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over a year ago
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I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...
Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them  |
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"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...
Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them "
What I do is go into ninja mode  . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them  ..sneaky I know but hey  |
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"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...
Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them
What I do is go into ninja mode . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them ..sneaky I know but hey "
More often than not there are no face pics in their private ones lol.. But good point!  |
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"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...
Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them
What I do is go into ninja mode . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them ..sneaky I know but hey
More often than not there are no face pics in their private ones lol.. But good point! "
And I suspect that..hence why I go into ninja mode!  |
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over a year ago
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"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?"
If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst.  |
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"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...
Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them "
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"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?
If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst. "
My exact attitude...get stroppy in my inbox then you can do one!!! |
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"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?
If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst.
My exact attitude...get stroppy in my inbox then you can do one!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.
If we approached them first, then we would send them first.
We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.
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"We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.
If we approached them first, then we would send them first.
We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.
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I think this is a great rule to go by... Spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion is paramount for some people. If you're a couple, then your discretion isn't at risk as much as someone whose partner doesn't know they are on here for example.
If that can't be understood, or it's such an issue for you, move on to the next person. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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"We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.
If we approached them first, then we would send them first.
We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.
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This is how we approach the site also and it works for us. |
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