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Would you be put of going to swing clubs knowing working girls there ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If looking to go to a swingers club for a night off fun. Would it put you off knowing Escorts and prostituts working there in club ? or would it just add to the swing- club more on offer ? I am sure some clubs over seas offer this . After reading other posts about working girls at clubs just be nice to see how people feel ? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
as long as there was a way of telling them apart then it wouldn't bother me....
if there was no way of telling them apart then yes it would make me very very uneasy as you would probably tell from the other thread |
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" If looking to go to a swingers club for a night off fun. Would it put you off knowing Escorts and prostituts working there in club ?"
If I wanted to go to a brothel, I'd go to a brothel. If I wanted to go to a swingers club, it would be to meet other swingers, and see how things go.
Sadly more and more swingers clubs employ hookers, in order to keep their high-paying punters (single guys) coming. Just a casual observation, but from what I've seen at my "regular" club, is that almost any single guy can now get in, and for his first time, he's assured a good night by two or three of the "employees". The deterioration of the standards of the single guys (once there was a dress code, now anyone in a hoodie and trainers can loaf in) and the presence of prostitutes has turned couples off going (my experience of talking to such couples) and so it's a vicious circle, less couples, so less swinging ladies to play, so an ever heavier reliance on the working girls... and so it goes on. |
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" If looking to go to a swingers club for a night off fun. Would it put you off knowing Escorts and prostituts working there in club ?
If I wanted to go to a brothel, I'd go to a brothel. If I wanted to go to a swingers club, it would be to meet other swingers, and see how things go.
Sadly more and more swingers clubs employ hookers, in order to keep their high-paying punters (single guys) coming. Just a casual observation, but from what I've seen at my "regular" club, is that almost any single guy can now get in, and for his first time, he's assured a good night by two or three of the "employees". The deterioration of the standards of the single guys (once there was a dress code, now anyone in a hoodie and trainers can loaf in) and the presence of prostitutes has turned couples off going (my experience of talking to such couples) and so it's a vicious circle, less couples, so less swinging ladies to play, so an ever heavier reliance on the working girls... and so it goes on."
This has also put us off re-visiting certain clubs. You are right, if you are a swinger you want to meet like-minded people who want to share sex, not to sell it. That's it really. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
It would definitely put us off, if i wanted paid sex i would do to a brothel. We go to a swingers club to meet like minded ppl not payed escorts or whatever. Swingers clubs should not go down this route i think it will spoil it and to vanilla ppl give it a seedier image than it already has. Clubs dont do it |
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" If looking to go to a swingers club for a night off fun. Would it put you off knowing Escorts and prostituts working there in club ? or would it just add to the swing- club more on offer ? I am sure some clubs over seas offer this . After reading other posts about working girls at clubs just be nice to see how people feel ?"
wouldn't go...as I've already said..keep separate..the club must say if they promote this style of services |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Yes its deceitful if clubs do not say if they employ working girls. I think if you go down this route it will make swinging have a bad reputation to vanilla ppl looking to start into the swinging lifestyle. We chatted about this topic at our local swingers club only this weekend and was agreed by most payed sex workers have NO place at swingers clubs. If you want payed sex then go to a escort or brothel also it makes the clubs illegal as they are taking part in encouraging ppl to pay for sex. and the police could say the entrance fee is just that, money for sex. Our local club wont be going down that route |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It would certainly put us off. When we go (rarely) to clubs we are seeking mutual adult fun with other swingers.
If I wanted to watch my hubby having sex with somebody being paid to do it then we'll seek a prostitute. This has no appeal to either of us.
I want to see my hubby enjoying a girl who is having sex with him because she is attracted him, not the money the club have handed over to her. Just like he likes to see a guy having sex with me because we are mutually attracted to each other.
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"It would certainly put us off. When we go (rarely) to clubs we are seeking mutual adult fun with other swingers.
If I wanted to watch my hubby having sex with somebody being paid to do it then we'll seek a prostitute. This has no appeal to either of us.
I want to see my hubby enjoying a girl who is having sex with him because she is attracted him, not the money the club have handed over to her. Just like he likes to see a guy having sex with me because we are mutually attracted to each other.
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Well said, want real sex with ppl who want the same, not because they are payed to do so, i would feel degraded, if it happened to us. I would be more than upset and probably, go mental if i wasnt told there was ppl in the club who was being payed to have sex. Also like i say it could be then classed as a brothel and you are going down the road of legalitys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It would certainly put us off. When we go (rarely) to clubs we are seeking mutual adult fun with other swingers.
If I wanted to watch my hubby having sex with somebody being paid to do it then we'll seek a prostitute. This has no appeal to either of us.
I want to see my hubby enjoying a girl who is having sex with him because she is attracted him, not the money the club have handed over to her. Just like he likes to see a guy having sex with me because we are mutually attracted to each other.
