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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they saw you on the forum and wanted to put a face to the name. Or perhaps they're seeing what men are about as they may be curious about meeting men but haven't decided yet?
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Some couples will meet single men but say other on their profile because it stops their inbox being flooded with cockshots.
We have put the filters up from time to time because after the 10th cock shot it gets rather boring |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some couples will meet single men but say other on their profile because it stops their inbox being flooded with cockshots.
We have put the filters up from time to time because after the 10th cock shot it gets rather boring"
Fair point I can understand that has was part of a couple for a few months and know how many messages couples and females get sorting out the best from the rest just frustrating you can't ask or wink back if interested |
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"Some couples will meet single men but say other on their profile because it stops their inbox being flooded with cockshots.
We have put the filters up from time to time because after the 10th cock shot it gets rather boring
Fair point I can understand that has was part of a couple for a few months and know how many messages couples and females get sorting out the best from the rest just frustrating you can't ask or wink back if interested "
No point in doing anything if their not actually interested though?. If they are they'll wink or message you. I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back "
Unless the "no single guys" is in your profile header it's not seen until someone actually looks at the profile. If the person has just done a search without selecting any preferences then everyone's names appear.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back "
Example your profile just says you are looking for genuine fun ppl, it only says no guys if you click and read your profile. So if you don't want guys looking say so in the header. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back "
Why would you message them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Why would you message them?"
If I like them would message them to find out if they were interested in me some like the males to respond first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Why would you message them?
If I like them would message them to find out if they were interested in me some like the males to respond first "
They won't know if they are interested or not until they look at your profile, but if they were I'm fairly sure they'd either wink or message rather than hope you noticed and messaged them.
The main reason we browse in stealth mode is avoiding the awkwardness of messages from people whose profiles we've looked at and aren't interested in then messaging saying I see you've had a look, what do you think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Why would you message them?
If I like them would message them to find out if they were interested in me some like the males to respond first
They won't know if they are interested or not until they look at your profile, but if they were I'm fairly sure they'd either wink or message rather than hope you noticed and messaged them.
The main reason we browse in stealth mode is avoiding the awkwardness of messages from people whose profiles we've looked at and aren't interested in then messaging saying I see you've had a look, what do you think!"
Sorry OP but this for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Why would you message them?
If I like them would message them to find out if they were interested in me some like the males to respond first
They won't know if they are interested or not until they look at your profile, but if they were I'm fairly sure they'd either wink or message rather than hope you noticed and messaged them.
The main reason we browse in stealth mode is avoiding the awkwardness of messages from people whose profiles we've looked at and aren't interested in then messaging saying I see you've had a look, what do you think!
Sorry OP but this for me too. "
Fair enough will just look and admire  |
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"Some couples will meet single men but say other on their profile because it stops their inbox being flooded with cockshots.
We have put the filters up from time to time because after the 10th cock shot it gets rather boring
Fair point I can understand that has was part of a couple for a few months and know how many messages couples and females get sorting out the best from the rest just frustrating you can't ask or wink back if interested
No point in doing anything if their not actually interested though?. If they are they'll wink or message you. I "
the amount of guys who message saying do you like what you see? Because wev looked at their profile
Obvs not or we would have messaged you lol |
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Example your profile just says you are looking for genuine fun ppl, it only says no guys if you click and read your profile. So if you don't want guys looking say so in the header."
I've got it at the first paragraph in my profile..i didn't want it as a header..i don't mind guys messaging me as some ask for advice etc,so long as they don't ask to meet I'm happy to talk but thanks for the advice |
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"Some couples will meet single men but say other on their profile because it stops their inbox being flooded with cockshots.
We have put the filters up from time to time because after the 10th cock shot it gets rather boring
Fair point I can understand that has was part of a couple for a few months and know how many messages couples and females get sorting out the best from the rest just frustrating you can't ask or wink back if interested
No point in doing anything if their not actually interested though?. If they are they'll wink or message you. I
the amount of guys who message saying do you like what you see? Because wev looked at their profile
Obvs not or we would have messaged you lol "
Exactly lol |
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"Hi just wandering if any of you fabbers have this I get couples and females and males looking but on profile clearly stating no single guys so why look if I can't message you back
Why would you message them?
If I like them would message them to find out if they were interested in me some like the males to respond first
They won't know if they are interested or not until they look at your profile, but if they were I'm fairly sure they'd either wink or message rather than hope you noticed and messaged them.
The main reason we browse in stealth mode is avoiding the awkwardness of messages from people whose profiles we've looked at and aren't interested in then messaging saying I see you've had a look, what do you think!"
Ninja mode..you know it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you considered the possibility that not everybody who looks at your profile is necessarily interested in meeting you?
Something about your profile heading, your status or your profile pic may have caught their eye and so they looked at your profile to find out more, and then decide that maybe you're not for them.
I am of the view that if someone who has looked at me is interested in communicating, then they will message me. The fact that they haven't, suggests that they may not be too keen on me messaging them.
There are some on fab who will have 'not looking for single guys' who may actually be interested in us single chaps, but have found that without this filter they get inundated and therefore may prefer to be the ones doing the looking.
Ultimately, if they are interested in communicating with you, then they would have sent you a message |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm nosey and like to check out people on the forum  "
Same here. I also look at everyone that has fabbed a photo. My hotlist is filling up quite nicely at the moment. I will wink or message at a later date when I am meeting again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm nosey and like to check out people on the forum
Same here. I also look at everyone that has fabbed a photo. My hotlist is filling up quite nicely at the moment. I will wink or message at a later date when I am meeting again. "
as I said it's part of the game and process |
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