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over a year ago
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Just wondering if anybody worries about getting pregnant via a swinging meet. Yes of course we hopefully all take precautions, my wife is on the pill and we would always have condoms for meets. But a little niggle in the back of my head wonders about the chances of being F*cking unlucky enough to get caught out. Anybody had or know of people who have been caught out? |
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It's very very unlikely unless the holy ghost pops along. I always say the best way to be sure is to ask the guys to whip it out and let me watch them coming. It's fun, i like it and it's very safe |
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"It's very very unlikely unless the holy ghost pops along. I always say the best way to be sure is to ask the guys to whip it out and let me watch them coming. It's fun, i like it and it's very safe"
Yes very good idea..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The better question is, what would you do if you got pregnant?
abort. and it's something i had to think about recently.
no way would i bring up some randoms baby.
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Also, the thought of being pregnant and not being sure who the father is would terrify me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering if anybody worries about getting pregnant via a swinging meet. Yes of course we hopefully all take precautions, my wife is on the pill and we would always have condoms for meets. But a little niggle in the back of my head wonders about the chances of being F*cking unlucky enough to get caught out. Anybody had or know of people who have been caught out?"
I'm always worried about getting pregnant when having sex with anyone. It's one of the ways that swinging is skewed between the sexes - women take a far larger risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got sterilised last year, problem solved. "
Well, it's not. There is still a chance of getting pregnant after surgical sterilization, and it can be life threatening for the host body if it's ectopic. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"The better question is, what would you do if you got pregnant?
abort. and it's something i had to think about recently.
no way would i bring up some randoms baby.
Also, the thought of being pregnant and not being sure who the father is would terrify me. "
i went through that at 17, isn't as bad as you'd think really. |
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"The better question is, what would you do if you got pregnant?
abort. and it's something i had to think about recently.
no way would i bring up some randoms baby.
Also, the thought of being pregnant and not being sure who the father is would terrify me. "
I wouldnt want to leave any woman it that position its so wrong |
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"Just wondering if anybody worries about getting pregnant via a swinging meet. Yes of course we hopefully all take precautions, my wife is on the pill and we would always have condoms for meets. But a little niggle in the back of my head wonders about the chances of being F*cking unlucky enough to get caught out. Anybody had or know of people who have been caught out?
I'm always worried about getting pregnant when having sex with anyone. It's one of the ways that swinging is skewed between the sexes - women take a far larger risk."
The only reason I take the pill is this hobby and yes we do use condoms with all our meets as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The better question is, what would you do if you got pregnant?
abort. and it's something i had to think about recently.
no way would i bring up some randoms baby.
Also, the thought of being pregnant and not being sure who the father is would terrify me.
i went through that at 17, isn't as bad as you'd think really."
For me as a guy, it's probably the worst thing I could imagine happening. Getting someone pregnant who is a swinging partner. I've met some who have demonstrated that they actually would like me to impregnate them and I would just die if they managed to trap me like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got sterilised last year, problem solved.
Well, it's not. There is still a chance of getting pregnant after surgical sterilization, and it can be life threatening for the host body if it's ectopic."
I use condoms with meets anyway, so I reckon sterilisation + condom makes me pretty safe. The only person I don't use condoms with is my boyfriend, and whilst I don't want any more kids, it wouldn't be the same kind of issue as getting pregnant by a random. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I leak from the mouth of the condom because there's always loads of cum buildup long before I fully orgasm and it scares me to think that that may one day escape and get inside of her
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"The better question is, what would you do if you got pregnant?
abort. and it's something i had to think about recently.
no way would i bring up some randoms baby.
Also, the thought of being pregnant and not being sure who the father is would terrify me.
i went through that at 17, isn't as bad as you'd think really.
For me as a guy, it's probably the worst thing I could imagine happening. Getting someone pregnant who is a swinging partner. I've met some who have demonstrated that they actually would like me to impregnate them and I would just die if they managed to trap me like that.
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it's not really a trap though, my first ex has walked away from his kids and never paid anything towards them until recently -and only paid then coz he wanted to and nobody forced him. |
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"I leak from the mouth of the condom because there's always loads of cum buildup long before I fully orgasm and it scares me to think that that may one day escape and get inside of her
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You ain't cumming near me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I leak from the mouth of the condom because there's always loads of cum buildup long before I fully orgasm and it scares me to think that that may one day escape and get inside of her
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Pinch more of the end of the condom when you put it on, it means there's more space for fluid. |
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"I leak from the mouth of the condom because there's always loads of cum buildup long before I fully orgasm and it scares me to think that that may one day escape and get inside of her
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Since a condom can hold at least 2 litres of fluid, you either cum like a blue whale or i think you might require a smaller condom to cut down on your leakage problem. |
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It's why we stopped swinging.I can't use any hormonal contraception. I didn't like the side effects of the mini pill and didn't want a coil. Hubby has had the snip, so we don't use anything when it's just us. So it was condoms only when swinging and I kept worrying about the risks involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also without changing the subject, how easy would it be to catch a STD using condoms?
Food for thought Fabbers.
The worry is certainly making me think of just saying NO...!! "
It's still quite possible to catch an Sti.
If you don't use them for oral, like most of us, you are taking a risk. It's very unlikely you'll catch anything they can't easily treat though.
I'd say the biggest risk in a group situation is where a guy pulls out of one playmate and enters another without changing condom and without washing his gentleman area.
Again a group situation carries a risk where you go down on more than one person or use your fingers. You move fluids from one partner to another.
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