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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK so most of us know that not every "single guy" on here is actually single ... this come as a shock to some of you lol.
But what is actually worse the guy that goes behind his wifes back on here or the guy that is here already part of a swinging couple and still feels the need to cheat behind his partners back ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither. Both. I don't know their backstory and the journey they've taken to reach this point and why they make the choices they make. Each journey will be different so there's no definitive answer to your question!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would one half of a swinging couple need to cheat....that doesn't make any sense."
It depends on the terms of their swinging I guess? One half wants more? Someone that their partner doesn't want to play with? For the excitement of doing something taboo? Who knows? There are a multitude of reasons why anyone might cheat .. |
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Think I saw a marriage break up on here the other week when the wife found the husband had had a meet but tried to hide it. But when it comes to cheeting I think it depends on the situation, and even then is it fair to judge at all. A friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer and began sleeping around now whilst it hurt my friend she cheated on at the same time I can not tell how she felt being told she could die from cancer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would one half of a swinging couple need to cheat....that doesn't make any sense."
I have been asked a few times by the male half of a couple to meet him alone. My answer has always been no. I try not to judge but don't understand how they can do it. Other people's conscience isn't my responsibility. |
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"Why would one half of a swinging couple need to cheat....that doesn't make any sense."
Some people will cheat whatever their situation. Years ago I knew a woman whose husband just serially cheated on her, in the end I think he was doing it because he measured how much she loved him by the hurt she clearly felt. I silently cheered the day she left him.
I digress but people cheat for various reasons and sometimes its their insecurities that drive it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would one half of a swinging couple need to cheat....that doesn't make any sense."
I question the same, but they do. I'd love to be the "single" girl in a mff, but he doesn't? approve. If I were to go behind his back and do it anyway, it's still cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both as bad as each other. Been cheated on a couple times and its a horrible horrible experience, no matter what anyone says there is never an excuse for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK so most of us know that not every "single guy" on here is actually single ... this come as a shock to some of you lol.
But what is actually worse the guy that goes behind his wifes back on here or the guy that is here already part of a swinging couple and still feels the need to cheat behind his partners back ?
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Our personal opinion is that cheating is cheating regardless.
Dont care about the backstory... If you are outside of your relationship without agreement, no matter the reason, we don't want to be involved.
We have 28 years under our belts, over 23 of those married and we don't want to be used by others to cheat on their partners for any reason. |
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