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Breeding - Does this actually happen
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every so often a load of noise is raised about this. Messages and so on. It makes me go a bit  So I was wondering if this was nothing but a vapour dream guys say or do women and couples have some kind of experience with this. |
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Some cases its the only option they think they have if they are refused ivf or wont go to a sperm bank but for some its a fetish and love the idea of falling pregnant with a stranger's child or even just love being pregnant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you."
no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish.... |
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish...."
Why would you tell the kid that?
If they found out that dad wasn't bio dad you just tell the kid about donor artificial insemination |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish....
Why would you tell the kid that?
If they found out that dad wasn't bio dad you just tell the kid about donor artificial insemination "
truth nearly always comes out surely? I just think creating a life for that reason is a bit wrong... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more a role play/fantasy. They're on contraception but like to pretend they're going to possibly get pregnant. It's mind stuff."
so basically creampie fantasy??
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
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Yes it does happen,failed ivf,high cost of going private ,to some adoption is not ideal and some will say about it some will keep quiet about it apart from that how many man out there are supporting kids they think they are theres?the only way of understanding it is if you get close to a couple who are going through this and you can understand y some will go to this length. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more a role play/fantasy. They're on contraception but like to pretend they're going to possibly get pregnant. It's mind stuff."
lol I was actually wondering how the fantasy bit worked lol
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
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It's not going to be used as an alternative to IVF, it's only going to work if it's the woman's regular partner that is infertile.
I think it's more a head fantasy than anything.
Men needing their big fertile egos stroked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought the op was talking about breeding from the males perspective rather than being a sperm donor for a couple trying to have a baby.... that's a bit different... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not going to be used as an alternative to IVF, it's only going to work if it's the woman's regular partner that is infertile.
I think it's more a head fantasy than anything.
Men needing their big fertile egos stroked!"
Well idk that is what I am saying. I have heard of it as a myth, or "totally did that, mate" but I don't think I have spotted it in real life. After being on here for quite a few years now. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Every so often a load of noise is raised about this. Messages and so on. It makes me go a bit So I was wondering if this was nothing but a vapour dream guys say or do women and couples have some kind of experience with this. "
I'm currently in talks with someone who wants to "breed his wife". As fetishes go, it's ok, nothing special.
I mean, what's the big deal about having bareback sex and producing child. I mean, that's what adults do. Right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say so. IMO it's just another way of saying gangbang cream pie "
It isn't.
There are fetishists who are particularly turned on by the idea of getting women pregnant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you.
True. It's the mother who messes you up."
That really is quite offensive. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you.
True. It's the mother who messes you up.
That really is quite offensive."
He could be talking from experience. Maybe we should ask him? |
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you.
True. It's the mother who messes you up."
Easter eggs aplenty?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've certainly heard of ordinarily lesbian women who wish to become mothers go out on the town and engage in unprotected one night stands to achieve this but a heterosexual woman who has access to a heterosexual man on a recurring basis and conversely unlimited quantities of his sperm.. what's the incentive?
Strange one . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone asked me to be a surrogate on here but he didnt have a partner just wanted a kid.. freaked me out and also had a go at him as you dont know what women have been through in their lives previously it can bring up horrible feelings.. happy to say its only happened once and hope i never get asked again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a chat with a "breeder" once.
He was quite deluded bless him.
Was even prepared to go through IQ testing for me to prove his progeny wouldn't be stupid.
He didn't see the irony at all. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I've certainly heard of ordinarily lesbian women who wish to become mothers go out on the town and engage in unprotected one night stands to achieve this but a heterosexual woman who has access to a heterosexual man on a recurring basis and conversely unlimited quantities of his sperm.. what's the incentive?
Strange one ."
Please, Interrupted85, don't hurt him. He's just the new guy!  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I had a chat with a "breeder" once.
He was quite deluded bless him.
Was even prepared to go through IQ testing for me to prove his progeny wouldn't be stupid.
He didn't see the irony at all."
I LOVE this post. |
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you.
True. It's the mother who messes you up.
That really is quite offensive."
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on another site a few years ago and once had a lengthy conversation with a guy who'd bred around 15 women. They all gave birth without even knowing his name or any details about him. They'd get hotels for a week and he'd fill them daily with his cum multiple times in the fertile week. His wife had no idea and he smugly recounted occasionally going back home to her, dirty with other women's pussy all over him. and his wife would suck him, totally unbeknownst to her. Imagine that? Finding out your hubby had fathered 15 kids to 15 women while you were married to him! Shocking |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I was on another site a few years ago and once had a lengthy conversation with a guy who'd bred around 15 women. They all gave birth without even knowing his name or any details about him. They'd get hotels for a week and he'd fill them daily with his cum multiple times in the fertile week. His wife had no idea and he smugly recounted occasionally going back home to her, dirty with other women's pussy all over him. and his wife would suck him, totally unbeknownst to her. Imagine that? Finding out your hubby had fathered 15 kids to 15 women while you were married to him! Shocking "
What a stud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you.
