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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Couples that advertise for a meet, obviously don't get the responses they wanted, or no offers at all, and then start slagging the site and the users off on their updates. As if they expect there to be a ever ending line of people wanting to fuck them as soon as they mention they're looking xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who have been rejected often lash out. If they don't get the response they wanted it's easier to blame the site or the user's than it is to be rational.
I'm not excusing their behaviour. Just explaining some of the reasons why it can happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only annoying thing we've found is that many are very short with their messages and give no detail. When it means we have to do all the asking and planning, we just quit on the conversation. Has to be 2 way.
Can't see the benefit of someone ranting on through their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single bloke, i see it (in some cases anyway) as reflective of the impact that the attention that is received on here has.
it can do really bad things for ego inflation and lead to that expectation that people will be lining up to be selected at their whim. |
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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Ive had people get really rude to me once i have turned then down. I think people dont expect to be turned down by a single guy. Because obviously all single male profile must be absolutely desperate.... just not the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP agree with your opening post.
I assume they do get offers, then just because they don't find the perfect offer say this site's boring etc. Those kind of couples simply need to search in a different way and start having realistic expectations. |
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