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"It's a bit too niche 
I'm happy with my mum tum tyvm  "
People should be happy with what they have, this isn't a thread to shame anyone.
I appreciate a nice flat toned tummy, I know there's plenty of other guys as well, though most will be petrified of posting though.
They wouldn't want to scare any non toned tummy ladies away lol
I'm even getting messages from loads of guys saying they cant reply on thread for that exact reason haha ! Classic |
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*For the people watching this thread experiment, 12 mins to go!*
Predictions.
- lack of response from ladies as hardly any slim tummy's.
- lack of response from men as they are petrified of scaring away prospective ladies without toned bellies if they say they appreciate a toned tummy.
To those who are in the know about this research, I want my Tenner ready when I win this bet ! Hahahah !
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I think toned ladies tums are beautiful,they have lovely curves and lines following the muscles. Just like men's toned tums.
I'll never have one alas but I do admire those than can.
I also think tums of all shapes and sizes are beautiful especially when part of a beautiful human being as a whole. |
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"You winked at me a month ago but I have a fat tummy so sorry, but if you're making bacon and eggs, I'll have some please "
I'm pretty sure you made me laugh out loud on one of your comments !
I swear bacon is gods shortcut to anyone's heart hehe ! |
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"I like them but don't have one myself. But then I like a lady with a mummy tummy too. I guess I just like lovely ladies however they are  "
I'm sure the mom bod appreciation thread doesn't need people to say they also like 'fit tummies'.
Why can't people just like a fit tummy without need to to mention non fit tummies?
It's like everyone is scared that people will judge them for it.
Stop being so scared lol J/K |
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I am lucky enough to have had children and kept my toned stomach, not as toned as I would like but am happy with it.
I love a lady who is confident in herself and I know so many after having children lose their confidence and hate their bodies. Sexiness comes from confidence. I like bald/shaved head guys so everyone is entitled to a preference
Jayne x |
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"I like them but don't have one myself. But then I like a lady with a mummy tummy too. I guess I just like lovely ladies however they are
I'm sure the mom bod appreciation thread doesn't need people to say they also like 'fit tummies'.
Why can't people just like a fit tummy without need to to mention non fit tummies?
It's like everyone is scared that people will judge them for it.
Stop being so scared lol J/K"
Cos it's a forum. And I can say what I like. I like apples. But that doesn't stop me liking oranges  |
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"Also I honestly don't think having a toned tummy is niche? Lol
That's a bit of a stretch it seems."
I was being tongue in cheek...
was going to attach it to your deleted post (I did see it haha) |
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"I like them but don't have one myself. But then I like a lady with a mummy tummy too. I guess I just like lovely ladies however they are
I'm sure the mom bod appreciation thread doesn't need people to say they also like 'fit tummies'.
Why can't people just like a fit tummy without need to to mention non fit tummies?
It's like everyone is scared that people will judge them for it.
Stop being so scared lol J/K
Cos it's a forum. And I can say what I like. I like apples. But that doesn't stop me liking oranges "
Lol you did t ole sit on the fence statement.
"I like fit tummies but also like non fit tummies"
The most pointless statement ever. . So basically you like all tummies?
Hardly worth knowing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like them but don't have one myself. But then I like a lady with a mummy tummy too. I guess I just like lovely ladies however they are
I'm sure the mom bod appreciation thread doesn't need people to say they also like 'fit tummies'.
Why can't people just like a fit tummy without need to to mention non fit tummies?
It's like everyone is scared that people will judge them for it.
Stop being so scared lol J/K"
its nothing to do with being judged..
its to do with working with what you have and owning it |
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I think I prefer more curves than toned in a woman..strange I know seeing as I go to the gym but I've seen some women with 6 packs and it doesn't look or feel right to me. If she toned but with curves then I'm all over that like colone on a French dude haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to have one although after having 3 kids and being a lazy cunt for pretty much the past 15 years it isn't looking likely
I have lost a lot of weight recently but the tum and the wings are proving the most challenging to shift  |
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"I would love to have one although after having 3 kids and being a lazy cunt for pretty much the past 15 years it isn't looking likely
I have lost a lot of weight recently but the tum and the wings are proving the most challenging to shift "
Love the profile or at least what I can see Hah
I'm sure you are plagued with messages either way! |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?"
its a forum lol
people can post whatever they like, as long as its within the rules
yesterday people who weren't even mums wanted to be appreciated too
just get over it OP |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
its a forum lol
people can post whatever they like, as long as its within the rules
yesterday people who weren't even mums wanted to be appreciated too
just get over it OP"
You have totally missed the point.