True. It's the mother who messes you up.
That really is quite offensive."
Why? |
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"Had someone message me.out of the blue the other day asking me to "pump a baby" into her. Strangely the profile has gone UNLOS now..."
I had about 3 do same left site before i could reply funny that lol |
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"I love the thought of massive creampies. Not sure on breeding"
Same here and i like seeing pregnant ladies but dont like the idea of making a child i will never raise or see again. Id only do it with a partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was on another site a few years ago and once had a lengthy conversation with a guy who'd bred around 15 women. They all gave birth without even knowing his name or any details about him. They'd get hotels for a week and he'd fill them daily with his cum multiple times in the fertile week. His wife had no idea and he smugly recounted occasionally going back home to her, dirty with other women's pussy all over him. and his wife would suck him, totally unbeknownst to her. Imagine that? Finding out your hubby had fathered 15 kids to 15 women while you were married to him! Shocking "
You're sure he wasn't just using that particular site as a way to air unfulfilled sexual fantasies?
Type is cheap, anyone can say anything online behind the relative anonymity of an online persona and not have to worry too much about proving the veracity of their claims or story's.
15 weeks away spent filling these women, his wife wasn't the least bit curious where he was or what he was getting up to?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Weirdly, i thought the term Breeding was when a guy came inside another guys arse. Obviously they cant get bred (pregnant) but was convinced it was guy/guy |
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"I was on another site a few years ago and once had a lengthy conversation with a guy who'd bred around 15 women. They all gave birth without even knowing his name or any details about him. They'd get hotels for a week and he'd fill them daily with his cum multiple times in the fertile week. His wife had no idea and he smugly recounted occasionally going back home to her, dirty with other women's pussy all over him. and his wife would suck him, totally unbeknownst to her. Imagine that? Finding out your hubby had fathered 15 kids to 15 women while you were married to him! Shocking
You're sure he wasn't just using that particular site as a way to air unfulfilled sexual fantasies?
Type is cheap, anyone can say anything online behind the relative anonymity of an online persona and not have to worry too much about proving the veracity of their claims or story's.
15 weeks away spent filling these women, his wife wasn't the least bit curious where he was or what he was getting up to?
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Good point.
Whenever the word "breeding" crops up in online conversation here I know we've entered the realm of fantasy and time to hit the block button... |
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Read a story in escort mag years ago of a female who was gangbanged by 8 guys a month later found out she was pregnant and had the child with no idea who the farther was. Naughty but strangely horny story |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish...."
Yeah imagine how fucked up you'll be when your realise your parents had sex FOR FUN. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish....
Yeah imagine how fucked up you'll be when your realise your parents had sex FOR FUN. "
yeh i know and that your dad might be some random bob or nick...... furthermore when your ill and the hospital says what's your family's history..... lol errr |
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"Weirdly, i thought the term Breeding was when a guy came inside another guys arse. Obviously they cant get bred (pregnant) but was convinced it was guy/guy"
I think in this context it's used in the porn world |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was on another site a few years ago and once had a lengthy conversation with a guy who'd bred around 15 women. They all gave birth without even knowing his name or any details about him. They'd get hotels for a week and he'd fill them daily with his cum multiple times in the fertile week. His wife had no idea and he smugly recounted occasionally going back home to her, dirty with other women's pussy all over him. and his wife would suck him, totally unbeknownst to her. Imagine that? Finding out your hubby had fathered 15 kids to 15 women while you were married to him! Shocking
You're sure he wasn't just using that particular site as a way to air unfulfilled sexual fantasies?
Type is cheap, anyone can say anything online behind the relative anonymity of an online persona and not have to worry too much about proving the veracity of their claims or story's.
15 weeks away spent filling these women, his wife wasn't the least bit curious where he was or what he was getting up to?
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I don't recall many details except for that we chatted at great length and he did go into intimate details about certain situations in the past. He'd go to work during the day, back to the hotel to fill the woman, then home on a daily basis if he had one on the go. I recall it being very believeable the way it was recounted to me. I guess it could have been a lie, but, why bother with all that detail with a stranger who's already refused a meet? He seemed like an intelligent guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish....
Yeah imagine how fucked up you'll be when your realise your parents had sex FOR FUN.
yeh i know and that your dad might be some random bob or nick...... furthermore when your ill and the hospital says what's your family's history..... lol errr"
What's funny about not knowing the fathers history? I don't know my birth family genetics because I don't know who my genetic parents are.