Well said, want real sex with ppl who want the same, not because they are payed to do so, i would feel degraded, if it happened to us. I would be more than upset and probably, go mental if i wasnt told there was ppl in the club who was being payed to have sex. Also like i say it could be then classed as a brothel and you are going down the road of legalitys "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would hate it! we do this for fun. sleeping with prositutes to me is not fun. i like to believe the people we play with are enjoying it like we are not there for the money,  |
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It would bother us a great deal!
I know at least three escorts who are swingers, and have played with two, and at no time was there any mention of paying, they played with me because they wanted to.
If we went to a club or party and found out afterwards that someone we played with had done it because they were paid to, it would ruin the experience for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we went to a club or party and found out afterwards that someone we played with had done it because they were paid to, it would ruin the experience for us."
Us too! Desire is the appeal.. Sex for money is materialistic and doesn't interest us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay I am back from one of the clubs that does have paid girls.. and I have to say what a good experience it was..
Although, as I like single men above all else, I guess it is going to more suit me.
The girls it was plain who they were.. ( not hard really as it was only them and me lol) I got a mention at the start of the evening and all the single guys were lovely to me.. I mostly watched and thanks to the lovely staff.. got to have my play kinda at the end.. ( due to a few conditions I wanted in place )
But you know.. it was a really good night.. And I will happily go again.. ( If Master permits it)
Katie.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would certainly put us off. When we go (rarely) to clubs we are seeking mutual adult fun with other swingers.
If I wanted to watch my hubby having sex with somebody being paid to do it then we'll seek a prostitute. This has no appeal to either of us.
I want to see my hubby enjoying a girl who is having sex with him because she is attracted him, not the money the club have handed over to her. Just like he likes to see a guy having sex with me because we are mutually attracted to each other.
Well said, want real sex with ppl who want the same, not because they are payed to do so, i would feel degraded, if it happened to us. I would be more than upset and probably, go mental if i wasnt told there was ppl in the club who was being payed to have sex. Also like i say it could be then classed as a brothel and you are going down the road of legalitys "
Do you think sex is diffrent if you pay or dont ?? is it ????? made me think this post ... would there be more feelings if it was free and a swinger and better ? then if paying a working girl and it was her job ? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Do you think sex is diffrent if you pay or dont ?? is it ????? made me think this post ... would there be more feelings if it was free and a swinger and better ? then if paying a working girl and it was her job ?"
okay... lets play devils advocate... would you pay a man for sex.... and it was there job???
for me there is a difference between someone wanting to be at a swinging club for the pure enjoyment of it all.. and someone who is in effect being paid to be there for the enjoyment of others....
I want people to have sex with me because they like me.. not because they feel they are under any obligation to..... |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"It would certainly put us off. When we go (rarely) to clubs we are seeking mutual adult fun with other swingers.
If I wanted to watch my hubby having sex with somebody being paid to do it then we'll seek a prostitute. This has no appeal to either of us.
I want to see my hubby enjoying a girl who is having sex with him because she is attracted him, not the money the club have handed over to her. Just like he likes to see a guy having sex with me because we are mutually attracted to each other.
Well said, want real sex with ppl who want the same, not because they are payed to do so, i would feel degraded, if it happened to us. I would be more than upset and probably, go mental if i wasnt told there was ppl in the club who was being payed to have sex. Also like i say it could be then classed as a brothel and you are going down the road of legalitys Do you think sex is diffrent if you pay or dont ?? is it ????? made me think this post ... would there be more feelings if it was free and a swinger and better ? then if paying a working girl and it was her job ?"
I know there is a very big difference for a fact as i know two girls who work in the sex trade, and they purly do it not cause they want to its all about the money. Even with the nice looking lads they may get its not the same sex as it would be if they was having sex not being payed.
I want ppl tp play with me like _abio said cause they like me not cause they are payed to entertain me, because the club is quiet. Rather have a quiet club and end up just playing with my partner and having a nice social night, Than have sex with someone who is being payed to entertain me.
We are they type of swingers when we go to clubs its a social thing, meet like minded ppl and make new freinds, if play then happens its a Bonus not a nessesity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The girls it was plain who they were.. ( not hard really as it was only them and me lol)"
Probably because, like me, other female swingers would have been put off from going?
"I got a mention at the start of the evening"
They must have been in shock that a female swinger was attending lol!!! xx |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
exactly this could backfire on the clubs and put off single ladys attending. So infact the clubs will end up effectivly a brothel. Sorry but i wouldnt be wanting to be attending a brothel and risk the chance of getting arrested if word got out and it was raided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it great... loved watching the girls with the guys.. sat chatting to staff and members alike... flirting and teasing etc... if I'd been with master I'd of had no problem joining in with the girls..
I actually can't wait to go back with my master.. but going on a bukkake evening....
And actually on couples nights they get more swinging couples... but I went on a night its nearly always only single guys... which suited me fine... and I got to play too..
I think integrated properly having girls to entertain the single guys works well..
Katie x |
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Katie.x
infact i may even try and make a few quid myself if men are paying lol 
