"Anal play can help.
Wearing gloves satin, pvc, rubber
All gives different feelings.
Watch when he masterbates study his own techniques.
For me personally I like my balls being played with.
Mr. X"
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Don't put it fully in your mouth too soon, tongue licking and flicking around the head, then lips working the head. A finger up arse usually makes me pop. |
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When a guy cums during penetration or with masturbation, it is all through direct stimulation of the penis. The secret to making your partner cum through oral is to stimulate him in a similar way. Whilst anal or testicular stimulation can add to the sensory experience, it could also be distracting for him. What makes HIM cum? Fast, slow or varying? How much lubrication is right for him? Is your mouth dry and not providing the right feel? Ask HIM, what HE finds stimulating? Perhaps ask him to masturbate for you so you can observe what parts of the head he stimulates and how fast. Then you could return the favour describing what you do so he can improve his oral technique for you. I wish you all the best |
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I find it more difficult to climax receiving oral. Not sure why. I know when I have in the past it has been extremely intense and pleasurable.
I'd add anticipation to the mix. Maybe start with a massage (good way to introduce lube to his ass if you want to explore that too) and play around his cock. Build him up without actually playing with his cock. Then when you do he should be ready to finish.  |
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Mouthful of champagne (or prosseco) makes for a very intense experience, i just find varying it up, try different techniques and listen to the noises he makes to know what he is enjoying most |
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"Mouthful of champagne (or prosseco) makes for a very intense experience, i just find varying it up, try different techniques and listen to the noises he makes to know what he is enjoying most"
Have had this in the past. Bubbles or an ice cube make for a wholr different type of beej!  |
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Agree with the other guys in here...
Eye contact, anal play, tongue around the head, deep-throating (+slight gagging) are all good.
For me, lots of spit really gets me going - pausing to dribble loads more over me and playing with it using hands and mouth |
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"When a guy cums during penetration or with masturbation, it is all through direct stimulation of the penis. The secret to making your partner cum through oral is to stimulate him in a similar way. Whilst anal or testicular stimulation can add to the sensory experience, it could also be distracting for him. What makes HIM cum? Fast, slow or varying? How much lubrication is right for him? Is your mouth dry and not providing the right feel? Ask HIM, what HE finds stimulating? Perhaps ask him to masturbate for you so you can observe what parts of the head he stimulates and how fast. Then you could return the favour describing what you do so he can improve his oral technique for you. I wish you all the best"
Awesome advice thank you |
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I have to say that I struggle to cum when someone goes down on me. Usually I need to take over for a bit with my hand to get close before she uses her mouth again.
And btw just because I don't cum directly from a BJ doesn't mean I don't love them.
Ladies feel free to get in touch if you think you can get me there with no help. |
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As long as the woman sucking my cock listens to what I tell her to do I have no problem in coming especially if she is taking my spunk in her mouth and keeps on sucking |
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I came very early when I had my first bj and had a complaint for cumming in her mouth - I blame youthful exhuberance! But it meant that I was really sensetive about it and tended not to cum during a bj for quite a long time after that.
As everyone else has said, each to their own but eye contact, ball play and a focus on the tip and head rather than the shaft certainly help me. |
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I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum. |
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"I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum. "
This tbh. |
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
Tattooed and Frisky. That would work for me!! |
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OP,
You may have to accept that your man can't come from oral, just like some women can't have an orgasm through penatrative sex.
We are all wired differently, even after all these tips he might still not come. That isn't a reflection on you or your oral skills so please don't make it an issue for both of you if it doesn't happen |
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
Do your best to relax him. Kissing, stroking, licking other sensitive areas (i.e. not just his cock) can be hugely arousing and help him relax. Take your time. Don't concentrate on making him cum, I find when a girl tries to get me there before I'm ready it will have the opposite effect. Vary your technique and pace, listen and watch for reactions. I know when I'm getting head I like to let my partner know what she's doing well. Don't get too hung up on it if he doesn't cum though, sometimes it just isn't that easy for us, it's almost like a mental block sometimes. Also, I'm always aware of how long the female has been down there, and if she's uncomfortable or not! |
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"Deepthroat gets you boys cumming in no time!"
Only if she's good at it, and not forcing it, which can be awkward or painful!
But good deepthroat skills feel sublime! |
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
Everyone of my mates can't cum from blowjobs! Unless they wank it themselves, at the same time  |
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
It's got to be a bit of teasing my bottom, and plenty of talking! |
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
I envy people who can cum from a blowjob as personally I never have, and I've had some great blowjobs. Don't know the reason behind it though |
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I didn't cum from a bj for years
Then someone did it right and wow
I tend to like my head being played with the most and a good rhythm just like fucking
Oh and pressure on the underside of my shaft helps too
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"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:
Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?
And ladies what's your best blowjob tips? "
god knows, i hardly ever haver cum from one...they just don't do it for me really, they're ok and a bit of a giggle i guess but just not a lover of them...even had two women try at at once and still very little. some blokes are just that way |
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B goes crazy for them! He always finishes from my blowjobs. My tip is to mix it up and don't just use your mouth, use hands, tits etc and use his reactions to see what he likes and dislikes and play on those.
H x |
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"I must be weird but ball play and gagging aren't what I'm looking for in a bj. "
A woman gagging makes me sick and I've never really liked to much attention on my balls, I have never cum from a bj, I've never had enough of them or had them done for long enough to know if I can or unable to cum from receiving, I suppose it all depends how you're feeling at the time as well as how its been done |
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"I didn't cum from a bj for years
Then someone did it right and wow
I tend to like my head being played with the most and a good rhythm just like fucking
Oh and pressure on the underside of my shaft helps too
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Similar story here.
It took me years to cum from one,then bang
I like it not too gentle.If she says she's gonna suck it,then suck it hard,preferably while holding my balls and wanking me at the same time.Gets me every time.
Eye contact is very horny too |
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"I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum. "
When the woman loves giving a bj and shows it in her breathing and facial expressions, thats when it turns me on the most and has the ultimate effect. |
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