But that's cool.
Happy tummy day! |
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"I think I have a flat ish tummy and I work really hard to maintain it. I do really fancy toned women though I'm really jealous of them too!
H xx"
When a lady arches her back and the v muscle shines through her groin area.
*bites fist*
Oh momma
Lol |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
its a forum lol
people can post whatever they like, as long as its within the rules
yesterday people who weren't even mums wanted to be appreciated too
just get over it OP
You have totally missed the point.
But that's cool.
Happy tummy day!"
I don't think I have actually..
but you carry on being deluded
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"I think I have a flat ish tummy and I work really hard to maintain it. I do really fancy toned women though I'm really jealous of them too!
H xx
When a lady arches her back and the v muscle shines through her groin area.
*bites fist*
Oh momma
Lol"
Haha what's the v muscle? Or am I being thick lol
H xx |
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I appreciate women of all shapes and sizes and I don't particularly have a type, so I do ocassionally like a lady with a nice toned tummy, that doesn't mean I'm going to be attracted to all of them
I used to be a lady with a perfectly toned lovely tummy and I'm far happier and more confident now I'm a fatty than I was back then |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
its a forum lol
people can post whatever they like, as long as its within the rules
yesterday people who weren't even mums wanted to be appreciated too
just get over it OP
You have totally missed the point.
But that's cool.
Happy tummy day!
I don't think I have actually..
but you carry on being deluded
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Says the lady posting on a toned tummy thread and getting out of her pram cos I'm not talking about non toned tummies?
Hahahah
Not sure why you despise toned tummies so much, maybe start a thread about it?
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over a year ago
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"Quite literally takes my breath away!
Hot stuurrrrrf! Makes me wanna eat my bacon and eggs direct off their taught fit tummy !
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am with ya pal
don't mind a fatty once in a while mind |
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"I think I have a flat ish tummy and I work really hard to maintain it. I do really fancy toned women though I'm really jealous of them too!
H xx
When a lady arches her back and the v muscle shines through her groin area.
*bites fist*
Oh momma
Lol
Haha what's the v muscle? Or am I being thick lol
H xx"
Where the upper part of legs/thighs meet the tummy muscles !
There's like a sort of v shape leading down to groin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I have a flat ish tummy and I work really hard to maintain it. I do really fancy toned women though I'm really jealous of them too!
H xx
When a lady arches her back and the v muscle shines through her groin area.
*bites fist*
Oh momma
Lol
Haha what's the v muscle? Or am I being thick lol
H xx
Where the upper part of legs/thighs meet the tummy muscles !
There's like a sort of v shape leading down to groin!"
Oh haha I definitely don't have that  but I try
H xx |
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"Quite literally takes my breath away!
Hot stuurrrrrf! Makes me wanna eat my bacon and eggs direct off their taught fit tummy !
am with ya pal
don't mind a fatty once in a while mind "
Wow
Good luck on here. Get your hard hat out!
As a woman with a wobbly tummy I do appreciate how good a toned tum looks but then a curvy tum looks great also.
As long as that tum is attached to a beautiful person inside then does it matter?
What I would never do is make a derogatory comment about ladies being 'fatties'
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"I like them but don't have one myself. But then I like a lady with a mummy tummy too. I guess I just like lovely ladies however they are
I'm sure the mom bod appreciation thread doesn't need people to say they also like 'fit tummies'.
Why can't people just like a fit tummy without need to to mention non fit tummies?
It's like everyone is scared that people will judge them for it.
Stop being so scared lol J/K
Cos it's a forum. And I can say what I like. I like apples. But that doesn't stop me liking oranges
Lol you did t ole sit on the fence statement.
