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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Men often say... my ex hated giving me oral or that women dont like it.. and when i was working in that area many women confessed that they dont like to give.. so it seems outside of the lifestyle giving oral to a man isn't always something people enjoy.
Yet in 4 years as a couple. We havent met one lady that didn't enjoy it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've know quite a few women who didn't particularly like doing it. They were not in the 'lifestyle'. Perhaps those who love sucking cock are more likely to gravitate towards it  |
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over a year ago
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Funnily enough my Ex wife was very anti blow job. She even made me put a rubber the one or 2 times she ever did it.
Sex life with her dwindled for other reasons too and inevitably we parted. A couple of months after we'd split she came round to see me at my batchelor pad and boy oh boy had she discovered the pleasure she could give men
such is life eh. Whistful sigh.
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over a year ago
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I absolutely love it...I enjoy it most with people I've got a connection with. It's more than a simple sex act, when I'm on my knees pleasuring a man with my mouth, there's a very complex mixture of feelings...it's both submissive and powerful at the same time. I love to really take my time, exploring with my lips, my tongue, my whole mouth, whilst listening to his response, gauging what he enjoys most, slowly bringing him to the edge then backing off...the whole experience ranges from erotic and sensual, to pure filth...and everything in between! 
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I have my own personal reasons for not always wanting to do it, which I won't discuss on the forums - but any man I've been intimate with or any man I've met or planned to meet has been aware of those reasons and very understanding. If they weren't understanding I'd back off.
However, with the right person I love it. Makes me feel very sensual and womanly. |
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"I absolutely love it...I enjoy it most with people I've got a connection with. It's more than a simple sex act, when I'm on my knees pleasuring a man with my mouth, there's a very complex mixture of feelings...it's both submissive and powerful at the same time. I love to really take my time, exploring with my lips, my tongue, my whole mouth, whilst listening to his response, gauging what he enjoys most, slowly bringing him to the edge then backing off...the whole experience ranges from erotic and sensual, to pure filth...and everything in between!
V x"
I have a stirring in my pants after reading this, thank you!  |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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L O V E I T!
It's the look, the feel, the taste, the sound of the man groaning as I do it, the 'knowing what it's going to do to me I a minute"... I love the feel of it getting hard in my mouth. I love playing with cock when it's hard, when it's soft and floppy and just watching tv using it as a stress ball ha ha
Ok, is that clear enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love giving head... A few years ago I didn't but then I discovered I enjoyed it.
When a man, or better still men, have pleasured me I love to give them some real pleasure. They all do seem to really enjoy it a great deal.
I think i am slightly unusual as i love the taste of cum in my mouth and am a massive fan of pre-cum. |
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I don't think it's possible that every woman will like or dislike one particular thing. I think some women and I exclude present company, will pretend to like some things because it makes them popular with men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
Same with the old line of...
My wifes fridged
My wife doesnt understand me
That married guys use when having affairs.
I know lots of guys who have hot wives who they have great sex with but these guys still like to fuck other women too.
And they all use the lines like stated above.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
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I'm not sure about that statistic but yeah. There's some truth to that.  |
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"I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
Same with the old line of...
My wifes fridged
My wife doesnt understand me
That married guys use when having affairs.
I know lots of guys who have hot wives who they have great sex with but these guys still like to fuck other women too.
And they all use the lines like stated above.
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
Same with the old line of...
My wifes fridged
My wife doesnt understand me
That married guys use when having affairs.
I know lots of guys who have hot wives who they have great sex with but these guys still like to fuck other women too.
And they all use the lines like stated above.
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex  yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
Same with the old line of...
My wifes fridged
My wife doesnt understand me
That married guys use when having affairs.
I know lots of guys who have hot wives who they have great sex with but these guys still like to fuck other women too.
And they all use the lines like stated above.
dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning. "
Crazy how they believe this though don't you think ? |
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning. "
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning.
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world"
mostly body confidence or feeling ashamed. Many more complex reasons to. Many of them felt their partners didn't find them attractive.. or they were tired or stressed. But my vanilla friends do seem to think that sex is something that women put up with and men enjoy x |
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning.
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world mostly body confidence or feeling ashamed. Many more complex reasons to. Many of them felt their partners didn't find them attractive.. or they were tired or stressed. But my vanilla friends do seem to think that sex is something that women put up with and men enjoy x"
I think maybe alot of the reasons why some women find sex with their partners boring is the guys have stopped trying in the relationship and its made the relationship stale. And when sex does happen it monotonous and predictable just like their relationship. |
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning.
