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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!! |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45."
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x |
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x"
Totally understand that hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!"
I don't engage with anyone without seeing a couple of face pics initially, otherwise you'll find many people on here waste so much of your time.
I had it on Friday as I met a guy who said he was 25, according to his chat and on the profile. When we met up he was clearly younger, but still hot thankfully! So many guys (and women) it seems are incapable of being truthful about their age on here.
The internet is full of liars. Protect yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's far too many pointless conversations on here  I've leant to knock them on the head pretty quickly now.
Using another profile to get around filters is a huge alarm bell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so he made a fake profile because women wouldn't want to meet him otherwise?
I'm not sure how lying would help in anyway"
I met someone for a social said he was 35 on his profile but admitted to only being 30 when we met .
. Too young for me ... why do folk lie about these things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so he made a fake profile because women wouldn't want to meet him otherwise?
I'm not sure how lying would help in anyway
I met someone for a social said he was 35 on his profile but admitted to only being 30 when we met .
. Too young for me ... why do folk lie about these things "
What changed about him when you found out he was 5 years younger? |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x"
By your own admission it is only a few. Fab can be a great place to meet people. Personally I wouldn't give up that easily. |
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x"
I'm at this stage too. I am sick of low lives, attention seeking men and time wasters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!"
Report the mail where he gives both profile names. Admin might sort it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
I'm at this stage too. I am sick of low lives, attention seeking men and time wasters! "
 I did a thread earlier saying the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x"
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states that I am 45 when in actual fact I am 45!
Never seen the point in lying or being otherwise dishonest as such people always get found out.
Unfortunately though, it would seem that such dishonesty works initially, distracting people away from those being honest and upon realisation of the deceit, trust in people is severely damaged and things are ruined for everybody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!"
So did this other profile have face pic? Not sure what he hoped to achieve sending you to another profile? Don't see point putting a fake age as if you do get to meet its soon found out, though must say being 53 and filtered out by someone who had 51 as upper limit is a bit frustrating but it would never tempt me to create a fake profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile states that I am 45 when in actual fact I am 45!
Never seen the point in lying or being otherwise dishonest as such people always get found out.
Unfortunately though, it would seem that such dishonesty works initially, distracting people away from those being honest and upon realisation of the deceit, trust in people is severely damaged and things are ruined for everybody"
Also, it's good to remind and reinforce the fact women never ever lie on this site  |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"There's far too many pointless conversations on here I've leant to knock them on the head pretty quickly now.
Using another profile to get around filters is a huge alarm bell "
Only found out tonight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's far too many pointless conversations on here I've leant to knock them on the head pretty quickly now.
Using another profile to get around filters is a huge alarm bell
Only found out tonight!"
I hope you've reported him and blocked him |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"so he made a fake profile because women wouldn't want to meet him otherwise?
I'm not sure how lying would help in anyway
I met someone for a social said he was 35 on his profile but admitted to only being 30 when we met .
. Too young for me ... why do folk lie about these things
What changed about him
when you found out he was 5 years younger?"
He was a liar? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
I wouldn't let the actions of a few affect my view of all men. It pisses me off when all women are labelled one way or another. An arsehole is an arsehole. As soon as the red flags start appearing like someone being difficult about swapping face pics or meeting for a social etc... I move on. Very little time wasted. |
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for. "
Her profile states that shes not meeting |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for.
Her profile states that shes not meeting"
Thats because of being messed around by guys like him on a regular basis x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!"
hope you reported both profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so he made a fake profile because women wouldn't want to meet him otherwise?
I'm not sure how lying would help in anyway
I met someone for a social said he was 35 on his profile but admitted to only being 30 when we met .
. Too young for me ... why do folk lie about these things
What changed about him
when you found out he was 5 years younger?
He was a liar?"
Yeah I agree. In my case I found out his real age after our meet - and the meet itself was pretty spectacular, frustratingly.
Now I know he's lied I'm not sure I want him in my house again. |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for.
Her profile states that shes not meeting"
Not too different to yours lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
hope you reported both profiles "
Is it beneficial to report profiles of people with fake ages, or is it pointless? |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
Not sure it actually makes any difference, I just block them
hope you reported both profiles
Is it beneficial to report profiles of people with fake ages, or is it pointless? "
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for.
Her profile states that shes not meeting
Not too different to yours lol"
Yes? I was sticking up for you? |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
Not sure it actually makes any difference, I just block them
hope you reported both profiles
Is it beneficial to report profiles of people with fake ages, or is it pointless? "
Pointless, they set up new ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't meet or trust anyone anymore why would you still have your profile open to potential meets. Why not have 'not meeting just chatting in forums'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!"
38 & 27.
ummm he's not really going to pull that off is he?....  |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x
There are plenty of other women still meeting on here. Have you closed your profile off to new messages and made yourself unavailable? Wouldn't be fair to people who are looking for women who meet. Remember to untick who you are looking for.
Her profile states that shes not meeting
Not too different to yours lol
Yes? I was sticking up for you?"
Sorry xx just a bit angry at mo, I can see that now, must stop even talking to guys, don't wanna leave as have nice mates on here that I have a laugh with xx |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
38 & 27.
ummm he's not really going to pull that off is he?.... "
Bah!
I reckon I could pull off 27 in a dimly lit room....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
Report the mail where he gives both profile names. Admin might sort it. "
I'm not so sure, how can it be proved that the intent is wrong? Plenty of people have more than one profile , are you going to report the couple that don't state cross refer on their single profile & vice versa?
Is it against the Fab rules to have more than one profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never get away with it....I'll be hitting 50 in less than 2 yrs.....means I'll be blocked by a other chunk of ladies/couples.....but that's life I guess. If I lied, and met them they would soon be pissed off and would piss me off rather rapidly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
38 & 27.
ummm he's not really going to pull that off is he?....
Bah!
I reckon I could pull off 27 in a dimly lit room.... "
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
38 & 27.
ummm he's not really going to pull that off is he?....
Bah!
I reckon I could pull off 27 in a dimly lit room.... "
I get "Fuck off are you!" Whenever I meet new people, most knock about ten years off. Gets tiresome after a while
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Says he is 38, have spoken to him before, seamed OK, then can't shows face pic, directs me to another profile of a 27 year old, says he has the other profile cos older women wouldn't meet him, prob cos he is an Ass!!!
38 & 27.
ummm he's not really going to pull that off is he?....
Bah!
I reckon I could pull off 27 in a dimly lit room....
I get "Fuck off are you!" Whenever I meet new people, most knock about ten years off. Gets tiresome after a while
S"
Apparently quite a few of the lads I play Rugby with thought I was in my late 20s.
They must have thought that I was a right miserable cunt for someone that age... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol why not...they waste peoples times..and there time is more important then wasting if they dont meet."
Because it is against site rules, as you will know whenever you post a comment in the forums, this rule is very clearly displayed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45."
It's hard enough to sometimes get a reply to a message or be noticed due to the ton of copy and paste one's or the one line of utter filth they think is necessary to impress..
But to blatantly lie about your age or have multiple profiles..
Crazy, completely crazy...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP from your first post it does sound like the guy is not being straight foward with you. Different ages - the list goes on!
I tend to steer well clear of profiles that behave like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even us genuine guys aren't immune to bullshitters straight couples turning out to be a gay guy
Even had a gay lad posing as a woman had nerve to say I wouldn't have noticed 3
Begum to differ lol |
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"That would rile me.i met someone recently said he was 32.
He turned up... was AT least 45.
I don't meet anymore, too many fakes, it's a shame as I do love meeting new people and I love sex! So few have ruined it for the rest x"
Same for me.....it's such a shame. |
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