How scared of hurting your partners feelings are you? From messaging to socials to shagging. He's always in my mind. I never want to do/say anything that may hurt his feelings. I was just wondering how much people think about that side of swinging. |
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Talk plenty to each other, you will get to know the things that might upset each other.
If you know what might bother him, you can either reassure him and alay his concerns or avoid whatever it is.
Also you might be avoiding things unnecessarily.
Lots of comminication all round is key for stress free fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Op i always show Jables any conversations and give him a little 'that ok?'
I always know full well that whatever it may be is fine, but it's just that little bit of confirmation from him that reassures me  xxx
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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago
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We have clear boundaries, mostly mine! He's said he's up for anything and I can do anything with anyone pretty much.
It does sometimes feel a little unequal in an MMF where the other guy is straight though.
The one time I met someone by myself I felt I should even things up a bit so sent him off to meet someone from Grindr! |
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