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world mostly body confidence or feeling ashamed. Many more complex reasons to. Many of them felt their partners didn't find them attractive.. or they were tired or stressed. But my vanilla friends do seem to think that sex is something that women put up with and men enjoy x"
The issues are much more complex than it would seem at face value then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning.
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world mostly body confidence or feeling ashamed. Many more complex reasons to. Many of them felt their partners didn't find them attractive.. or they were tired or stressed. But my vanilla friends do seem to think that sex is something that women put up with and men enjoy x
I think maybe alot of the reasons why some women find sex with their partners boring is the guys have stopped trying in the relationship and its made the relationship stale. And when sex does happen it monotonous and predictable just like their relationship."
these women didn't like it in general. Their partners were complimentary . Some had issues from previous relationships too. X its never as black and white. And rarely one persons fault x |
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dunno.. I used to work as a therapist in that area and many women would admit they didn't want to do sex stuff...
Also many of my vanilla friends find sex a chore and do it because it shuts him indoors up.
But yes sometimes its a lie. Like my ex husband told his new partner I didn't like sex yet told the solictor and his friends that I was a nightmare as I always wanted sex.
She confronted me and said maybe if id had sex with my ex more often he wouldn't have come to her. I laughed.. and asked if she wanted to see our video from the morning.
Was there a common reason why they didn't want to get involved in sexual stuff or was it usually because they just didn't like it? I do know some women who think it's all just wrong and I know some men who think women who enjoy sex are wrong too and would actually rather be in a relationship with someone like that. It's a crazy mixed up world mostly body confidence or feeling ashamed. Many more complex reasons to. Many of them felt their partners didn't find them attractive.. or they were tired or stressed. But my vanilla friends do seem to think that sex is something that women put up with and men enjoy x
I think maybe alot of the reasons why some women find sex with their partners boring is the guys have stopped trying in the relationship and its made the relationship stale. And when sex does happen it monotonous and predictable just like their relationship. these women didn't like it in general. Their partners were complimentary . Some had issues from previous relationships too. X its never as black and white. And rarely one persons fault x"
Yes looks like this is a different issue entirely and some complex isues past or present are involved with some . |
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"Men often say... my ex hated giving me oral or that women dont like it.. and when i was working in that area many women confessed that they dont like to give.. so it seems outside of the lifestyle giving oral to a man isn't always something people enjoy.
Yet in 4 years as a couple. We havent met one lady that didn't enjoy it.
So what do you think.. "
Yeah been out with a few women who weren't into it. Got rid of them quickly. They wouldn't let me cum on them either had to finish in the condom. In their cases they were educated as well e.g. 1 was a junior doctor. I think they thought it was beneath them. That's the thing in this swinging a lot of the women are much dirtier let you do things you wouldn't necessarily be able to do in a vanilla relationship. I think that helps with appeal because you can fulfil fantasies you have seen in porn etc. |
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"Men often say... my ex hated giving me oral or that women dont like it.. and when i was working in that area many women confessed that they dont like to give.. so it seems outside of the lifestyle giving oral to a man isn't always something people enjoy.
Yet in 4 years as a couple. We havent met one lady that didn't enjoy it.
So what do you think.. Yeah been out with a few women who weren't into it. Got rid of them quickly. They wouldn't let me cum on them either had to finish in the condom. In their cases they were educated as well e.g. 1 was a junior doctor. I think they thought it was beneath them. That's the thing in this swinging a lot of the women are much dirtier let you do things you wouldn't necessarily be able to do in a vanilla relationship. I think that helps with appeal because you can fulfil fantasies you have seen in porn etc."
You sound like a real Gent |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I love sucking my partner's cock - and not just to make him cum. I often suck it at night as he falls asleep and in the morning to wake him gently.
Swinging wouldn't be the same for me without a spit roast or having a cock in each hand to suck alternately. |
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"Yeah been out with a few women who weren't into it. Got rid of them quickly. They wouldn't let me cum on them either had to finish in the condom. In their cases they were educated as well e.g. 1 was a junior doctor. I think they thought it was beneath them.
That's the thing in this swinging a lot of the women are much dirtier let you do things you wouldn't necessarily be able to do in a vanilla relationship. I think that helps with appeal because you can fulfil fantasies you have seen in porn etc."
Your post makes no fucking sense.
