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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
One social meet with a nice woman on Friday, which included some naked play afterwards.
Followed by another social Sunday which included full sex.
Nothing wrong with that...except now she wants me to hide my profile as she has hidden hers. 
Why do some women think it must be love?...its a swingers site for#$#sake.
So, do some women not grasp the swinging concept ...or are they using sex as a weapon to entrap or attract a long term boyfriend?
...and would any males hide their profile if requested to by a female member?
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Did you suggest anything about a connection or long gevity"
Not at all..although with the right partner, I would seriously consider it..(a longer term thing but only with a bifemale) but this wasn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh hell no, RUN! That has happened to me too many times to count and I find the suggestion that you may have led her on downright appalling!
You must NOT meet with her again and you MUST keep a record of ALL correspondence with her. Save and do NOT delete ANY messages especially the ones sent after your meet.
Yes, I am overreacting and so what! I've been stalked by someone with similar behaviour and prevention is better than cure! |
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"One social meet with a nice woman on Friday, which included some naked play afterwards.
Followed by another social Sunday which included full sex.
Nothing wrong with that...except now she wants me to hide my profile as she has hidden hers.
Why do some women think it must be love?...its a swingers site for#$#sake.
So, do some women not grasp the swinging concept ...or are they using sex as a weapon to entrap or attract a long term boyfriend?
...and would any males hide their profile if requested to by a female member?
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you suggest anything about a connection or long gevity
Not at all..although with the right partner, I would seriously consider it..(a longer term thing but only with a bifemale) but this wasn't it."
Did you discuss this at all with her? Seems a bit shit for everyone to be calling her a bunny boiler yet you have mentioned fwb so she may think you want that.  |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf "
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
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Is she straight? |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since? |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
Is she straight?"
If assume so otherwise this thread would be pointless..the information is all there lol |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"hope she does not frequent the forums, poor girl in a forum chat yesterday you described how you had a lovely day and had sex in Harrogate then she made you a nice meal!"
She's now removed her profile. Probably thinks 'job done'.
I object to being told to remove my profile because she does when she's 'seeing someone'.
Had she still been here and not left the site..I wouldn't be posting..believe me. |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
Is she straight?
If assume so otherwise this thread would be pointless..the information is all there lol"
Alright sarcy. It didnt actually say what she was. Lol |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
Is she straight?"
Definately. Her interest is 2 guys and no girls |
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"One social meet with a nice woman on Friday, which included some naked play afterwards.
Followed by another social Sunday which included full sex.
Nothing wrong with that...except now she wants me to hide my profile as she has hidden hers.
Why do some women think it must be love?...its a swingers site for#$#sake.
So, do some women not grasp the swinging concept ...or are they using sex as a weapon to entrap or attract a long term boyfriend?
...and would any males hide their profile if requested to by a female member?
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Bunny boiler alert, move quickly |
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I had a similar situation. But we didn't have sex. Had a really nice time and thought great a regular fb,which I've been looking for,for a while now. Long story short,Actually found out she wanted a bf who she could go to clubs with etc..but wasn't willing to say it to me..even though we spoke in length what we were both looking for. Got me quite angry because if we can't be open and honest with a place like this then wtf
Yes I am open to a longer or regular thing..but only with the right person, which would be a bifemale..and she knew that from out pre-meet discussions.
Is she straight?
If assume so otherwise this thread would be pointless..the information is all there lol
Alright sarcy. It didnt actually say what she was. Lol"
There was no sarcasm there..jeez and peas lol. This place is bad I swear |
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"One social meet with a nice woman on Friday, which included some naked play afterwards.
Followed by another social Sunday which included full sex.
Nothing wrong with that...except now she wants me to hide my profile as she has hidden hers.
Why do some women think it must be love?...its a swingers site for#$#sake.
So, do some women not grasp the swinging concept ...or are they using sex as a weapon to entrap or attract a long term boyfriend?
...and would any males hide their profile if requested to by a female member?
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Oh and to answer your question..NO!!!!. I'd Never hide my profile lol |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?"
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that. |
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that. "
Oh wow!. Not even usain himself would be able to get away faster mate. |
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"No doubt some women do, just like some men and you can only be entrapped if you allow yourself to be.
I daresay there will be men who would hide their profile if I asked."
Good grief I don't know where that 'I' came from, I'm not that sort of woman! |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"No doubt some women do, just like some men and you can only be entrapped if you allow yourself to be.
I daresay there will be men who would hide their profile if I asked.
Good grief I don't know where that 'I' came from, I'm not that sort of woman!"
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over a year ago
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that. "
She asked and you said no. I don't see why it's an issue.
Has she deleted or hidden her profile?
Has she contacted you since you said you wouldn't hide or delete your profile? |
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By *l4yer OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that.
She asked and you said no. I don't see why it's an issue.
Has she deleted or hidden her profile?
Has she contacted you since you said you wouldn't hide or delete your profile?"
She has deleted her profile. We are exchanging messages but I said I would have to think about hiding /deleting my profile, which wasn't received well. |
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that.
She asked and you said no. I don't see why it's an issue.
Has she deleted or hidden her profile?
Has she contacted you since you said you wouldn't hide or delete your profile?
She has deleted her profile. We are exchanging messages but I said I would have to think about hiding /deleting my profile, which wasn't received well."
You gave her hope. |
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Think she may have been trying her luck so to speak. But a thread about her is a bit ouch. Even though I know you're not slaying her. Have you spoken to her since?
Yes..when she told me she had deleted her profile as she does when 'shes seeing someone' and will I do the same 'just for her..please, just for me'.
That's when I thought..err not sure about that.
She asked and you said no. I don't see why it's an issue.
Has she deleted or hidden her profile?
Has she contacted you since you said you wouldn't hide or delete your profile?
She has deleted her profile. We are exchanging messages but I said I would have to think about hiding /deleting my profile, which wasn't received well."
How many more clues do you need? |
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