"I like fit tummies but also like non fit tummies"
The most pointless statement ever. . So basically you like all tummies?
Hardly worth knowing lol"
Sorry dude, but how the fuck was it worth knowing you like toned tummies? Their comment has the same value as your own, they just didn't start a thread about it  |
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Jeez . . a thread is started about toned tummies.
What a crime.
People feel the need to say they prefer other tummies. That's great, start a thread about it.
Coming onto a toned tummy thread and bitching is just madness and very sad. |
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"Quite literally takes my breath away!
Hot stuurrrrrf! Makes me wanna eat my bacon and eggs direct off their taught fit tummy !
am with ya pal
don't mind a fatty once in a while mind
Wow
Good luck on here. Get your hard hat out!
As a woman with a wobbly tummy I do appreciate how good a toned tum looks but then a curvy tum looks great also.
As long as that tum is attached to a beautiful person inside then does it matter?
What I would never do is make a derogatory comment about ladies being 'fatties'
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Clearly I didn't mean this thread to be against 'fatties' as it's been put.
But just like most ladies prefer a big todger, some of us guys prefer a toned tummy.
Not sure why ladies take such personal offence to this?
I'm sure there's plenty of ladies that have made members on here feel bad for not wanting a meet cos they don't have a huge Willy.
People are allowed to have a preference. Not sure why that guy went to the word 'fatties' though, that's just being a meanie. |
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"Quite literally takes my breath away!
Hot stuurrrrrf! Makes me wanna eat my bacon and eggs direct off their taught fit tummy !
am with ya pal
don't mind a fatty once in a while mind
Wow
Good luck on here. Get your hard hat out!
As a woman with a wobbly tummy I do appreciate how good a toned tum looks but then a curvy tum looks great also.
As long as that tum is attached to a beautiful person inside then does it matter?
What I would never do is make a derogatory comment about ladies being 'fatties'
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I'm a fatty I take no issue with other calling me it they're merely stating the facts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez . . a thread is started about toned tummies.
What a crime.
People feel the need to say they prefer other tummies. That's great, start a thread about it.
Coming onto a toned tummy thread and bitching is just madness and very sad."
oh stop being so offended |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
The tummy is the hardest place to tone for me. I have decided I rather like my little pot belly. I would love to have one but it takes commitment and I have a phobia for that. |
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"Also I honestly don't think having a toned tummy is niche? Lol
That's a bit of a stretch it seems.
I was being tongue in cheek...
was going to attach it to your deleted post (I did see it haha)"
I like nice cheeks too, always worth a tongue.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a bit too niche
I'm happy with my mum tum tyvm
People should be happy with what they have, this isn't a thread to shame anyone.
I appreciate a nice flat toned tummy, I know there's plenty of other guys as well, though most will be petrified of posting though.
They wouldn't want to scare any non toned tummy ladies away lol
I'm even getting messages from loads of guys saying they cant reply on thread for that exact reason haha ! Classic"
Also, grow some bollocks please, boys... You're not going to be vilified because you appreciate a flat tummy! |
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"The tummy is the hardest place to tone for me. I have decided I rather like my little pot belly. I would love to have one but it takes commitment and I have a phobia for that. "
Ha ha, I really don't think you have anything to worry about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate a flat belly ,I'd love to have one ..reasons are I can't have one ...I love them on a woman ,I appreciate them on a guy that's worked hard to get that look ....don't be afraid to say what you like ..personally I like to hold something I can see |
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"It's a bit too niche
I'm happy with my mum tum tyvm
People should be happy with what they have, this isn't a thread to shame anyone.
I appreciate a nice flat toned tummy, I know there's plenty of other guys as well, though most will be petrified of posting though.
They wouldn't want to scare any non toned tummy ladies away lol
I'm even getting messages from loads of guys saying they cant reply on thread for that exact reason haha ! Classic
Also, grow some bollocks please, boys... You're not going to be vilified because you appreciate a flat tummy! "
You'd be surprised !
