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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious about when couples advertise for a single guy for a meet!! Obviously there will be tons and tons of messages from hopeful guys, But how do you couples filter through the messages and pick the right guy for you?? |
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We don't pick them. More the profile does it.
Our profile says in capital letters that we don't want guys to contact us but we'll do it if we're interested.
You'd be amazed how many can't read capitals! These are definitely eliminated.
We check for boxes ticked, tone of the profile, no text speak, swearing or childish crudities etc. If he can write decently then we assume he can hold a conversation.
Verifications, if there's been a social meet that was "fantastic" and no follow up then that's a delete.
Pictures, anymore than one cock pick and we don't bother. Sue knows what a cock looks like.
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Verifications, if there's been a social meet that was "fantastic" and no follow up then that's a delete.
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I haven't always gone on to arrange a play meet after a social meet, even when I have blatantly been offered sex on a plate, then and there. I'm sorry, but 'automaton' sex with a stranger who offers, is not for me, I need attraction in some form. I'm sure I'm not the only guy who thinks this way, however much we are stereotyped in to the 'they just want to empty their balls in any willing hole' norm in here  |
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Verifications, if there's been a social meet that was "fantastic" and no follow up then that's a delete.
I haven't always gone on to arrange a play meet after a social meet, even when I have blatantly been offered sex on a plate, then and there. I'm sorry, but 'automaton' sex with a stranger who offers, is not for me, I need attraction in some form. I'm sure I'm not the only guy who thinks this way, however much we are stereotyped in to the 'they just want to empty their balls in any willing hole' norm in here "
Yes,from this perspective I understand but if the enthusiasm for a play meet is from the guy then you have to ask why wasn't it followed up?
We, and others we know, look at the veris on the other party to check.
Maybe some might think it a bit ott but it works for us and to date only met with one guy who didn't live up to his billing. |
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It's a combination of things for us, so the guy who ticks the most boxes would be the guy we'd want to play with. So the profile and messages matter. It's a mix of knowing we're all looking for the same sort of experience, attitude, appearance and vital stats. Some people you just click with and get chatting to easily which we find a good start. |
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Verifications, if there's been a social meet that was "fantastic" and no follow up then that's a delete.
I haven't always gone on to arrange a play meet after a social meet, even when I have blatantly been offered sex on a plate, then and there. I'm sorry, but 'automaton' sex with a stranger who offers, is not for me, I need attraction in some form. I'm sure I'm not the only guy who thinks this way, however much we are stereotyped in to the 'they just want to empty their balls in any willing hole' norm in here
Yes,from this perspective I understand but if the enthusiasm for a play meet is from the guy then you have to ask why wasn't it followed up?
We, and others we know, look at the veris on the other party to check.
Maybe some might think it a bit ott but it works for us and to date only met with one guy who didn't live up to his billing."
If this works for you, then that's fine. I just hope people don't stop publishing their verifications on the back of this slant |
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