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over a year ago
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Hi all I need some tips.
I meet a guy and been saying for a few months but really miss the thrill of meeting people on here.
I have broached the subject broadly with him but he was a bit shocked by the topic and it was never mentioned again
So how have you got your other halfs involved? |
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"Hi all I need some tips.
I meet a guy and been saying for a few months but really miss the thrill of meeting people on here.
I have broached the subject broadly with him but he was a bit shocked by the topic and it was never mentioned again
Two ways. Zip ties n duck tape? Or new partner
So how have you got your other halfs involved?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let him see your profile, he'll either embrace it or run for the hills, either way you'll know  "
or he wont be very happy you have a profile already and dump you  |
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"Hi all I need some tips.
I meet a guy and been saying for a few months but really miss the thrill of meeting people on here.
I have broached the subject broadly with him but he was a bit shocked by the topic and it was never mentioned again
So how have you got your other halfs involved?"
We met on here. If you really like him, don't push him into getting involved and dont cheat in him. Look within as to why you feel the need to cheat on him or have sex with others .... |
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Talk to him. Sit down with him, tell him you like him a lot and you will respect his views but you enjoy swinging and don't want to stop. If he says no, respect that and work out how you're going to proceed.
If he isn't interested and you can't live without it you aren't compatible and it wouldn't be fair on either of you to continue. |
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"Hi all I need some tips.
I meet a guy and been saying for a few months but really miss the thrill of meeting people on here.
I have broached the subject broadly with him but he was a bit shocked by the topic and it was never mentioned again
Two ways. Zip ties n duck tape? Or new partner
So how have you got your other halfs involved?"
We are more doggers than swingers |
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Similar to a guy on here that was trying to get his wife into it
Just talk to him, if you do it in a positive way and reassure him that he's the one you'll be 'with' and playing with other people is foreplay , you never know , he might just give it a try (tiny steps tho)
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Ask him what his sexual fantasies are? My wife asked me some years ago and like most males I said a ffm threesome-she said she was up for trying that and would try and arrange one. However, after asking her how she was getting on I realised that she didnt really want to ask her friends and didnt know how to arrange it otherwise-so I suggested fab/clubs and we took it from there!
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