Guys have been telling me that they cant post as they would get flak from people with non toned tummies Hah
It's bad that women judge others like that but also bad that guys are willing to hide their real opinion for fears of not being able to meet other ladies.
Bit of a joke really lol
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"It's a bit too niche
I'm happy with my mum tum tyvm
People should be happy with what they have, this isn't a thread to shame anyone.
I appreciate a nice flat toned tummy, I know there's plenty of other guys as well, though most will be petrified of posting though.
They wouldn't want to scare any non toned tummy ladies away lol
I'm even getting messages from loads of guys saying they cant reply on thread for that exact reason haha ! Classic
Also, grow some bollocks please, boys... You're not going to be vilified because you appreciate a flat tummy!
You'd be surprised !
Guys have been telling me that they cant post as they would get flak from people with non toned tummies Hah
It's bad that women judge others like that but also bad that guys are willing to hide their real opinion for fears of not being able to meet other ladies.
Bit of a joke really lol
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It depends. Do they just like a flat tummy or is it their preference!? The latter is the reason they'd probably be judged on, mainly because they've probably messaged many women who don't meet their preference and no one wants to feel like a back up.
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I think women look great with a flat, toned tummy. I'd love one but its never going to happen .
I think its ok for guys to say they like a flat tummy despite having contacted women who don't have one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women look great with a flat, toned tummy. I'd love one but its never going to happen .
I think its ok for guys to say they like a flat tummy despite having contacted women who don't have one. "
Exactly. Some are very precious on here |
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"Jeez . . a thread is started about toned tummies.
What a crime.
People feel the need to say they prefer other tummies. That's great, start a thread about it.
Coming onto a toned tummy thread and bitching is just madness and very sad."
I agree with you: you didn't say anything derogatory, but you'll find some will take umbridge because what you appreciate excludes them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jeez . . a thread is started about toned tummies.
What a crime.
People feel the need to say they prefer other tummies. That's great, start a thread about it.
Coming onto a toned tummy thread and bitching is just madness and very sad.
I agree with you: you didn't say anything derogatory, but you'll find some will take umbridge because what you appreciate excludes them. "
Although, if you read this thread, no one really took umbridge. It was the OP who stated men weren't commenting because they felt they'd be vilified.
I was just explaining why some might judge or take offence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter what dress size I've been the weight around my tummy has always been the hardest to shift.
I'd luvre a flat toned tummy but I also luvre my food, drink & socialising so until my thought process changes, wibble wobble... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?"
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha |
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"No matter what dress size I've been the weight around my tummy has always been the hardest to shift.
I'd luvre a flat toned tummy but I also luvre my food, drink & socialising so until my thought process changes, wibble wobble... "
Completely unrelated but the penny has only just dropped after years of seeing you write "luvre" I've only just worked out what you mean!  |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha "
You all do. Just some have room for more egg and bacon than others |
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha "
The threads turn because someone always ends up making a "real women" comment and berating another body type. The amount of times I've read that "real women have curves" It's not about condemning people for an opinion, but more about making people aware that how they word replies can be offensive. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Quite literally takes my breath away!
Hot stuurrrrrf! Makes me wanna eat my bacon and eggs direct off their taught fit tummy !
am with ya pal
don't mind a fatty once in a while mind
Wow
Good luck on here. Get your hard hat out!
As a woman with a wobbly tummy I do appreciate how good a toned tum looks but then a curvy tum looks great also.
As long as that tum is attached to a beautiful person inside then does it matter?
What I would never do is make a derogatory comment about ladies being 'fatties'
Clearly I didn't mean this thread to be against 'fatties' as it's been put.
But just like most ladies prefer a big todger, some of us guys prefer a toned tummy.
Not sure why ladies take such personal offence to this?
I'm sure there's plenty of ladies that have made members on here feel bad for not wanting a meet cos they don't have a huge Willy.
People are allowed to have a preference. Not sure why that guy went to the word 'fatties' though, that's just being a meanie."
I'm not sure whether this thread is about appreciating a flat tummy on a lady or a way of championing the fight for freedom of expression. OP you seem hell bent on making sure that people can say what they want but actually nobody is saying anything other and nobody is offended from what I can see. If guys (in your opinion) don't feel they can post that's their issue. Every day on every thread people express preferences.