I'm well educated and plan on obtaining a Doctorate. I don't like oral sex because... wait for it... I know this is weird... but it's because I don't like oral sex. Just like I don't enjoy some other sex acts too. It's not because I think I'm above them or because I'm educated - because I didn't like those sex acts *before* I started my tertiary education either. And I didn't enjoy them when I was still in school.
Lots of women into swinging are well educated, some are even doctors. Some are dirtier than the average population, some are not (there are some *very* vanilla swingers out there).
Liking oral sex has nothing to do with your level of education, and everything to do with what you enjoy in bed. |
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"Men often say... my ex hated giving me oral or that women dont like it.. and when i was working in that area many women confessed that they dont like to give.. so it seems outside of the lifestyle giving oral to a man isn't always something people enjoy.
Yet in 4 years as a couple. We havent met one lady that didn't enjoy it.
So what do you think.. Yeah been out with a few women who weren't into it. Got rid of them quickly. They wouldn't let me cum on them either had to finish in the condom. In their cases they were educated as well e.g. 1 was a junior doctor. I think they thought it was beneath them. That's the thing in this swinging a lot of the women are much dirtier let you do things you wouldn't necessarily be able to do in a vanilla relationship. I think that helps with appeal because you can fulfil fantasies you have seen in porn etc."
I think the junior doctor probably knew the risks of unprotected sex better than many.
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"Yeah been out with a few women who weren't into it. Got rid of them quickly. They wouldn't let me cum on them either had to finish in the condom. In their cases they were educated as well e.g. 1 was a junior doctor. I think they thought it was beneath them.
That's the thing in this swinging a lot of the women are much dirtier let you do things you wouldn't necessarily be able to do in a vanilla relationship. I think that helps with appeal because you can fulfil fantasies you have seen in porn etc.
Your post makes no fucking sense.
I'm well educated and plan on obtaining a Doctorate. I don't like oral sex because... wait for it... I know this is weird... but it's because I don't like oral sex. Just like I don't enjoy some other sex acts too. It's not because I think I'm above them or because I'm educated - because I didn't like those sex acts *before* I started my tertiary education either. And I didn't enjoy them when I was still in school.
Lots of women into swinging are well educated, some are even doctors. Some are dirtier than the average population, some are not (there are some *very* vanilla swingers out there).
Liking oral sex has nothing to do with your level of education, and everything to do with what you enjoy in bed."
It makes sense you are jumping the gun as per usual. I think it can be to do with upbringing though. I just said they were educated i never said that was the reason why. It was more to imply that those women thought they were classier. Which before you point out isn't always true. Yeah fully aware of the broad spectrum of people in swinging. A general consensus from non swingers would believe swingers to be more open minded regarding to sex though. |
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"I met a young couple from here, and she didn't suck cock, or kiss. I found it a very awkward and 'unsexy' meet, certainly not my favourite "
Sounds like it mate, can't imagine anything worse  |
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again."
He probably wanted to pay you a compliment but you failed to understand it. And may well have been that his wife in the room were the best cock sucker in the world so she had no issues overhearing the whisper,confident that no other woman can do better... . |
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again.
He probably wanted to pay you a compliment but you failed to understand it. And may well have been that his wife in the room were the best cock sucker in the world so she had no issues overhearing the whisper,confident that no other woman can do better... ."
I know he was trying to pay me a compliment. I didn't misunderstand, I clearly understood that he was putting his wife down in order to win favour with me.
Most women aren't daft enough to fall for this trick. |
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again.
He probably wanted to pay you a compliment but you failed to understand it. And may well have been that his wife in the room were the best cock sucker in the world so she had no issues overhearing the whisper,confident that no other woman can do better... .
I know he was trying to pay me a compliment. I didn't misunderstand, I clearly understood that he was putting his wife down in order to win favour with me.
Most women aren't daft enough to fall for this trick."
I've had this too and its amazingly cringy and disrespectful to their partners |
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Outside the swinging scene there is a huge amount of couples who have a pretty rigid routine regarding sex . Once or twice a week , the reward scenario , the keep him or her sweet scenario etc..... . This becomes the norm , and men and women in the company of their mates will make a point of saying how dull , boring , structured and unfulfilling their sex lives are .
It's difficult to see from their perspective unless you've been there , which lots of us have , and although I've never met a woman who didn't like giving oral , I've spoken to so many men who say their wives will only do it as a treat . Interestingly it was given way more often in the early months of their relationship .