Breeding is a fetish. Some people are into it. People find different ways to explain it into their life. Some say that the male partner in the relationship was infertile so they use sperm donation. Some people say that the couple had split briefly and dated others. Some women are single and don't need to explain to anyone why they're pregnant when they're not in a relationship.
There are plenty of ways to work this into your life, just like there are plenty of ways to work other fetishes into your life.
I think it would be great if we stopped judging other peoples fetishes and fantasies. And if we stop making comments about how 'messed up' children who don't know their birth parents could be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish....
Yeah imagine how fucked up you'll be when your realise your parents had sex FOR FUN.
yeh i know and that your dad might be some random bob or nick...... furthermore when your ill and the hospital says what's your family's history..... lol errr
What's funny about not knowing the fathers history? I don't know my birth family genetics because I don't know who my genetic parents are.
Breeding is a fetish. Some people are into it. People find different ways to explain it into their life. Some say that the male partner in the relationship was infertile so they use sperm donation. Some people say that the couple had split briefly and dated others. Some women are single and don't need to explain to anyone why they're pregnant when they're not in a relationship.
There are plenty of ways to work this into your life, just like there are plenty of ways to work other fetishes into your life.
I think it would be great if we stopped judging other peoples fetishes and fantasies. And if we stop making comments about how 'messed up' children who don't know their birth parents could be."
i just think its selfish to create a life for a kink. Course people don't know their parents things happen but i just have a problem when its done on purpose without no thought for the child being created.... sperm donor or surrogates is different..... in my line of work it creates problems... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People have one night stands all the time. How many men stop to think "i wonder if she got pregnant"? Just because a condom is used is not a 100% safe method against pregnancy. Condoms can break.
If the woman has the baby (because not every woman would opt for a termination), that baby is going to know sod all about it's biological father. But a big deal isn't made about that scenario?
So why if someone breeds is everyone going on about not knowing who the father would be and the implications of that, when getting pregnant by a one night stand is really not that much different as to the outcome?
So long as a child is loved and brought up by at least one caring parent, then the odds are that the child will be ok.
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You also might want to consider that breeding, or barebacking as it's also known in the gay world, requires no condoms. You are exposing yourself to the whole range of diseases out there. I don't want to end up in a hospice because I couldn't be bothered to practice safe sex with someone who's sexual history was a mystery to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Messed up and probably a very confused child....
Doubt it. You don't get "messed up" just because your birth father didn't raise you. no but it must have a damaging effect if you when you realise you were created because of someone elses fantasy/kink/fetish....
Why would you tell the kid that?
If they found out that dad wasn't bio dad you just tell the kid about donor artificial insemination "
Oh right.
Good idea to lie to your child about how and why they exist |
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"You also might want to consider that breeding, or barebacking as it's also known in the gay world, requires no condoms. You are exposing yourself to the whole range of diseases out there. I don't want to end up in a hospice because I couldn't be bothered to practice safe sex with someone who's sexual history was a mystery to me."
Hmmmmm! Well you learn something new every day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People have one night stands all the time. How many men stop to think "i wonder if she got pregnant"? Just because a condom is used is not a 100% safe method against pregnancy. Condoms can break.
If the woman has the baby (because not every woman would opt for a termination), that baby is going to know sod all about it's biological father. But a big deal isn't made about that scenario?
So why if someone breeds is everyone going on about not knowing who the father would be and the implications of that, when getting pregnant by a one night stand is really not that much different as to the outcome?
So long as a child is loved and brought up by at least one caring parent, then the odds are that the child will be ok.
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i only have a problem with it if its done in a ooh this would be fun... fetish way...without consideration or the thinking longterm.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" i just think its selfish to create a life for a kink. "
And yet people create lives in search of pleasure all the time. And nobody thinks that is wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A bit different, but a fem i know who was playing safely on fab, got pregnant and had the baby, now 3 yo but no sign of the dad, she just tells peeps it was a one night stand. |
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I imagine if a child is raised in a loving environment that child will grow up happy regardless if the man raising them is the real dad. We know a couple who have 3 kids, the youngest was conceived on a hen night, hubby forgave his wife's infidelity and treats child as his own |
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By *MaleMan
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I reckon anyone with no real/genuine experience, awareness, involvement in delib breeding on the scene aint got a clue what they're talking about.
Unless it comes into your life full on or at a distance then it's nothing more than last hand experience, hot air opinion  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"You also might want to consider that breeding, or barebacking as it's also known in the gay world, requires no condoms. You are exposing yourself to the whole range of diseases out there. I don't want to end up in a hospice because I couldn't be bothered to practice safe sex with someone who's sexual history was a mystery to me."
Oh...fuck! |
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