Hey all, looking for a bit of advice from you experienced site users, especially the ladies.
I was talking to a lovely woman on here this morning and the conversation flowed well and naturally all day. I wasn't pushy, I wasn't mean or insulting or anything like that. I actually was really enjoying the conversation and the person at the other end of it's banter.
However, I just logged back on and they have blocked me. I know ladies on here have it easy and get inundated with messages, so blocking comes easy. However there was no warning or explanation, and it's actually really got my mind going. I really hope I haven't done something to upset them and warrant getting blocked, but I can't think what I did? Does anyone have a bit of advice/ logical reasons I could have been blocked?
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You will never know the reason and if you can you need to stop over thinking it.
You found the conversation interesting and fun but she might have seen it differently. People don't always find it easy to say they've changed their mind so it's easier to block.
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"You will never know the reason and if you can you need to stop over thinking it.
You found the conversation interesting and fun but she might have seen it differently. People don't always find it easy to say they've changed their mind so it's easier to block.
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Fair enough, I guess manners aren't really that important on this site haha. It still seems a bit harsh, I just don't want to have pissed them off somehow and not known about it. |
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It happens, you just need to stop thinking about it and move on. If you really were polite etc then you shouldn't be worried that it's your fault.
Oh, and saying that women have it easy because they get inundated with messages isn't really accurate. I see it as they have it hard because they get so many messages, as most of them are garbage sent from morons. |
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Oh, and saying that women have it easy because they get inundated with messages isn't really accurate. I see it as they have it hard because they get so many messages, as most of them are garbage sent from morons."
 agreed.
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"Oh, and saying that women have it easy because they get inundated with messages isn't really accurate. I see it as they have it hard because they get so many messages, as most of them are garbage sent from morons."
This is so true!
As others have said, you will probably never know the reason she blocked you, so you need to try and let it go. All you can do on this site, if you're genuinely interested in meeting people, is be yourself and look for people who like that about you. And for future reference, manners really are important to most of the genuine people on here, so if you feel your approach is respectful and polite, then don't change it.
All the best and good luck with your search for the right playmates. It takes a bit of time and patience, but when you find the right people, it pays off in spades!
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"Hey all, looking for a bit of advice from you experienced site users, especially the ladies.
I was talking to a lovely woman on here this morning and the conversation flowed well and naturally all day. I wasn't pushy, I wasn't mean or insulting or anything like that. I actually was really enjoying the conversation and the person at the other end of it's banter.
However, I just logged back on and they have blocked me. I know ladies on here have it easy and get inundated with messages, so blocking comes easy. However there was no warning or explanation, and it's actually really got my mind going. I really hope I haven't done something to upset them and warrant getting blocked, but I can't think what I did? Does anyone have a bit of advice/ logical reasons I could have been blocked?
Cheers in advance,
Mark"
We've had this with a cple of guy's they chat to us. Get on really well with them. They can't get enough of us.
Then we offer them a meet with us and suddenly were blocked
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"Fair enough, I guess manners aren't really that important on this site haha. It still seems a bit harsh, I just don't want to have pissed them off somehow and not known about it. "
I would say that manners are very important on here. If you have good manners, then keep them. They will go a long way and you may naturally attract people with good manners too.
I'll also reinforce that single women do not have it any easier on here. I have to block all single men from messaging me. This is a shame because I would like to exchange some decent conversation with guys too but the ratio of decent to shit messages is extremely low and not worth wading through. |
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"You will never know the reason and if you can you need to stop over thinking it.
You found the conversation interesting and fun but she might have seen it differently. People don't always find it easy to say they've changed their mind so it's easier to block.
Fair enough, I guess manners aren't really that important on this site haha. It still seems a bit harsh, I just don't want to have pissed them off somehow and not known about it. "
Do you feel that something you said might have pissed her off? If not forget it. You do need to be a bit tough on here. It is frustrating if you're blocked for no apparent reason but it does happen. It's a whole lot easier to deal with if you can accept it as part of it all. |
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At least you managed to get some messeges in, Ive just been sent a msg to which I tryed to reply to and couldnt as i was blocked lol its a strange place at times  |
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Manners are a lot to me..if I have the manners to others then why not give it back?. If she had changed her mind,why be so rude and not just say actually I've changed my mind..yes some men get abusive etc
.but that doesn't mean you firget your manners  |
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