One thing I do know is this . I am so glad my wife loves giving head , and I wouldn't want it any other way |
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By *olfy67Man
over a year ago
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I absolutely adore having my cock sucked. I also love to watch my wife suck another cock alongside mine. I like to help my wife suck cock. I also have a love of stimulating a nice clean cock with my lips, tongue and fingers before sucking it and playing with it and having a grand time.
Cocks and mouths are a fantastic combination. |
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My partner loves to suck my cock as she fucks herself with a dildo and I rub her clit. Her orgasms are mind-blowing. Fucking her after that is best ever - cunt dripping with juice as she comes again over my cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again.
He probably wanted to pay you a compliment but you failed to understand it. And may well have been that his wife in the room were the best cock sucker in the world so she had no issues overhearing the whisper,confident that no other woman can do better... .
I know he was trying to pay me a compliment. I didn't misunderstand, I clearly understood that he was putting his wife down in order to win favour with me.
Most women aren't daft enough to fall for this trick.I've had this too and its amazingly cringy and disrespectful to their partners "
But yet again, life isn't black & white. You think that you know that guy's motive but it is perfectly possible that you were wrong. He and his woman may have this joint 'trick' whereby the third person,you, is complimented while at the same time the wife knows full well that she is far superior cock sucker than you and feels perfectly secure. There is a kinky side too from the couple's point of view - an element of cheating,pretend jealousy or abuse. Similar to what cucks do...
Anyway, live and let live. If you think you know it all, remember that the truth may be 180 degrees the other direction. |
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I think you might be right.
We met a couple once and the guy told me in a whisper while his wife was in the room that I was better at sucking cock than his wife because it was obvious I enjoyed it etc etc. The disrespectful swine thinking he could fool her and me. Needless to say we never met again.
He probably wanted to pay you a compliment but you failed to understand it. And may well have been that his wife in the room were the best cock sucker in the world so she had no issues overhearing the whisper,confident that no other woman can do better... .
I know he was trying to pay me a compliment. I didn't misunderstand, I clearly understood that he was putting his wife down in order to win favour with me.
Most women aren't daft enough to fall for this trick.I've had this too and its amazingly cringy and disrespectful to their partners
But yet again, life isn't black & white. You think that you know that guy's motive but it is perfectly possible that you were wrong. He and his woman may have this joint 'trick' whereby the third person,you, is complimented while at the same time the wife knows full well that she is far superior cock sucker than you and feels perfectly secure. There is a kinky side too from the couple's point of view - an element of cheating,pretend jealousy or abuse. Similar to what cucks do...
Anyway, live and let live. If you think you know it all, remember that the truth may be 180 degrees the other direction. "
Ok. If you think you know better than me what was going on between me and this guy while my husband was fucking his wife. |
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"Men often say... my ex hated giving me oral or that women dont like it.. and when i was working in that area many women confessed that they dont like to give.. so it seems outside of the lifestyle giving oral to a man isn't always something people enjoy.
Yet in 4 years as a couple. We havent met one lady that didn't enjoy it.
So what do you think.. "
My wife doesn't like it. Maybe in 4 years she's done it 5/6 times. I'm not bothered by it. I think BJ are overated. Although there is nothing sexier than seeing a woman giving head. |
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"I think alot of guys who are in relationships who tell other women their wives/partners never want sex or never give them oral etc ??
90% of the time its bullshit talk in the hope they may get a sympathy shag or blowjob.
Same with the old line of...
My wifes fridged
My wife doesnt understand me
That married guys use when having affairs.
I know lots of guys who have hot wives who they have great sex with but these guys still like to fuck other women too.
And they all use the lines like stated above.
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The use of the word 'bullshit' in this post was very apt fella, and sums up my response entirely |
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I think BJ are overated "
I have only met one woman who could consistently make me cum from a bj alone, and by that, I mean, if I didn't stop her doing what she was doing, I would blow my load in double-quick time! Normally I need vaginal or anal penetration to make me cum. I suppose then, it's down to the lady |
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By *X guyMan
over a year ago
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"I am not shocked if people dont. Just never come aacross a lady that doesnt while playing ..
my ex wife didn't like it or she did like me giving it to her either so sex was a little boring really for me as I love it both ways xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope I don't really like doing it.
Will only do it if I am in the mood. But that's not often.
Same here tbh x"
Its nice that some women openly admitted they arnt that keen on this thread .
