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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Off the back of a previous thread....
Mainly to the men by women feel free to post too.
If you find your wife/female partner in bed with another woman (without knowing beforehand) how would you react?
If you felt cheated, would you feel as strongly cheated on as if she had been in bed with another man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the back of a previous thread....
Mainly to the men by women feel free to post too.
If you find your wife/female partner in bed with another woman (without knowing beforehand) how would you react?
If you felt cheated, would you feel as strongly cheated on as if she had been in bed with another man?"
I'd be sickened.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I'm single but if I was with somebody cheating is cheating !!! So would be game over for me !!
No trust No point "
You like your exclamation marks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the back of a previous thread....
Mainly to the men by women feel free to post too.
If you find your wife/female partner in bed with another woman (without knowing beforehand) how would you react?
If you felt cheated, would you feel as strongly cheated on as if she had been in bed with another man?"
In reality (all fab is a form of fantasy ) Id feel sad, and cheated. I'd force myself to walk away and never see her ever again. Best all round for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On a forum like this, a swinging site, to talk about being shocked... hm.. a bit too strong words IMO.
Female and female is different to female and male and male and male. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I'm single but if I was with somebody cheating is cheating !!! So would be game over for me !!
No trust No point
You like your exclamation marks "
You sure you are not my ex husband? He will put loads in. He would use 6 in one go where 1 was needed. Once counted about 30 in 1 paragraph.
I responded in a similar way with a similar amount. He didnt find it funny though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me cheating is cheating it would make no diffence if it was a guy or a girl.
I'm sure it's loads of guys fantasies to walk in on something like that.... But for me it would be over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the back of a previous thread....
Mainly to the men by women feel free to post too.
If you find your wife/female partner in bed with another woman (without knowing beforehand) how would you react?
If you felt cheated, would you feel as strongly cheated on as if she had been in bed with another man?"
Means the dishes would het done in double time
But in all seriousness cheating is cheating I'd feel the same no matter who I found her in bed with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've taken a mo to think about this and I can't make it abstract. I love Mrs Freespirit and I trust her so if I found her in bed with another woman I'm pretty sure I'd just sit down on the bed and say a big "well hello" and give her a you-cheeky-girl kiss. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion she was cheating. For me to feel that I'd need to find out she had a depth of feeling for the woman that she had been hiding from me for months. Without that I'd just assume it was a spur of the moment act of naughtiness and, who knows, maybe she planned for me to discover her as a kinky present to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The whole two woman thing leaves me cold. Just because some people see it as sexier than heterosexual play does not excuse a breach of agreed protocol in a relationship. |
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"On a forum like this, a swinging site, to talk about being shocked... hm.. a bit too strong words IMO.
Female and female is different to female and male and male and male."
Why is it different?
Arranging meets is different to finding your partner in bed with someone unexpectedly. When you arrange meets you do it together, you pick the person/couple together. Doing it behind your partners back, in secret is cheating even if you swing as a couple. |
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I think you need to view it from a swinging point of view. It depends on what limits you have decided on as a couple. If you have agreed that you will never meet without each others knowledge then it's cheating. Also if the intention was that the other half not be a part of it and not find out it is cheating. But if you have the kind of swinging relationship where you know he would be thrilled to come home to that or hear about it afterwards then no, it's not cheating. It's all about communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Female and female is different to female and male and male and male."
It's only different if you consider that lesbian sex is somehow less serious or involved than straight sex. Which it isn't.
Unfortunately an awful lot of people think that lesbian sex is not as serious as straight sex, which is one of the reasons why lesbian relationships aren't taken very seriously by many people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think after the initial shock I would be fine with It, although it is cheating the fact that V is bisexual and no matter how hard I try i will never have a sexy female body i understand her desires! And it's definitely my male ego but cheating with another man would definitely hurt me deeply as it would feel like I was not enough for her but with a female she is getting something that I just can't give which some how makes it more forgivable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Female and female is different to female and male and male and male.
It's only different if you consider that lesbian sex is somehow less serious or involved than straight sex. Which it isn't.
Unfortunately an awful lot of people think that lesbian sex is not as serious as straight sex, which is one of the reasons why lesbian relationships aren't taken very seriously by many people."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Female and female is different to female and male and male and male.
It's only different if you consider that lesbian sex is somehow less serious or involved than straight sex. Which it isn't.
Unfortunately an awful lot of people think that lesbian sex is not as serious as straight sex, which is one of the reasons why lesbian relationships aren't taken very seriously by many people."
"Only" ???
Where you see one reason "only" others may see a million. Life is very motley and varied. Don't try to simplify it too much.
All the best to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Female and female is different to female and male and male and male.
It's only different if you consider that lesbian sex is somehow less serious or involved than straight sex. Which it isn't.
Unfortunately an awful lot of people think that lesbian sex is not as serious as straight sex, which is one of the reasons why lesbian relationships aren't taken very seriously by many people.
"Only" ???
Where you see one reason "only" others may see a million. Life is very motley and varied. Don't try to simplify it too much.
All the best to you. "
Then why is it different? |
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