As far as the term 'fatties' goes, I see it as derogatory and offensive and it has no place here as far as I'm concerned. No need for it and although some may not mind it, you need to beware of the context. It's not a term of endearment.
Flat tummies on ladies? Yes, love them and have fabbed many a photo of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No matter what dress size I've been the weight around my tummy has always been the hardest to shift.
I'd luvre a flat toned tummy but I also luvre my food, drink & socialising so until my thought process changes, wibble wobble...
Completely unrelated but the penny has only just dropped after years of seeing you write "luvre" I've only just worked out what you mean! "
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"Slimming World....flat belly one day I hope x
BUT you might lose the cheeky bum!
Nooooooooo !  "
Its okay. Be calm lol. I have promised all my friends to keep the boobs and the bum xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha
The threads turn because someone always ends up making a "real women" comment and berating another body type. The amount of times I've read that "real women have curves" It's not about condemning people for an opinion, but more about making people aware that how they word replies can be offensive. "
I do agree because that is generally how threads turn.
However, some will take umbrage for others expressing a preference which is opposite to them, in turn that person defends their right to initial opinion (maybe their wording isn't quite right ) and the circle of thread deterioration begins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha
The threads turn because someone always ends up making a "real women" comment and berating another body type. The amount of times I've read that "real women have curves" It's not about condemning people for an opinion, but more about making people aware that how they word replies can be offensive.
I do agree because that is generally how threads turn.
However, some will take umbrage for others expressing a preference which is opposite to them, in turn that person defends their right to initial opinion (maybe their wording isn't quite right ) and the circle of thread deterioration begins."
Some do, you're right. It's a bit silly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Goodness..when is it safe to agree or disagree anymore
I agree, if anyone dared going into say the mum bod appreciation tread and say they like a toned fit belly. . .can you imagine the abuse?
I commented on the mom body thread and can't quite believe how people's opinions can make a post turn so quickly. people are either too scared to give an opinion these days or think they have a right to condemn people for having opinions. just accept differing opinions end of .... and by the way I'm sure alot of mums with tums all wished we had ones that you could eat egg and bacon off anyway Haha
The threads turn because someone always ends up making a "real women" comment and berating another body type. The amount of times I've read that "real women have curves" It's not about condemning people for an opinion, but more about making people aware that how they word replies can be offensive.
I do agree because that is generally how threads turn.
However, some will take umbrage for others expressing a preference which is opposite to them, in turn that person defends their right to initial opinion (maybe their wording isn't quite right ) and the circle of thread deterioration begins."
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I was very slim before kids. I had a flat tummy you could iron on but.... I had no boobs, no bum and a thigh gap you could drive a bus through.
I piled on loads of weight after having my kids.
I hated having "saddle bags" around my hips, chub rub at the top of my thighs, and a saggy arse.
I took up exercise and healthy eating. Lost two stone in two months. I now have half decent sized boobs, nice thigh gap with muscular thighs, constantly complimented on my bum. But I can't shift my saggy mum tum, it's going nowhere so I've chosen to embrace it. It's the result of having my two beautiful children and I'm not ashamed of that.
I endeavour to reduce it but I know it will never go completely.
All women/men have a part of their body they don't like. If they change it, there will always be something else they don't like... It's the nature of the beast. |
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"I don't have one anymore it's gone to pot 
Not as bad as mine has "
It's how you feel inside though isn't it,some people just ooz sex appeal no matter what size they are. I've never particularly felt that way,I alway's hear too slim a woman no curves does not make a real woman blah blah blah,it make's you feel unwomanly at time's. |
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"I don't have one anymore it's gone to pot
Not as bad as mine has
It's how you feel inside though isn't it,some people just ooz sex appeal no matter what size they are. I've never particularly felt that way,I alway's hear too slim a woman no curves does not make a real woman blah blah blah,it make's you feel unwomanly at time's. "
Yes it is all a mindset I'm far more confident and happier in myself now than I was in my slimmer days |
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