Cant beat a bit of honesty |
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"It depends on the person. If I'm really into them I can't get enough of it! I love knowing I made them feel so good. "
I think like many things it's so individual. Not even just the individual sucking, but the dynamic between the people involved, the mood, the context they're in and so many other factors.
My ex wife never wanted to, but since separating, I've been surprised how much women seem to enjoy it. |
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By *leedsMan
over a year ago
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We'll believe it or not when it comes to blowjobs I can quite happily take it or leave it...... Don't get me wrong, I don't dislike it but there are lots of other things that come higher up the list for me..... |
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"Nope I don't really like doing it.
Will only do it if I am in the mood. But that's not often.
Same here tbh x
Its nice that some women openly admitted they arnt that keen on this thread .
Cant beat a bit of honesty "
Well it's easier to set the bar low, if any good it is a bonus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been with a lady who didn't want to give oral. I'd be a bit surprised if I came across (ahem) a lady like this on a meet from here, but oral isn't the be all and end all so it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me |
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"Can't imagine sex without oral on both sides.dont even know if I could perform properly if my cock wasn't sucked and I wasn't allowed to taste the lady lol"
Agreed mate....wouldnt meet a woman who did not love oral both ways. |
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Quite shocked as I've never come across a woman who didn't like it..i knew a few who didn't do it because of past putdowns but like my mate says "having sex without getting head is like having a sandwich without the bread" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont like to do it, don't kvesnow why but Im just not a fan of it - although I love it when my hubby gives me oral, does that make me selfish"
Maybe. Maybe not we all like different things. Mildred is the same. She is not too keen on sucking cock. She will occasionally suck mine but not to completion. But she loves me eating her pussy.
I can take or leave a bj so it don't bother me. And I love eating pussy so it's all good for me |
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"i dont like to do it, don't know why but Im just not a fan of it - although I love it when my hubby gives me oral, does that make me selfish"
It doesn't make you selfish no, but it's surprising how many women think differently when the opposite is true |
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I used to see a married woman I worked with, who point blank refused to perform oral. Glad to say she didn't mind receiving! As much as I enjoy being on the receiving end, it isn't a deal breaker for me. It isn't as though sex begins and ends with oral! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore sucking a mans penis and actually get turned on more by giving oral than any other foreplay X
 a man's penis? Is there any other kind? Lol.
Oh that does sound weird sorry "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it.... don't want to *coughs* blow my own trumpet but I've been told I'm alright at it
....all men say that etc......yawn
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yes we are all the best at bjs. Can you really imagine a man saying youre pretty shit at this aren't you lol....Men will say anything while his cock is in your mouth so close to your teeth!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love having my cock sucked but dont enjoy giving oral
Well that's a bit selfish....."
It's not selfish to avoid activities that you don't like, that's a way of thinking that leaves people doing stuff just because they feel like they should (and they shouldn't if they don't enjoy it).
'I'm sorry, I don't enjoy that' should never be considered selfish when it comes to sex. Sex isn't about 'your go' then 'my go'. People don't time each other in bed. 'you still owe me another three minutes of oral sex before we can do penetration because I did 16 minutes last night and you only did 13 in return'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't imagine sex without oral on both sides.dont even know if I could perform properly if my cock wasn't sucked and I wasn't allowed to taste the lady lol"
You should get out there and try a wider variety of sexual activities then! If you can't imagine sex without oral, then it sounds like you've not tried very much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a few guys on twitter that I chat to and all their wives hate giving a bj, or never tried. Sadly sex is just once in a blue moon and the same each time.
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My married girlfriends generally say they don't like it but will do it to avoid having to having sex lol !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely love it...I enjoy it most with people I've got a connection with. It's more than a simple sex act, when I'm on my knees pleasuring a man with my mouth, there's a very complex mixture of feelings...it's both submissive and powerful at the same time. I love to really take my time, exploring with my lips, my tongue, my whole mouth, whilst listening to his response, gauging what he enjoys most, slowly bringing him to the edge then backing off...the whole experience ranges from erotic and sensual, to pure filth...and everything in between!
V x"
Brilliantly written & expressed! Get tingles just reading it ?? |
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yes we are all the best at bjs. Can you really imagine a man saying youre pretty shit at this aren't you lol....Men will say anything while his cock is in your mouth so close to your teeth!! "
It's if his cock goes limp, that says the most...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think most ladies would enjoy giving oral, but a host of factors conspire against this idea, such as:
Men not being as clean as they could be and maybe most ladies just want a quick suck rather than an all day deepthroat session etc etc. |
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