so I'll say to you what I say to guys who ask this question: delete your sent box. You'll be much happier."
Indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Either busy or lost interest, it happens. |
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side.
He didn't like your response back."
yes it could actually be that simple |
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"Thanks for all the responses, I guess it pays not to over-analyse, and yes, deleting sent messages is a jolly good idea! "
Roughly how long are we talking between your messages and the non response? |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god."
what are you on about? The guy msged the op first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are either not very serious in meeting or just like the idea of getting a response but not going any further.
Just think what a lucky escape you have had. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the responses, I guess it pays not to over-analyse, and yes, deleting sent messages is a jolly good idea!
Roughly how long are we talking between your messages and the non response?"
A day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Certainly sounds like playing hard to get lol and it's clearly bugged you and worked, play him at he's own game next time   "
That's just it, I'm not a game-player and am rather disappointed and baffled when others are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Because he's stupid, or busy.  |
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Because the response was not what he wanted and most men can't take rejection
They are insecure and don't no how to deal with it
If you detailed both messages it may possible to give a more definitive answer |
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"Thanks for all the responses, I guess it pays not to over-analyse, and yes, deleting sent messages is a jolly good idea!
Roughly how long are we talking between your messages and the non response?
A day"
And has he been posting and messaging other people do you know? Might just be showing him on line but not actually here?
Welcome to my world though, regularly get messages ignored, must admit not normally when they have messaged me though, does seem a little odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Too busy to reply in the way they'd like, or just not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely reply to messages straight away even though I may appear online. I would expect that some men behave in exactly the same way. Why wouldn't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online. "
Could be so many reasons, and without knowing his personal circumstances there is no one stock answer applicable to all men... even though he sent the initial message he does have a right to change his mind depending on your reply or indeed any number of other reasons totally unrelated to you. Despite him being a single male that has received a response - I don't think after one message he is obligated to give you a reason/response if he is now no longer interested. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was it a first message, or was it mid-conversation? It's odd that he wouldn't open it at all, as I'm fairly sure most men aren't massively swamped in messages (apart from myself of course!!)
I have ignored poorly written messages in the past, but I know this doesn't apply to your writing, so I don't know what this fool is playing at! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
Do your suspicions involve a ring on the third finger of the left hand.....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably too inundated with female responses he can't answer them all. Offers of 'meet me now' and pics of boobs
Surprised no one found this as funny as I did. Giggled for quite some time.
Imagine the role reversal. Us girls would really have to get our s**t together "
I giggled at this  |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"What would you say is the reason for a man sending a woman a message, then completely ignoring her response? I have my suspicions, but interested to hear the male side."
For exactly the same reasons single females & couples dont reply to single males |
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If he logged In on his phone then come off Web without logging out it will look like he is online when he isn't,
I leave mine on most of the time but not actually looking at it, give him benefit of the doubt see if he opens your message |
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By *idan31Man
over a year ago
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Guessing he's read the message?
Then he's got cold feet, or married and bottled it... or he's just perving and didn't expect you to reply ...
I think most men on here would relish a positive reply back on here !! Xx |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! ! "
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol "
Nothing like a bit of pre-emptive blocking for those with a crippling fear of rejection! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Certainly sounds like playing hard to get lol and it's clearly bugged you and worked, play him at he's own game next time
That's just it, I'm not a game-player and am rather disappointed and baffled when others are"
There's your answer Hun, clearly he thinks it's some sort of game, move on plenty of others will be interested you look lovely   |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
Nothing like a bit of pre-emptive blocking for those with a crippling fear of rejection! "
Haha that actually made me laugh out loud !!
Maybe after sending the message they got scared that I might eat them up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
Nothing like a bit of pre-emptive blocking for those with a crippling fear of rejection!
Haha that actually made me laugh out loud !!
Maybe after sending the message they got scared that I might eat them up "
Now that you mention it, the thought has crossed my mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol "
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete  |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete "
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x "
She says that to all the guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x "
2364 ?
I takes me a month to get that many! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x "
2364 fuck me gently lol must be such a pain in the ass, I hardly ever Pm anymore just don't see the point  |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x
2364 fuck me gently lol must be such a pain in the ass, I hardly ever Pm anymore just don't see the point "
It actually is because it's unachievable to be able to reply ... i always try to respond as I think it's rude not to but it's much the same for most females on here too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x
2364 fuck me gently lol must be such a pain in the ass, I hardly ever Pm anymore just don't see the point
It actually is because it's unachievable to be able to reply ... i always try to respond as I think it's rude not to but it's much the same for most females on here too "
It's just pure laziness of you not to take a week out and sit responding to messages 24/7. Timewaster! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x
2364 fuck me gently lol must be such a pain in the ass, I hardly ever Pm anymore just don't see the point
It actually is because it's unachievable to be able to reply ... i always try to respond as I think it's rude not to but it's much the same for most females on here too
It's just pure laziness of you not to take a week out and sit responding to messages 24/7. Timewaster!"
Atleast you actually are polite and try reply others just ignore and that's fine but I'm not one to be a pest just say not interested and move on simple |
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"It's just that men so frequently say that they never get responses on here, I'm surprised it would be ignored when they did get one. I mean, completely ignored, as in, not even opened whilst clearly online.
I'm more surprised that men are expected to take what's given to them. My god.
He did message her!! I had one of those on a dating site the other day - I think maybe I took too long to reply for his taste! !
I have found that when I have loads of messages some guys have blocked me if I haven't replied to them straight away ... and a couple of them I was interested in lol
It's been a week, still waiting for a reply or at least a delete
Oops !! Apologies but that message is buried in the 2364 unreads this week
Please send again x
2364 fuck me gently lol must be such a pain in the ass, I hardly ever Pm anymore just don't see the point
It actually is because it's unachievable to be able to reply ... i always try to respond as I think it's rude not to but it's much the same for most females on here too
It's just pure laziness of you not to take a week out and sit responding to messages 24/7. Timewaster!"
Hahahahaha |
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