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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening all 
We had a meet arranged for Saturday evening with a female (photo and meet verified), cleared time for the meet and drove to meet her at a hotel, and after waiting half an hour and hearing nothing back, gave up.
After an hour she messaged again apologising and saying she was free in an hour but had a gentleman friend with her. We decided to take a punt and went to meet them, again a no show so found some entertainment elsewhere (thanks chaps, you know who you are!).
A further hour later she messaged saying she couldnt meet but her partner could... No thanks!
We thought that by going photo verified and premium membership etc we'd be able.to avoid all that, but it's really soured our.first weekend on fab.
Any tips how to avoid this kinda crap in future? We only have limited time.to swing and don't wanna waste it! |
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"Evening all
We had a meet arranged for Saturday evening with a female (photo and meet verified), cleared time for the meet and drove to meet her at a hotel, and after waiting half an hour and hearing nothing back, gave up.
After an hour she messaged again apologising and saying she was free in an hour but had a gentleman friend with her. We decided to take a punt and went to meet them, again a no show so found some entertainment elsewhere (thanks chaps, you know who you are!).
A further hour later she messaged saying she couldnt meet but her partner could... No thanks!
We thought that by going photo verified and premium membership etc we'd be able.to avoid all that, but it's really soured our.first weekend on fab.
Any tips how to avoid this kinda crap in future? We only have limited time.to swing and don't wanna waste it! "
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Not sure how you could have avoided this but as Brightonsteve said a social first s out the men pretending to be women.
In general if messaging quickly turns explicit or they ask for explicit photos they're questionable. Also if they go quiet in the days before a meet.
Better luck next time. |
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"The simple way to avoid fake women is to always ask for a female to female phone chat. If they refuse they are fake. "
I wouldn't rely on that cos I can do a rather confincing Joanna Lumley so could easily talk someone into showing me theirs bits and bobs. Or bobs bits. |
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"The simple way to avoid fake women is to always ask for a female to female phone chat. If they refuse they are fake. "
I always refuse that ..,
Not fake just don't see what it would achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The simple way to avoid fake women is to always ask for a female to female phone chat. If they refuse they are fake. "
I did this with a girl and still got stood up  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The simple way to avoid fake women is to always ask for a female to female phone chat. If they refuse they are fake.
I did this with a girl and still got stood up "
We wouldn't stand you up!! |
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"Well yeah, I think when I read message my reaction was along the lines of "do you think we're f*cking daft?!" "
By the time you had received that message they had already established that. HE was watching you at the hotel.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately this is no way to avoid this kind of thing happening.
Yes go for a social first, but have back up plans just in case.
Check their varis, make sure it's not them just vari themselves from another fake account.
Exchange many messages first, genuine people won't mind, fakes trying it on will get bored and move on quickly. But that's just in my experience.
But ultimately there will always be time wasters |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Not sure how you could have avoided this but as Brightonsteve said a social first s out the men pretending to be women.
In general if messaging quickly turns explicit or they ask for explicit photos they're questionable. Also if they go quiet in the days before a meet.
Better luck next time."
This  |
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"The simple way to avoid fake women is to always ask for a female to female phone chat. If they refuse they are fake.
I always refuse that ..,
Not fake just don't see what it would achieve "
It proves you're actually a woman and not some sad fake. Why would you refuse? |
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